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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Today I don't know why but I felt that it's not only dev but sonakshi's mistake even...

No offence. I m saying what I felt

Till yesterday I was in a feel that it is dev's mistake that he took an impulsive decision but after today's episode. And watching sona and ritik conversation I felt like it's not only dev's mistake but also sona's ...

I mean move on karna achi baat hai, speak out try openly is even good thing and will be better for future life.

But the thing is sona knows very well that Dev is very impulsive and takes decision which he regrets later... So at least for once she should have speaken to him. I mean both should have a talk regarding this and then part away...

As Dev dint fulfill any promise same with sona...

Bt Dev is fulfilling his promise that he can't live without seeing her for one day... He can't think of any women other than her...

Hurt feeling of both is visible...

But at least sonakshi is happy with this rishta ... Bichara Dev ka haal...

I mean when Natasha and dev ka engagement fix hua there was Elena and saurav for her help and for getting out from miseries...

But now dev doesn't have any... It's worse here...

I want sona to be a strong girl...

And want her to fulfil her promise that she will not leave Dev even he leaves her.

Par yaha even though he left her he is not leaving her ..

Sachi mein isme Dev ki realisation se jyaada sona ki hogi...

Same as in Natasha and dev wedding... There Dev realised how much he loved her...

Here sona will realise how much she love him...

You know I just wanted to see sona and dev individual pov of this breakup... Want them to speak out everything..

P.s. this is purely my pov and no offence ... I don't know why but I couldn't connect with sonakshi today...may be i m not ready for this... But rittu baby dialogue was good ...

Edited by sowiee - 8 years ago

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Simmi988

@Simmi988

Explorer

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

well written..agree with you 100%

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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Simmi988
well written..agree with you 100%

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sjain

@sjain

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

Well u pretty much mentioned something which even I was thinking about ..why Sonakshi never tried to approach him again..well she was hurt and broken but he was disturbed and helpless too when he took this decision..

and most importantly like u said she promised him not to leave even if he does .. but the opposite is happening ..well lets see how far she runs away from her heart and how much more effort she will put to MOVE ON

and as for Dev I cant say anything ..he is just sighh..

they both broke their promises..and both r suffering and its so miserable to see that

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gmgi

@gmgi

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Sorry to disagree dear !

Have you noticed the flashback of break up that both Sona and Dev remembers? Dev only remembers the part where he said hamien alag hona chahiye. But Sona remembers the part from "pyar mein log antha hotha hain ye suna dha lekin mein ithna antha ho gaya dha ki apni maa ki thaklif bhi nahi dheka. sirf isliye ki muche thumse pyar ho gaya dha.

For Sona her love was everything. But he demeaned that very love of theirs as if it was something rotten that hurt his mother. She is completely broken. She is emotionally stronger and have a support system. That is why she atleast at the front is able to keep an emotionless face.

Even after hearing all this she went running completely forgetting everything when she heard the car horn the same night. He had enough chances now to correct his wrong. He said good bye instead after the first call. At hospital his action was impulsive and in panic. Now his mother is fine. So what is keeping him from trying to mend the relation that he broke so thoughtlessly.

She doesn't have any hope or trust in their relationship now. But she is unable to move on since she knows he still loves her. The pain is too much that she is putting everything in her parents hands trusting them since she doesn't trust herself.

Even with Rithik she was completely honest. It was his decision to support her. That is more than what Dev is doing now. She needs to do this until she realises herself that she cannot love anyone else other than Dev. Even then how will she trust him. Both need to work if the relationship needs to work. But I can't fault with Sona for what she is doing now. Dev pushed her to do this. He has to do his part and now wait for her to realise the same.

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Vimal M

@VIMAL.SM

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

Why Sona should approach him.What for .Again to hear the word maa maa .Maa is imp.Why we always expect girls to approach a guy.Who rudely broke up with her.What for she should approach him.It has to be other way.Instead of stalking her.Dev get the guts n approach.Say what he is feeling now.Why we always expect girl to be so understanding.

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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: gmgi
Sorry to disagree dear !
Have you noticed the flashback of break up that both Sona and Dev remembers? Dev only remembers the part where he said hamien alag hona chahiye. But Sona remembers the part from "pyar mein log antha hotha hain ye suna dha lekin mein ithna antha ho gaya dha ki apni maa ki thaklif bhi nahi dheka. sirf isliye ki muche thumse pyar ho gaya dha.

For Sona her love was everything. But he demeaned that very love of theirs as if it was something rotten that hurt his mother. She is completely broken. She is emotionally stronger and have a support system. That is why she atleast at the front is able to keep an emotionless face.

Even after hearing all this she went running completely forgetting everything when she heard the car horn the same night. He had enough chances now to correct his wrong. He said good bye instead after the first call. At hospital his action was impulsive and in panic. Now his mother is fine. So what is keeping him from trying to mend the relation that he broke so thoughtlessly.

She doesn't have any hope or trust in their relationship now. But she is unable to move on since she knows he still loves her. The pain is too much that she is putting everything in her parents hands trusting them since she doesn't trust herself.

Even with Rithik she was completely honest. It was his decision to support her. That is more than what Dev is doing now. She needs to do this until she realises herself that she cannot love anyone else other than Dev. Even then how will she trust him. Both need to work if the relationship needs to work. But I can't fault with Sona for what she is doing now. Dev pushed her to do this. He has to do his part and now wait for her to realise the same.

I completely agree with you and even I m saying the same that they both should give a chance to speak their heart out and solve once before she take this decision... Because ritik already started liking her later her realisation it will be hurt for ritik too..

Even I said this is even a realisation track for sona tooo...

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dbrk

@dbrk

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

If today Sona goes and speaks with Dev about the break up and tells him about his impulsive behaviour. What will be Dev's answer? Will he say i realise my mistake and i want u back in my life? No he will still say his mother is most important for him and he cannot c her unhappy. Sona has no option but to move on.

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lavanya

@dlavanya

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

Dev just washed her away like dirt from his life.
Like she said "you dont deserve my love ".. She means it ...
How long has it been atleast 2-3 wks if not more since breakup.. So if there was any hope that dev would come back .. He would have contacted her by now...

I think the other day she wanted dev to stop her when she was leaving after yelling at him.. He didnt..
So i would not blame sona at all..

Dev broke off the relationship. She feels he doesnt deserve her love..
So even if dev comes back running asking for forgiveness, she has no intention to forgive him..

So being an optimist, there is only one direction that she has --- to move on
So she is trying everything to do that.. I would not question or doubt that sona doesnt love dev even now. Bottom line is he doesn't deserve her in his 'As is' condition

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sowiee

@sowiee

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: VIMAL.M
Why Sona should approach him.What for .Again to hear the word maa maa .Maa is imp.Why we always expect girls to approach a guy.Who rudely broke up with her.What for she should approach him.It has to be other way.Instead of stalking her.Dev get the guts n approach.Say what he is feeling now.Why we always expect girl to be so understanding.

Easy easy...

I m sorry but I dint mean that girls should approach first or something like that...

I meant here they should have discussed again... I dint mean sh or him to approach first in specific. But if we see why only me first or why only him first relations doesn't stand long... And relations will go on making one understanding and yourself understand the other person..

Mein tum kahthi gayi toh gayi paani mein...

This is what I think...

I dint mean sona s mistake.. but I m saying if she give a try then no loss they will be happy at least. ...