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gmgi

@gmgi

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Posted: 9 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: sowiee

I completely agree with you and even I m saying the same that they both should give a chance to speak their heart out and solve once before she take this decision... Because ritik already started liking her later her realisation it will be hurt for ritik too..
Even I said this is even a realisation track for sona tooo...

When in relationship it was Sona who always said sorry first even if it was not her fault. That Sona believed in fairy tales and in love. This Sona is a shattered one who lost that trust in love and have lost that hope. She needs to be healed first before she can attempt anything. That is what Rithik is doing now. But it should have been Dev.

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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: dbrk
If today Sona goes and speaks with Dev about the break up and tells him about his impulsive behaviour. What will be Dev's answer? Will he say i realise my mistake and i want u back in my life? No he will still say his mother is most important for him and he cannot c her unhappy. Sona has no option but to move on.

Might be that was his answer but at least he will come to know that now he doesn't at all have any right and he is the sole reason for all the happenings.

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enness

@enness

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+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: sowiee
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I want sona to be a strong girl...

And want her to fulfil her promise that she will not leave Dev even he leaves her.

Just sharing my pov, for a healthy discussion...

Don't you think those two things you mentioned above are opposite ? Yes, she promised that she won't leave him even if he leaves her...you really think that was a realistic promise ?? Basically, if she did that...i.e stuck on to him even when he dumped her, she will NOT be strong. Strong means keeping your self respect and poise even when you are hurt, and your emotions tell you to do otherwise.

Sonakshi may be wrong in trying to move on so drastically ( I felt it was too impulsive a decision, made in the aftermath of losing her own faith on judging people ) - but that doesn't mean she needs to pine for a man who clearly pushed her aside without a second thought. She is NOT seeing Dev the way we are...she only remembers what he said in the hospital. Someone pointed out in your thread, very correctly, that she remembers a diff part of the break up conversation, where he hurt her, insulted their love...and hence her anger, and need to distance herself.

Regarding Dev fulfilling his promise...ermm, I'm pretty sure it didn't include stalking. Because that is what he is doing. Yes, he is in pain, I sympathize to an extent...well, mainly because Shaheer is a kickass actor. BUT...what he SHOULD have done, is try to find a way out of the mess. Didn't HE promise her that he would do whatever it takes to STAY with her, keep her in his life ??

Edited by enness - 9 years ago

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vibg

@vibg

Rocker

Posted: 9 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: sjain
Well u pretty much mentioned something which even I was thinking about ..why Sonakshi never tried to approach him again..well she was hurt and broken but he was disturbed and helpless too when he took this decision..

and most importantly like u said she promised him not to leave even if he does .. but the opposite is happening ..well lets see how far she runs away from her heart and how much more effort she will put to MOVE ON

and as for Dev I cant say anything ..he is just sighh..

they both broke their promises..and both r suffering and its so miserable to see that

after how Dev broke up with her. Sonakshi or any other girl wouldn't go near a man who hurt her sooo badly. even her dad was insulted by Dev's mom. Sonakshi, herself, was verbally abused and taunted by Ishwari.. chakkar chalaya, mera beta bhola hai and all that. it wasn't her fault. she wasn't given a chance to work on the problem. it wasn't her decision. all decisions are Dev's😡

Sonakshi is not alone.. she has a family too. it's about time.. Dev grew up and stop feeling helpless and acting like a momma's boy all the time. time for him to grow up!

wedding won't happen but track is definitely required for Dev to realize that Sonakshi holds and equal spot in his life😊

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lavanya

@dlavanya

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 9 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: sowiee

Easy easy...

I m sorry but I dint mean that girls should approach first or something like that...

I meant here they should have discussed again... I dint mean sh or him to approach first in specific. But if we see why only me first or why only him first relations doesn't stand long... And relations will go on making one understanding and yourself understand the other person..

Mein tum kahthi gayi toh gayi paani mein...

This is what I think...

I dint mean sona s mistake.. but I m saying if she give a try then no loss they will be happy at least. ...

She is the rejected one.. She has everything to lose if dev shows her the door again. Why would any girlf with selfrespect want to put herself in that situation. If dev had any remorse or even thinking abt sona he should have contacted her and asked to meet to discuss.. That didnt happen.

So no- sona shud not contact him first and she should not forgive him easily

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: sowiee

Easy easy...

I m sorry but I dint mean that girls should approach first or something like that...

I meant here they should have discussed again... I dint mean sh or him to approach first in specific. But if we see why only me first or why only him first relations doesn't stand long... And relations will go on making one understanding and yourself understand the other person..

Mein tum kahthi gayi toh gayi paani mein...

This is what I think...

I dint mean sona s mistake.. but I m saying if she give a try then no loss they will be happy at least. ...

She tried to talk him.What he did he said.Now I am Son.Only mom is imp.When he called.He said thanks to Sona because she handed over the report.Also he blamed Sona's love said he was blind in his love.That he forgot responsibility of a Son.Dev need to remember what all he said to Sona

If Dev is ready they could have discussed.Unless until he understand that what he did was wrong.He need to win Sona back.Without self realization.Talking to Dev is waste of time.He is putting a mask of everything fine.He need to remove it.Approach Sona first.He need to take the step first.

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Mahadevi

@Morana

Stunner

+ 7

Posted: 9 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: gmgi
Sorry to disagree dear !
Have you noticed the flashback of break up that both Sona and Dev remembers? Dev only remembers the part where he said hamien alag hona chahiye. But Sona remembers the part from "pyar mein log antha hotha hain ye suna dha lekin mein ithna antha ho gaya dha ki apni maa ki thaklif bhi nahi dheka. sirf isliye ki muche thumse pyar ho gaya dha.

For Sona her love was everything. But he demeaned that very love of theirs as if it was something rotten that hurt his mother. She is completely broken. She is emotionally stronger and have a support system. That is why she atleast at the front is able to keep an emotionless face.

Even after hearing all this she went running completely forgetting everything when she heard the car horn the same night. He had enough chances now to correct his wrong. He said good bye instead after the first call. At hospital his action was impulsive and in panic. Now his mother is fine. So what is keeping him from trying to mend the relation that he broke so thoughtlessly.

She doesn't have any hope or trust in their relationship now. But she is unable to move on since she knows he still loves her. The pain is too much that she is putting everything in her parents hands trusting them since she doesn't trust herself.

Even with Rithik she was completely honest. It was his decision to support her. That is more than what Dev is doing now. She needs to do this until she realises herself that she cannot love anyone else other than Dev. Even then how will she trust him. Both need to work if the relationship needs to work. But I can't fault with Sona for what she is doing now. Dev pushed her to do this. He has to do his part and now wait for her to realise the same.

Completely agree with your every word. 😳

I'll lose all respect for Sona then and there if she so much as approaches Dev , it'd be unthinkable. She'll come across as a complete spineless desperate woman who just want to get kicked where it hurts her the most again n again.

Rest of the points you've already written. I'd also discuss some such points in another giant post of mine.

f Sonakshi even approaches Dev , he'll still send her away once again, his blind devotion towards mother has the strongest hold over him still now.

Till now Dev has done absolutely nothing , not even lifted a finger to get Sona back.

Not only that. Today GKB openly insulted his love and he was totally okay with it ! Totally disappointed , yet that was expected. 🥱

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Pehchaan.Kaun

@Pehchaan.Kaun

Sparkler

Posted: 9 years ago

#18

Isn't the sole reason of the movie Queen getting appreciation from one and all for it's FL realizing the worth of moving on instead of clinging onto a past which bears no fruit at all ..

This is a strong message makers are showing .. I take this as part of experimenting in Indian Television.. The message is to show - if you treat a woman below their deserving dignity, if you disregard her involvement in decision making and don't consider her family as yours, the girl has every right to move on, specially when she is THIS honest and sincere about each relationship of her life and even if you have childlike innocence but lack decision-making capabilities.. It's a way to show how a guy learns to take the girl and her family as importantly as his.. I'm all in for such positive things, even if that makes Sona indifferent towards Dev for a short period.. I will still root for Devakshi since I want to see Dev working on these major drawbacks and rectify it and WIN Sona like Dilwale Dulhaniya Le Jayenge 🥳

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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 9 years ago

#19

Easy easy easy girls. ..

I can understand Ur frustration ...

I think I m thinking in different than yours.

Ok let's see what happens next..

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 9 years ago

#20

Originally posted by: sowiee
Easy easy easy girls. ..
I can understand Ur frustration ...

I think I m thinking in different than yours.

Ok let's see what happens next..

By the way I am a guy.😆

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