Originally posted by: VIMAL.M
I have seen not all girls r so lucky enough to get equal rights.Be it in her own family or in her sasural.They had to fight to get equal rights.There is nothing wrong in fighting for their rights.
Now all r ready to understand why Dev behaved like this.But not ready to understand why Sona got upset in preacap.All r blaming her n saying she is behaving like Ish.A women comes in to new house holding her husband hand.If that husband does not suppourt his wife n take a stand for his wife against his family member.Who don't leave a chance to taunt her.How will the wife behave.She has already saw how Dev left her for his mom.Why no one is understanding Sona's fear.But r ready to understand Dev's POV.Why he yelled at Sona.But not ready to understand why Sona asked Dev how can he take decision alone for both.Because in past also he as taken decision alone.When Sona took decision alone to keep fast.He was upset how can she do that.When he can get upset n fight with Sona reg this.When Dev does the same.Why we always expect Sona to understand Dev's state of mind.Why don't we ask Dev to understand Sona's state of mind.Dev is in his own house.His comfortable environment.Sona is in new environment.It will be hard for Sona to get used to the environment.Because Sona is women she need to understand Dev.If it is about understanding reg of gender both Husband N Wife should understand each other.It is not only wife's duty to understand her Husband,his family etc.,. It's is also Husband's duty to understand his wife,her family etc.,. Relationship is two way not one way.
Sona believed what Dev said.He said business is ours.I will stand by U.But as usual he does not stand by what he said.He always say to Sona don't leave me.Fight for me.He never said I will not leave U .I will fight for U.
I honestly what a reality check for Sona.I only said.Ignore the past.But now things r going too much out of hand.Sona need to think about past.What Dev did.What now he is doing.How Ish ,Vicky N GKB r behaving with her.She should think it's worth to fight for their love n respect.Compromising on her self respect.I badly hope CV's show a strong Sona.Who has self respect.Who concentrate on her career.Also help her family.Who r in financial crisis.Enough of Sona trying to become best bahu to win Ish love.Also does not give any advice to Dev.Because he don't value it. Dev be it during relation,after break up,patch up n now after marriage.He has not been man of his words.
Completely Agree with your view.
@Red: Yes, not able to take this.
When Ishwari confronted Dev about his decision towards Vicky infront of Sona, and her indirect advice not to involve or consult Sona in business matters, GKB's taunts etc. Even though Sona felt bad about her state, she didn't fight with Dev, that he didn't take stand for her infront of his family, in turn she came to support him on his decision, which she felt correct. Atleast if Sona fought with Dev for her rights and his silence towards all taunt(which is also not wrong) we can say she is behaving like Ish.
But going by precap, she is questioning Dev that, he is one who told business and everything is ours(both) and encouraged her and accepted her opinion. But, the very next day he is taking a turn and asks her to stay away or keeps her away from these matters. Ofcourse, Sona know what made him to change his decision, its Ishwari's view(manipulation).
Today, he expects her to stay away from business things, then tomorrow he expects the same from Neha's matter also(after Ishwari's manipulation) and next day with next other matter. So, finally when Ish again has problem with Sona, he may be ready to have breakup with Sona... which is exact the same happened before. So, where is the change, where is the acceptance..nothing changed its same old Dev, thats what the Sona's fear and problem.
I think, from this incident, Sona will get the idea that even though Dev want and wish to come out of his past, Ishwari is not allowing him to come out instead she is again pulling back him into the dark past. So, may be now she will concentrate more on Ishwari's action and will find out that she got struck with in her past and inturn holding Dev also in that and about her insecurities too.
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