Its not one sided it's duo's problem.. - Page 6

Originally posted by: randommusings

Strongly disagree...she tried hard to convince Dev not to breakup the relationship. She tried to be his support system, she wanted to be by his side but Dev flatly rejected her. He blamed their relationship for what happened to Ish. She didnt want a breakup, she wanted another chance to convince Ish. Sona had said earlier - If we are together we will face any obstacle.

But Dev never thought abt Sona's feelings when he took the decision. He cud hav talked it out with Sona, cud have asked more time, cud hav tried for mutual separation but No...Dev wanted a instant quick fix solution..breakup.

What is his expectations from Sona now? That she shud understand him, meet him daily, talk with him as if nothing ever happened. Where wud this lead ? They dnt hav any future if Dev is not ready to take a stand. This wud only lead to another breakup in the future.

In EQ training sessions we are taught one simple priniciple. it is called the art of "know-how" applied with the art of "know-when".

Sona, with an IQ of 146 should have read the situation and walked out calmly from there, knowing fully well that Dev is not speaking in his proper senses. She herself had been the victim of these emotional bouts..

we can argue, debate, disagree, but the fact is the CVs wanted it this way!! nothing can and will change. Even now, the CVs have taken a particular route that i am not at all in agreement with but do i have a choice? I like Dev and Sona too much and am in awe of this pair. all i can do is use the remote.. That is one toy in my control.

Originally posted by: gmgi

Sorry to disagree dear !

Have you noticed the flashback of break up that both Sona and Dev remembers? Dev only remembers the part where he said hamien alag hona chahiye. But Sona remembers the part from "pyar mein log antha hotha hain ye suna dha lekin mein ithna antha ho gaya dha ki apni maa ki thaklif bhi nahi dheka. sirf isliye ki muche thumse pyar ho gaya dha.

For Sona her love was everything. But he demeaned that very love of theirs as if it was something rotten that hurt his mother. She is completely broken. She is emotionally stronger and have a support system. That is why she atleast at the front is able to keep an emotionless face.

Even after hearing all this she went running completely forgetting everything when she heard the car horn the same night. He had enough chances now to correct his wrong. He said good bye instead after the first call. At hospital his action was impulsive and in panic. Now his mother is fine. So what is keeping him from trying to mend the relation that he broke so thoughtlessly.

She doesn't have any hope or trust in their relationship now. But she is unable to move on since she knows he still loves her. The pain is too much that she is putting everything in her parents hands trusting them since she doesn't trust herself.

Even with Rithik she was completely honest. It was his decision to support her. That is more than what Dev is doing now. She needs to do this until she realises herself that she cannot love anyone else other than Dev. Even then how will she trust him. Both need to work if the relationship needs to work. But I can't fault with Sona for what she is doing now. Dev pushed her to do this. He has to do his part and now wait for her to realise the same.

I totally agree here.both Dev and his mom have chosen utterly undignified way to throw Sona out of their lives..there is no point to go back in that dirty pond..n more than that these people humiliated Sona's family..if at all Sona goes back to Dev ,,what is the possibility that he won't mistreat her like he has done in the past for the sake of his mother..n for GOD sake Sona came to see her mother 2 AM in the night n what Dev did ... He asked her to leave ..I mean come on ,,,,it's midnight and Dev should have basic human courtesy to drop her home knowing he has just announced shocking break up..I would never look back to such person or even his family..if Dev is devastated than its his family's responsibility to look after him..