Easier Said Than Done - Page 5

Originally posted by: mayu1982

The whole point of telling this story is - Similarity in situation between Dev Character- struggle of life and their bonding.

How many of us has faced the same similiar situation before- ? How many of us - spent the entire night with empty stomach?

How many of us have to study under street light?

How many of us have to struggle for basic things in life?

Sitting in front of pc and giving gyan about life is more easy than actually experiencing it .( NO am not saying this to you only , am also including me in this part as well).


That is why I said - Never judge the situation you have never been in ..

As far as - marriage part is concerned - my fundas are very much clear in that- I will never ever pressurized them for anything. They are free to choose any partner from any religion , caste , country, anything. As long as they are happy I don't have any problem.

May your tribe increase, more rapidly that we can think.. These are relationship anomalies that need to be fixed sooner than later.

I hv seen this situation so many times..in majority cases even if parents agree to marriage...the story is never happy ever after after marriage..it gets worse sometimes

N a common thing i get to hear is...shaadi k liye maane to apne bete ki khushi k liye the..ye nahi maan raha tha aur umar nikli ja rahi thi..
Bt wen u question wat abt now?? Is he happy wid ur behaviour now..simple rply is ..ab hum har jagah to nahi jhuk sakte

Same old story..jst d characters change..
Our society is in a mess

Originally posted by: dikshat

I hv seen this situation so many times..in majority cases even if parents agree to marriage...the story is never happy ever after after marriage..it gets worse sometimes

N a common thing i get to hear is...shaadi k liye maane to apne bete ki khushi k liye the..ye nahi maan raha tha aur umar nikli ja rahi thi..
Bt wen u question wat abt now?? Is he happy wid ur behaviour now..simple rply is ..ab hum har jagah to nahi jhuk sakte

Same old story..jst d characters change..
Our society is in a mess

You are right. Society is in dire straits primarily because it is so fragmented. the Rich, the Upper Middle Class, the Middle Class and the Poor. Each one has a dfiferent perspective because of different kinds of social pressures. Then we also have dangers lurking round the corner. For example, access to the World Wide Web, with its wealth of information is the biggest danger. Immature minds just blindly mimic what they see or hear. Just take a simple example of a live in relationship. if the mind is not advanced and grown, the danger is for youngsters to take it as a fad rather than a serious commitment, even more than a marriage. We are a country in transition but the transition is very imbalanced. Only education can help solve society's problems.. of course after all one's basic needs are taken care off.

serials too ought to have visuals that carry a strong forward looking message. I look forward to KRPKAB to bring about some strong, mature, messages in relationships. The opportunity is there, the audience is there... the willingness of the makers is all that is needed. I would hate to see a message that suggest relationships are based on whims or fancies. There can be nothing more serious than a relationship between a man and a woman!

Personally, I think this situation is unique because of how much Dev and Ishwari struggled in the past. I don't know how many men/boys have struggled to be the provider and emotional support for his mother at such a young age. That's what changes the dynamics here.

Originally posted by: pkbdas61

i had to after reading so many posts about what Dev should be doing and not doing.. i then went down to my database to see if how he is shown to behave is the norm or the exception. I was quite shocked at what my analysis came up with , because i was biased by my own self more, the exception, rather than the norm. The figures on the norms were an eye opener for me. It does mean that most of us want escapism in life and want to see what more often does not happen in life. Maybe it is too bitter a pill to accept!

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Not sure how the CV is going to treat Sona's character in future tracks...but in reality ...society is changing . Most educated parents dont raise their girl children are becharies any more ( BEWARE PARENTS OF BOY CHILDREN !! that includes me too🤣 ) They get them educated and well equipped to face the future. Girls of furture would not look at life partners as providers, they would look at them as best friends .

A boys parents know this fact and getting their lil fellows ready to accept the change that is seen in the society. So future guys will know to cook, clean and change diapers too..They wouldnt consider this as a ladies work. Every work at home will be shared by all...

And the best part unlike the fathers in the previous gen , todays fathers are getting emotionally involved in bringing up kids . They are not seen just as providers in a childs life. This brings in that courage factor with in a girl and balanced approach in boys.

what we are seeing is more of a transitional phase...20 years from now...it will be diff story.. there sure will be a better balance in the society !!

Originally posted by: siddhi.d123

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Coming to Dev and Sona ,Sona has got herself into huge mess without thinking of the repurcussions of her actions and Dev is still emotionally weak,If they really want to be together it has to be their choice because they love each other and nothing else,before convincing their parents they have to become a strong couple and tackle the issues together. Because Ishwari may give into the pressure but Mr. Bose is not going to relent easily.😊

It's not abt being rude to ur parents or going against not it's abt what majority does what dev did is unacceptable to me no I m not asking him to rebuke his mother he should have at least tried to put forward his point make her understand remove her insecurities he should have at least tried but what did he do its his responsibility to maintain a balance just like it's a responsibility of DIL to maintain a balance btw his and her parents Why it's always abt his mother Why it's not abt her parents being a son doesn't mean tht U only gave one role every son is a brother husband father and just fulfilling one part doesn't justify ur negligence to others he is a Coward in my view neither he can stand for the right not he can fulfill his responsibility

Originally posted by: Push-pull

THIS.. 👍🏼

Firstly the couple have to understand how they are to each other and how they would address the situations without doing the emotional blackmail act everytime they get stuck in between..😉

They just like that cannot use big big beautiful words to sideline the issues.. 😉

And I really hope they don't make Baaba to deal the situation bringing his ego affront.. instead he should ask practical questions to both Dev and Sona about how they are gonna deal with the Mom who has not been affected by the need for a son's happiness.. About how the couple will have to expect the mother to continue controlling the son to be tied to her pallu not letting the new girl in between them.. Whether the couple in love ready to deal with all this gracefully or will rely on emotional drama only?!😆

And I sincerely hope they don't go overboard with Baaba making Ishu far better and deserving.. To make her redeemed pull down the other character so that she begging and repenting, he accusing and arrogant, makingher Ishwari God all over again.. 🤪