Mentality!!! - Page 5

Originally posted by: amina1

Thats thr reason i dont watch tv now,its just now and than,i think dev will have to choose between his mom and wife,this guy is too much he tells his wife he loves her the most and say the same thing to his mother😆

Originally posted by: tia.o

I am not blaming Dev for loving both his mother and his wife because the love he has for each are not the same. But don't forget the insults of your wife either. If you truly love both the most, then just like you won't tolerate your mother's insult, don't tolerate your wife's insult either. Being a good son and a good husband is not mutually exclusive.

Originally posted by: sia.krpkab

Your post has rightly pointed out the sickening mentality of the society. And I completely agree with you on this.

Dev is such a disappointment.. He hasn't learnt anything from his disastrous breakup. Sona reacted a lot, could have been softer but to be honest, with Dev's oblivion and remarks on his mother's insult and fish fiasco, he totally deserved all the bashing from her.

I don't understand why men feel 'sandwiched' between their mothers and wives. Just be sensible, fair and differentiate between what is right or wrong or what is acceptable or unacceptable. In today's age and times, women don't want husbands to side with them, just man up to what you signed up for in a marriage. We don't want saviours, just treat us equal - that's more than redemption if Dev could manage that! Phew.

Excellent post!

I agree completely.

1-For Sona-

Even if it not her wedding, Had it been just another day Sona has full rights to share his problems,express her anger and frustration in front of Dev. If she will not share her problems with Dev ,who else she will go then?

If she will go to her own family to discuss her post-marriage issues, wont it create an insecure space between Dev and Sona?

Will Dev prefer Sona discussing her family issues to outsiders just because Dev needs his peace of mind ?

Will he prefer Sona doing tittle-tattle talks to others?

Doing so Sona is just ensuring that things are sorted out at their personal level despite of a heavy turbulence outside.

For Dev:-

I am extremely disappointed with Dev. He has always been giving silent treatment to Sona in front of his family when they defame her. He doesn't even feel the need to discuss things in private afterwards. Nothing was ever talked about or resolved by Dev. I feel an enormous amount of emotional and mental pain given to Sona is because of Dev's silence treatment. Even if Sona tries to talk to him numerous times ,urging him to open up his eyes,he just refuses to talk about that or leave it just like that on an open ended note.

He is always reluctant to acknowledge that his mother has a problem with Sona and he chooses to take preferential alternative of either getting back to lovey-dovey talks or bashing Sona's family unreasonably.

Sona is trying her level best not to keep any gray area between Dev and herself. Dev's silence treatment may take her to at a point(probably to a never ending cool-off period) where she may stop talking to him about ANYTHING. Marriage is not supposed to be like that. If you don't face or resolve the problem as in when they come, the other person is bound to make several assumptions which may or may not be in your favor. Right now Dev is giving this scope to Sona to make assumptions which might cause a permanent wear and tear to their relationship.

So I feel not just Sona but Dev needs to discuss things as well. If they are uncomfortable or unable to speak up in public out of respect /dignity whatever ,they can at least ensure that things are sorted out in their personal space.

Originally posted by: thedramaqueen

I wanted to respond to this post. apologies if this has already been discussed. The fact is, in weddings, both sides almost always feel like they were insulted. And the show depicts the same.

I dont think Sona had to have a physical relationship with her husband on Night 1... Nor is it unfair to fight on Night 1. Many couples I am sure do. However, what the makers showed us all so well and made some of us dislike Sona that night, was that there was no need to shout at Dev in front of his family.

Dev-Sona need to look at the big picture. They got to ignore this crass language and focus on 'us'. Tuesday's episode showed exactly that. Dev with his puppy face and Sona with her sensible talk... I am glad that the suhagrat tension made tuesday so much more lovely

Originally posted by: Juhi.m

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