Because You Are A Woman!!! - Page 4

Sometimes I feel you watch episode just to pin point problems in it no offense but thats what I feel.. and bhagwaan ki daya se aaj ka toh episode bhi aisa tha..anyways

you are a maid who forgot her status and everyone else including the servents because they can walk out and you can't.

First of all Sona is no maid naukar kaam wali in that house..even if Dixit family hasn't accepted her still..and walking out is easy solution.. but sustaining and standing firm is difficult part

Next Dev and Sonakshi's relationship..According to you Dev doesnt deserve her but why..I dont know..why he doesnt deserve her..I see no reason..example-today's scene where Sona came to comfort him share his worry ( yes what she did was right ) and he wildly shouted on her so or (according to you "insulted" her) ..ok Whats the big deal in it..husbands dont shout on wives ..or wives dont shout on husband..they do its a very normal part of any X Y Z relationship not just husband wife ..so does that mean they don't deserve each other or Sonakshi is too good for him O.o nope..did he "insult" her if he said he wants to be alone??..NO..He just wanted to left alone..simple as that..Sonakshi could see what turmoil he is going through & she behaved patiently..otherwise she would have shouted too..but would have been right..NO..if one partner is in chaos other has to stay sorted..whether its Sona or Dev.. If she stayed calm does that mean she is one foolish women and Dev doesnt value her.. NO.. as an individual dignity self respect are very important and should be their but in a relationship dignity self respect are LOVE EMOTIONS UNDERSTANDING SELFLESSNESS & SACRIFICING..yes thats what Dev and Sona too have..its not just Sona who is & will give everything but Dev too has and will give all in to it..

Now what Dev said to Sonakshi..he said she cant understand yes ..she cant to some extent..though she will try her best to do so ..I know..but when your past is too painful ..you cant explain your emotions you are unable put them in front of anyone..even your wife..though he wanted to get rid of it but was constantly struggling..and for an emotional person like him..his wounds got scratched again by his mothr and he was miserable again..I know eventually it will be Sonakshi who will take him out of his past which Ishwari doesnt want him to let go coz she is the one who is and will be his strength

You deserve to pay for your crime because you chose to shut down your brain and believe in your love instead.

^^Believing in love isnt crime ..you have to put your heart soul in a relationship in love ..their is no set formula which one can apply when you fall in love..brain works on logics and heart works on emotions

Well how rest of the Dixit family is I cant waste my energy on them..they dont value Sonakshi coz they see her as outsider sooner or later they will realize ..specially Ishwari..when she will see ..jisko toy samjha she is soul of her son ..and she will repent every action of hers..its just matter of time ..

Lastly sab kuch black and white mein nahi hota their is grey too..Girls sacrifice but they get back equally too ..sometimes easily sometimes with struggle..everyone has to face their share of problems..and they come out as winners..they dont stop living their life..love gives you strength support..power to face all..

I am no one to change your opinion but I would surely like to make some impact if I can..anyways..its your POV..and this is mine :)

I am girl too and very emotional..I do think from my heart yes when its matter of my near dear ones..so my thoughts might not appeal everyone one..in my relationship I will never hesitate to give all and I know I will get back

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

AND why girls always talk about their right
kabhi kabhi situation bhi understand kr liya kro that
why dev did like this and reacts like that.

Originally posted by: rahulvats12

AND why girls always talk about their right
kabhi kabhi situation bhi understand kr liya kro that
why dev did like this and reacts like that.

Yup she deserves it. But since she learnt her lesson, now it's time for her to fix her life. She should get her marriage annulled and go back to being a Bose. This marriage is just Dev's zidd and her ignorance. So it's a child marriage anyway. She should treat Dev and his damned family as a dark dream and move on in her life. She shouldn't bother to be part of a family where she is considered an outsider. She shouldn't wish them well and advise as they don't care about her well being. It's time for Sona to leave them behind. Honestly Dev's promises of supporting her have become a joke because he lets his family walk all over Sona in front of his eyes and says nothing. So Sona doesn't have to keep her promises of staying by his side forever either.

Women are our own enemies

I am glad to read that you have a wonderful husband, so do I and let me boast about that please 😎 But even though our proposal was organized by family, we took a good 1 yr time to check our compatibility and each other's characteristics before we got married. And I am happy to see that he is exactly the opposite of a guy like Dev Dixit.

I have seen not all girls r so lucky enough to get equal rights.Be it in her own family or in her sasural.They had to fight to get equal rights.There is nothing wrong in fighting for their rights.

Now all r ready to understand why Dev behaved like this.But not ready to understand why Sona got upset in preacap.All r blaming her n saying she is behaving like Ish.A women comes in to new house holding her husband hand.If that husband does not suppourt his wife n take a stand for his wife against his family member.Who don't leave a chance to taunt her.How will the wife behave.She has already saw how Dev left her for his mom.Why no one is understanding Sona's fear.But r ready to understand Dev's POV.Why he yelled at Sona.But not ready to understand why Sona asked Dev how can he take decision alone for both.Because in past also he as taken decision alone.When Sona took decision alone to keep fast.He was upset how can she do that.When he can get upset n fight with Sona reg this.When Dev does the same.Why we always expect Sona to understand Dev's state of mind.Why don't we ask Dev to understand Sona's state of mind.Dev is in his own house.His comfortable environment.Sona is in new environment.It will be hard for Sona to get used to the environment.Because Sona is women she need to understand Dev.If it is about understanding reg of gender both Husband N Wife should understand each other.It is not only wife's duty to understand her Husband,his family etc.,. It's is also Husband's duty to understand his wife,her family etc.,. Relationship is two way not one way.

Sona believed what Dev said.He said business is ours.I will stand by U.But as usual he does not stand by what he said.He always say to Sona don't leave me.Fight for me.He never said I will not leave U .I will fight for U.

I honestly what a reality check for Sona.I only said.Ignore the past.But now things r going too much out of hand.Sona need to think about past.What Dev did.What now he is doing.How Ish ,Vicky N GKB r behaving with her.She should think it's worth to fight for their love n respect.Compromising on her self respect.I badly hope CV's show a strong Sona.Who has self respect.Who concentrate on her career.Also help her family.Who r in financial crisis.Enough of Sona trying to become best bahu to win Ish love.Also does not give any advice to Dev.Because he don't value it. Dev be it during relation,after break up,patch up n now after marriage.He has not been man of his words.