Is Dev really that Wrong ? or Should Sona change her approach ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Tinkerfairy

wow so no matter what sona should be punching bag .

Why every time Guy's stupid actions should be justified just because he has terrible past 👏👏👏

Desi Television logic

and Girls should not be allowed to have mistakes,or she should always bend in front of her husband 😛

Like I said in the post... this applies to both... Man and wife...

Dev told her to give him space... she didnt listen... Dev did not use her as punching bag... infact he was not even thinking about what Sona is saying.. he was thinking about his moms ehsaan lecture...and trying to figure how how he can return the ehsaan now.. he know vicky doesnt deserve but that is not the point here

I am just talking about Dev-SOna's conv .. Dev asked for space Sona did not listen ... kept coming onto him. he tried to explain but she doesnt understand... he didnt have the patient to explain his feelings at that time... I am sure he will later...it is just that was not the right time.

Next day ... Sona coming on to Dev with her "why you took my right of making decisions away" when she knows why he had to take the decision... She should have taken a different approach to talk about the issue... instead of blaming him just like how Ishwari does.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

I know... I see so many ppl lashing at Dev but i find Sona's behavior not acceptable.. .she is trying to over achieve in a very short period of time.. .She needs to take it easy .. this is not a new kingdom and she has to replace the existing ruler overnight... first observe and understand the complexities and then go on suggestions spree...

Dev knows and understands what is right for vicky and what is not.. .But that is not the point... Dev is just trying to do what he could to maintain peace in the house...

Dev indirectly also trying to ensure ppl dont keep on hating Sona for Vicky's trainee position...

Vicky said it right "pagalon ke jaise yaha waha phirti rehti ho.. kaam tho kuch hai nahi tujhe"... seriously sona should go back to work... like NOW

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M

In Dev's case it's Eshaan

I am not questioning the show story here... i am just judging today's scenes... you all should know i am actually a very strong Sona supporter... But She is trying to be a "jack of all trades and master of none".

Please dont get me wrong... I am not supporting Dev's lashing out at her... read the title of the thread... HE is wrong... but is he really that wrong ?? and Sona is a saint ??

When did Dev abuse her ? when did she have to bend down before Dev ? Didnt he tell he is a complicated man to live with ?? didnt she say she is ready for all ... So knowing all the complexities, how is she helping him ? She by now knows that He is under a lot of pressure of expectations ? how should she help with that problem ?? Should she be supportive or question her authority over his company decisions ?

Didnt Sona ask for space on their first night ? did Dev pressurize her ? why cant she give him space when he asked for it today ? why did she have to keep trying to understand his past ... right at that moment... is that the right time ?

I knew it wasn't not going to be the popular opinion, but I saw today's interactions exactly the way you did. To me, it doesn't seem like Sona is a punching bag at all; nobody other than GKB goes out of their way to lash out at her. But, as an amateur, if she insists on jumping into the ring in the middle of an age-old fight, where the other fighters are much more seasoned, then she is bound to take some hard punches. Isn't it better to watch from the sidelines for a few rounds, and understand the rules, if you have to enter the ring at all?

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

I knew it wasn't not going to be the popular opinion, but I saw today's interactions exactly the way you did. To me, it doesn't seem like Sona is a punching bag at all; nobody other than GKB goes out of their way to lash out at her. But, as an amateur, if she insists on jumping into the ring in the middle of an age-old fight, where the other fighters are much more seasoned, then she is bound to take some hard punches. Isn't it better to watch from the sidelines for a few rounds, and understand the rules, if you have to enter the ring at all?

I totally understand her desperation to cement her place in this family before another catastrophe, but her methods are only making her position worse. It reminds me so much of Dev's argument during their SR fight, "my intentions were right!" But that's just the point isn't it? Intentions are only half the battle... the other half is execution. Sona has every right to know about Dev's past and the effect it has on him, but there is also a time and place for these discussions to happen. A moment when Dev feels absolutely dreadful about himself for letting his mother down, on the one hand, and having to compromise his morals on the other, is just not that time and place.

I was kind of with her on Vicky, though. I know it would be best to let Vicky be the cause of his own demise, but unfortunately, now that Dev has taken on this responsibility, he would never let that happen. He will cover for Vicky every time he messes up, because that is what Ishwari expects, and let himself take the brunt of Vicky's mistakes. Vicky needs someone there to get under his skin and make him show his true colours more often. I kind of loved Sona's macho, protective streak 😳😆

Thanks Sam... I know i will be in minority today and majority of the post will be bashing Dev and calling Sona punching bag... But i reallly dont see it that way...
If Sona wants she can stand up and give it back to GKB in her own style... and she does it too once in a while.
I am a very strong supporter of Sona but I couldnt support her choices today. Yes, I do like the Macho sona or wanna be Super woman.. I am too worried for all the troubles she will bring upon herslef because of that...
Dev can protect Vicky from loses... but i ca see vicky selling Dev off one day... When that day comes ... we will all be sitting and enjoying the show..when dixits have to live off Sona's salary.

Originally posted by: Jade0001

Dev did ask Sona to give him space he needed just few moments of alone time to figure out his messed situation but she perhaps did not really understand and he lashed out on her yes maybe he was wrong but what else does a person do when they frustrated asked to be left alone and are still been persisted surely an outburst is the next thing I don't see Dev been wrong here .

Absolutely.. I can only say Dev was human and Sona was trying to be Ishwari today..

from my experience,

Dev now you know what you discuss with your wife should just remain with you. See the cost of blabbering about your wives idea 😆

Sorry Lavu, I expected this yesterday and I am neither with Sona nor with Dev. He opens his mouth at the wrong time and keeps mum at the wrong time too. Sona has to get back to her job ASAP. Don't want to jump my guns regarding the precap. Let it play out. And I loved Sona - Vicki tashan. She will always remain a pain in his a**. 😆

Sorry lavanya, but this time I have to differ with you. I think it is not about Sona here. It is more about priorities and sensibilities! This completely over the top drama seen today, resulting in Dev screaming at his wife is just not acceptable behavior by a husband. It only shows that Dev has not understood one crucial aspect of the mystery of marriage and marrying a girl like