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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

That kala saiya thing was so bad.Dev was a mute spectator.He don't have guts to shut his mami.Who insulted his wife.

Sorry to say this.Producer n story is developed by Women,show is written by two women.Yet they show Women like this.So weak.Who cannot stand for her.Sona after marriage.Not for once she thought about her job.For TRP a Nutrition is projected without any self respect.Today epi was huge disappointment.

Sorry I don't find any reality in the show now a days.This is not reality at all.This all illogical stuff added just to get more ratings.

Edited by VIMAL.M - 8 years ago

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vibg

@vibg

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#22

sonakshi deserves all of it for rushing into marriage, despite her dad's advice to wait!

sonakshi deserves it for continuing to poke her nose in everything, despite being told to stay out!

sonakshi deserves it for loving a man selflessly, despite him loving his mother more!

sonakshi deserves it for wanting to be loved by MIL, despite MIL not even treating her as a human!

sonakshi deserves it for believing Dev's empty words, despite him never standing by them!

these are her crimes.. oh yeah.. She is a woman!!! a woman in love with a spineless, brainwashed man who has been raised to be a slave to his mother and his family😡

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vibg

@vibg

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: Divine-Pearl
Why on this earth people like Dev think about marraige?
When they have no spine and all they believe in 'Ma ka pallu'

you know why.. only one thing😉 but woh bhi bechare ko nahin mila? he is a frustrated man in every which way😡

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aadk

@aadk

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: tia.o
You deserve it Sona!!!

You deserve to be humiliated because you believed his words that the life you share is both of yours whereas you are just a doll his mother got for him who is not playing her role properly as per his wishes either.

You deserve to be shown your proper place because you dared to think about your husband's welfare in a home where you live on his family's charity.

You deserve to pay for your crime because you chose to shut down your brain and believe in your love instead.

You deserve to be belittled because you were trying too hard to belong in a family that belongs to everyone but to you.

You deserve to be put into your place by your husband who promised to always stand by your side, your mother-in-law because you forgot your place in that house, your aunt-in-law because you exist, your cousin-in-law because you are a maid who forgot her status and everyone else including the servents because they can walk out and you can't.

You deserve every insults thrown at you because you believed in your love when he has never given you any reason to believe in him except in the most frivolous cases when he has no other pressing problem taking his attention.

And you deserve to suffer with your mouth shut and your dignity bruised because you are a woman and this is your reality!!!

P.S. Sorry for my rant. But I just could not take it anymore. I am not one of those women who can watch a woman being humiliated and can ignore it as reality or try to excuse the man because he is a man.

This weekend is my husband's birthday who is not Dev Dixit (thank God). But he is my hero. I am used to a strong man who stand by his convictions and decisions. He takes suggestions and request, but he doesn't tolerate demands nor disrespectful behaviour.

So I am just going to go and celebrate my husband... Feel free to use this post to vent your frustration as some of you I know will have.

I guess I have got a different point of view as far as Dev' actions in today' episode are concerned. The episode took me back to one of the old episodes where Dev and Sonakshi disagree over the former gifting a new flat to Ranveer and Neha. The two disagreed with each other, tried to understand and yet failed to see the other' point of view back then. But the one learning that the whole process taught them was to love each other in spite of not being able to see where the perceptions of the other person are coming from. If the two could be mature enough to realise this back then, then what exactly makes them scream and scowl at each other now? Where does one draw the line between 'mera' and 'hamara' in the institution of marriage? I personally am of the belief that every individual should be free enough to take a decision based on his/her own judgement as long as it doesn't directly affect the one you are sharing your life with. Am no way justifying Dev' action, rather am only in support of his right to decision. Dev relates almost all of his childhood with that feeling of snatching away his sisters' share of privileges and being looked at with those hurtful eyes. Dev' past grips him in hard ways. And being true to his impulsive nature and the habit of wanting to quickly fix things, he does the necessary damage control. But that no way makes his decision right! It's far easier to give Vicky a high profile job as a way of thanking mamaji for all that he had done for the Dixits. BUT, it's way more difficult to take the tough decision of making Vicky 'able' first and hence 'worthy' later. But alas, Dev babu fails miserably every time he is gripped by his past. And as far as Sonakshi is concerned, I feel she should voice her opinions and yet let Dev make his decisions as long as they don't directly affect her. Regarding the humiliation that she suffering in the Dixit mansion, I have got nothing much to say other than seriously hoping to see her realising and standing by her own individuality which she has compromised on way too much for unworthy people.

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Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: VIMAL.M
That kala saiya thing was so bad.Dev was a mute spectator.He don't have guts to shut his mami.Who insulted his wife.

Sorry to say this.Producer n story is developed by Women,show is written by two women.Yet they show Women like this.So weak.Who cannot stand for her.Sona after marriage.Not for once she thought about her job.For TRP a Nutrition is projected without any self respect.Today epi was huge disappointment.

Sorry I don't find any reality in the show now a days.This is not reality at all.This all illogical stuff added just to get more ratings.

No Vimal it's reality of my mom and I could change it only after she suffered for20 yrs...

And because it is fiction they can show how Sona claims her respect back.why should she listen to taunts and indecent behavior...

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

#26

Bang On Post.CV's if they want to show reality.They could have shown Sona moving on in life.Not marrying Dev.Sona was shown so stupid in love.She knowing everything.Yet she got married.She know when comes to mom Dev will not see any one.If she shout at Dev also.If he patch up with her.Again if any issue occurs n his mom questions him.He will scold Sona only.CV's to show after marriage drama to increase rating.Destroyed Sona character n also destroying the show.With too much drama.

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rahulvats12

@rahulvats12

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: tia.o
You deserve it Sona!!!

You deserve to be humiliated because you believed his words that the life you share is both of yours whereas you are just a doll his mother got for him who is not playing her role properly as per his wishes either.

You deserve to be shown your proper place because you dared to think about your husband's welfare in a home where you live on his family's charity.

You deserve to pay for your crime because you chose to shut down your brain and believe in your love instead.

You deserve to be belittled because you were trying too hard to belong in a family that belongs to everyone but to you.

You deserve to be put into your place by your husband who promised to always stand by your side, your mother-in-law because you forgot your place in that house, your aunt-in-law because you exist, your cousin-in-law because you are a maid who forgot her status and everyone else including the servents because they can walk out and you can't.

You deserve every insults thrown at you because you believed in your love when he has never given you any reason to believe in him except in the most frivolous cases when he has no other pressing problem taking his attention.

And you deserve to suffer with your mouth shut and your dignity bruised because you are a woman and this is your reality!!!

P.S. Sorry for my rant. But I just could not take it anymore. I am not one of those women who can watch a woman being humiliated and can ignore it as reality or try to excuse the man because he is a man.

This weekend is my husband's birthday who is not Dev Dixit (thank God). But he is my hero. I am used to a strong man who stand by his convictions and decisions. He takes suggestions and request, but he doesn't tolerate demands nor disrespectful behaviour.

So I am just going to go and celebrate my husband... Feel free to use this post to vent your frustration as some of you I know will have.

relax...why r u so angry on dev.
It's human behaviour when we r tensed, we also don't know what is wrong or right at that time. am sure, when dev will feel relax, he will surely ashamed of himself.
these kind of arguments do happen in real life.Aisi ladaiya hoti hai normal couples me.
The important thing is how both of them together sort out the issues.
He was and still is always burdened with the family responsibilites and the thought that what his family had done for him and he has to return the favor to them all his life.
And when he went back to his room he was thinking about all those words of his mom. About his new relationship. Her taunts... And the past she reminded him of and that was the time Sona came and he lashed out.
Yes he was not at all right. He was absolutely wrong in doing so.
But is this how human behavior is. There are times we want to be alone. We want some peace to think and take decision on our own. And sometimes not intentionally, but unitentionally we take out our anger at the one close to us.
AND why girls always talk about their right
kabhi kabhi situation bhi understand kr liya kro that
why dev did like this and reacts like that.

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thedramaqueen

@thedramaqueen

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: vibg
sonakshi deserves all of it for rushing into marriage, despite her dad's advice to wait!
sonakshi deserves it for continuing to poke her nose in everything, despite being told to stay out!

sonakshi deserves it for loving a man selflessly, despite him loving his mother more!

sonakshi deserves it for wanting to be loved by MIL, despite MIL not even treating her as a human!

sonakshi deserves it for believing Dev's empty words, despite him never standing by them!

these are her crimes.. oh yeah.. She is a woman!!! a woman in love with a spineless, brainwashed man who has been raised to be a slave to his mother and his family😡

That's the issue.

She loves this man. But remind yourself why did she fall for hi . His looks and his dedication to his family.

Why did he fall for her. Her sensibility and her care for HIS family.

Go figure

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rose4ever

@rose4ever

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Hey Tia, I made a post about it,so just pasting the same here.

Silence shall prevail.Oh ,not for the great Ishwari, GKB or Vicky,but for Dev.

If Ishwari made my blood boil yesterday ,Dev was no less today.I can't believe I hoped Dev would speak up for Sonakshi knowing how blind, deaf and dumb he becomes when it comes to Ishwari.Well, this brought me back to my senses.

Let's have a look at the dialogues today.

GKB:Na jane kiska kala saaya pad gaya hai is ghar pe

Dev:Silent. No reaction,no feelings towards Sonakshi whatsoever. Only bothered about Vicky's absence.

Me: Of course Dev, you become deaf as soon as anybody insults your wife.lalalalalala yeah? Let me just punch you once,I am sure you are fully capable of ignoring and not feeling that as well.

Ishwari: 1)Agar tune Sonakshi se baat nai ki hoti to kya yahi faisla leta?

2)Ab tu apni bhai ke zindagi ka faisla apni patni se puch ke lega?

3)Sonakshi ke sujhav sunna tera farz hai par jo farz maine yaad dilaya wo bhul gaya

4)Rishto ki mithaas etc etc,muje laga maine tuje sikhaya tha Dev*glances at Sonakshi*par lagta hai tune baat unsuni kardi

Interpretation: In short,whatever Sona says, my decision will prevail, no matter how senseless or ridiculous it is. I am God.Bow down, shut up and accept my order.

Afterwards,Dev to Sonakshi: Ye tumahre bare me nahi hai Sona.

Me: Such intelligence.He has to be one of the most intelligent people to exist.*slow claps*

Vicky:Main samaj gaya,main hun kya,kuch bhi nai

Dev:Silent

Me:Common sense,business sense,logic,brains anyone?Hmm guess not.

Dev, Ishwari & Mamaji on ehsaan and family.

Me:Hmm,I didn't know families helps each other through difficult times to hang a sword of obligations over each other for a lifetime.This was a new lesson for me.Make a list of all good deeds done by your family so that you can spend your life as their slave as a thank you for their help.Oh and personal happiness is a big no no.I was so naive in such matters before this show.

Dev(shouts):Enough Sonakshi.Tum chup nahi rahogi to main sochunga kaise

Me:You can't think,that requires you to use your brain,which you don't .Ever.Ishwari is your brainAnd yeah, so much love and repect for your wife Dev.Husband goals.NOT.

Vicky:Maid, No job, gold digger etc etc

Sona: I'll keep a watch on you.

Me:Hellooo? I am looking for Sonakshi's self respect and ability to answer/slap.Anybody found it?

Precap:Suffice to say.it is equally infuriating.

Sonakshi,darling, an advice for you.Go back to your job.What are you waiting for? For Dev to throw you out of the house?And please ,if you intend to stay with Dev,kindly refrain from giving any suggestions to anybody including Dev.You can see how much he values and respects both you and your suggestions.But, you jumped into the marriage, didn't you?Well,you can see why you were wrong to do so.

A suggestion?Pack your bags and move out.Maybe Dev can bring you back after he gets his senses back from mommy's cage.

PS:Enjoy special moments with your husband😊As Gemini says,reality is so much more beautiful.

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vibg

@vibg

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

That's the issue.

She loves this man. But remind yourself why did she fall for hi . His looks and his dedication to his family.

Why did he fall for her. Her sensibility and her care for HIS family.
Go figure

so true. but that's the issue... his dedication to his family is not being reciprocated at all. in fact, his family (READ his mother) is his biggest enemy. sona knew of all the issues between ishwari/dev but what she didn't know was his "slave" status😡

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