Back with a Bang!!! - Page 4

I seriously hope she does not agree to Ishwari's proposal for marriage. Last time she fell in love with Dev too fast and too hard as love often happens. No one thinks before falling in love because no one thinks that the love might not stand the test of time. But now she knows that her love could not cope with his strange relationship with his mother. Until she knows for sure that he learned his lesson and the mistakes won't get repeated again, she should not marry this guy.

He is yet to prove that he will be a good husband and son-in-law to her family. He will treat her family as he expects her to treat his. And he will treat herself as he himself expects to be treated.

She is right when she said to Ishwari that their family dynamics are too different. When she first fell in love, she thought with her love and patience, she can live with it as long as Dev is with her. But she realized that Dev is the most uncertain factor in all this. Then in what basis would she enter in a marriage?

She can give Dev opportunity to prove himself, but she should not say yes.

You see, Dev got her very easily. We don't value what we get without any effort. But what we get by blood, sweat and hard work, we value that more. Just like Dev values his money and success because he knows what it took to achieve them. He needs to work for Sona, his love, to realise her worth.

Originally posted by: dlavanya

First of all awesome post tia ..
I dont think sona will accept the mothers request even the second time.. She has fallen for their trap before .. I am confident a smart girl with high IQ wouldnt fall for it again.. She has see. How ishwari changes colors .. So accepting her proposal would be like fixing a date for suicide..

Also erica said that she is not going to accept it that easily in FB live chat.. So i am hoping ishwaris proposal is going to get declined respectfully again..

Also please dont forget the most romantic proposal promise.. That would have to come only after dev pretty much woos every single person in sonas family..

Sona will be the last one to accept dev. I am confident she will not accept him with out bijoys acceptance this time.. So hard times for mr. Dixit coning up...

One thibg to note is after sona eventually says yes, ishwari will be mad at sona for not accepting her request and making her son work for it..(she would not like the idea that the TOY she thought of getting for Dev is actually smart and not a doormat/puppet.. We have gkb to add fuel to the fire...

I am willing to hear other point of view. But as a woman, I am not willing to hear anyone putting down other woman at the expense of man.

Unfortunately, we always tell the woman to compromise, adjust, be understanding. But why only women have to do all this? Why do they have to get hurt for other people's faults yet has to be understanding?

And why women have to be part of any ranking system?

No.1. Husband's mother, no.2 husband's sisters, no.3 etc.

Men are never part of a ranking system. Women don't rank no.1 my father, no. 2. my brothers, no.3 husband etc?

They're human beings, not numbers.

Women know how to keep every single relationship where they belong. Men don't.

We demand treat girl child as you'd treat a boy child. But when a girl is forced to leave her family after her marriage regardless how much they need her and forced to stay with her in-laws regardless how much they ill treat her, how can we expect people's point of view to change towards girl child?

That's why in my very small insignificant way, I am trying to point out the injustice, inequality of the expectations of people and the society towards women.

In North America, no man dares to mistreat women nor any in-laws issues exist because it's severely punishable by law. Men and women regardless of gender are expected to leave their parents' home and make their own family. That does not mean they don't take care of each other's family. The only difference is that they take care of each other's family with equal importance. A family with a boy child does not get a free live-in caregiver that a girl's family doesn't get. That's why girls and boys are treated equally. Boys are not treasured more than the girls.

Being an equalist, equality is more important to me than everything. But the problem is not other men, the problem is women.

Men stick to each other, women bring each other down.

I hope one day will come, hopefully in my lifetime, when no one will say a woman is another woman's worst enemy...