Back with a Bang!!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: AnnaPaquinFan

Well as for Dev's body language, I'd say he did look hopeful as well as a little worried when Tina informed him about Sonakshi's sudden visit, the way he nearly jumped out of his chair and rushed to her asking her to sit , it was almost as if he's ready for another round of rebuke , yet there was a hint of smile which immediately waned when she declared, " I've not come here to sit. " It confirmed his fear that she's come to fight and not to patch up.

He did look pretty relaxed during the later part of the conversation , because I guess he was just tired , drained out , he's clueless as to from where he should start MIssion-get-back_sona , despite her telling him clearly where the root of the problem lies , in their previous conversation and also the fact he couldn't help but feel confident to some extent that now that the main road block for their marriage according to him , his mother's non-acceptance has been removed ,sooner or later Sonakshi will come around to agreeing, now that fear of losing her to another man is removed from his mind plus he's rejoicing his mother's approval. Also when Ishwari was looking at Dev from his bedroom door , he looked tense , lost in thought n sulking.

It's only when Sona let him know that his God had come to their house to manaofy her and her parents and yet both she and her parents outright rejected the proposal , he went pale and did look very sad.

Point to be noted , Dev is extremely sensitive about his mom and her respect , so the fact that he didn't find it below his God's dignity to pay that visit to Sona , says some thing. He once again sulked , suitable to his age 8 yr age , why isn't she agreeing even after "MOM-The-God" herself tried to make match , and Sona was just aghast and I'm glad she didn't try to explain her expectations or her disappointment any more , because she has CLEARLY and PRECISELY said every thing that is there to say regarding this matter , during their previous conversation. If all that has passed over Dev's simple head , then it's not her problem at all.

A lot of people are calling out Sona on that office visit to blast Dev , calling her confused and all, because yes , she could've simply called him over phone , but she chose to go to him.

I think she just thought that Dev is aware of Ishwari's visit and probably it was his idea in the 1st place to send Ishwari, because Dev could never say no to his mother and he possibly suffers under the delusion that no body else could as well.

Plus , this kind if conversation shouldn't be done over phone , some one might over hear . They need to be cautious after that newspaper article and engagement fiasco.

It was still unwise of her to make that visit , but that's just how both Sona and her dather are. They prefer face to face conversation and confrontation and blasting. Probably they think it hits the point harder , more impactfully.

n probably they're right.

Originally posted by: VD927

Excellent post. Was a great read! Completely echoes my sentiments.

You know, after all this engagement hungama the first thing Dev should have done was go over to the Bose house and apologise to each and every one of them for his behaviour. Ishwari and Dev suffer from extremely low levels of emotional intelligence. They really don't seem to realise the impact if their actions on others. Not only Sona, but Neha has also been a victim of this.

Sona has highlighted this issue several times to Dev but even up until ydays episode he is still saying mother agrees now, what's the issue. He simply doesn't get it (yet!).

I really hope that we will see this journey of Dev's where the Bose family can ultimately look at Dev and be proud that their daughter is in love with a man like him. Marriage really should only be after that.

I also feel Neha is the one to help Dev see the light.

We have an interesting journey ahead!

Originally posted by: Push-pull

Sona to Ishwari - My parents have taught me right or wrong. I can take my own decisions (unlike your son). The decision to not marry Dev, is mine and they will support me on this.

Whatever Sona said to ishwari was bang on.. It's the same composed manner I would love her to maintain.. But with Dev toh she gets angry and disappointed.. Because she has some expectations from him and he's completely ignorant of it..

Originally posted by: mena_k

Ah what a truly sensible post. Loved reading it 👏

Well the entire problem with Dev-Ishwari is selective listening. It had been the same even before. They hear only what they need to in their benefit. Dev has the intelligence of a toddler (I wouldn't dare insult even an 8-yr old by comparing him with one) who goes after his mother for everything with no practical logical thinking ability of his own. His POV and concerns of Sona loving him and doing a mistake by getting married to someone else ended right when he got the news Sona's engagement broke. He doesn't seem desperate anymore to keep Sona around. In fact Ishwari seems more desperate now, weird.

Unfortunately the way story is moving, I doubt cv's would show any remorse of Dev before marriage. He would get Sona handed over to him by his God and his love and respect for Ishwari would again increase and isn't that's why Ishwari is doing all this right now. Sona gain treated like a toy. Hope cv's prove me wrong here. Lets see what they have planed for us next week. It should be clear by then.

Originally posted by: tia.o

CVs can only salvage the mess if they delay the wedding and give Dev the time to win Sona and his family back. Ishwari has to take a step back from arranging her perfect "bachha's" perfect marriage. Seriously. Why does no one take this lady to a psychiatrist?