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There's so much discussion about is Sona being too fast in moving on , shouldn't she be a despo and hanker after Dev even after such a nightmarish insulting break up because after all it was Dev who broke the engagement immediately after realizing he's in love with Sona ?? So I thought I should write a few lines about it and make it a separate post and really, I've no problem being a lone voice .😳
When Sona fell for Dev she did her level best to express and let Dev know that she's in love with her. but Dev was too busy being all over Natasha and business deal and going on dates n getting Comfy with Nuts to even notice that , when even a blind would've picked it up. In fact she invited Dev out so that she can confess her love but Nuts n Mr. Guzral butted in, and as they're the priority because they're high status business people , and not maa-ke-nutritionist-whom-I-can-afford to ignore Dev jumped camp right then n there.
After that soon came Natasha's proposal to Dev , n it was clear by how much close n comfortable Dev was getting with Nuts , with her always being in Dixit mansion n Dev giving attention to her, it was pretty obvious that he was going to say yes , which he, of course , did n pretty quickly too.
What exactly Sona should've done when she knew Dev's soon going to get engaged to Nuts ?? Propose Dev ?? That'd have been such a trashy thing to do n let's not forget , once Dev rejected her, he'd still be his boss n she'd have to work at his house every day for 12 hours and things would've been completely messy.There was no way for her to leave the job to spare awkwardness because Ishwari's health hadn't completely improved at that point n her responsibility wouldn't let her escape.
I completely support her decision to let go , it was the correct thing to do. Any mature sensible selfless girl would just that. It just shows how unconditional and selfless her love was.
In fact the only I didn't like at that point was that she was a bit too lost in her love for Dev and didn't try to move on.
As for now, the situation is completely different . They were in a relationship , one in which only Sona has given her 100 % , she had made an effort to really get Ishwari's approval because it's important for Dev, considered his family her own, though they didn't deserve it, she never even retorted back to RR because Dev would've been offened whereas Dev has done not a damn thing to even acquaint himself with Sona's family. For him they're "tum log.." strangers and he couldn't care any less about their existence or what problem Sona would've to face at home.
It's another thing that Sona's family is unrealistically supportive towards her , especially her father. Had she been my daughter , I'd have strictly forbade her on this relationship given the attitude of Dev n Dixit family.
There's simply no denying that Dev never gave 100 % to their relationship, why'd he after all ?? For him, Sona is probably ranking in the bottom most position of priority list , ranking only above Vicky.
IF Ishwari brings a match for Dev now, Dev won't blink an eye before wearing sehera and marrying that girl, for his God mother's happiness.
In reality , no girl should ever look back to such a guy who has treated her the way Dev has treated Sona. I shook my head so many times when I saw how blind she's turned into Dev's love that she can't see she's just disrespecting herself on a regular basis, no wonder even her amazingly supportive mother was disappointed n sad at how door mat Sona has turned in love , a complete wash out of her personality.
Sona should think 10000 times before going back to Dev and there should be very very strong reasons for it. Dev needs to change so much , with a huge redemption track before he can be worthy of her friendship, let alone love.
So hoping that CVs give us logical reason to enjoy their togetherness and end game when it happens. Not every viewer melts because ML threw and broke a phone or two for the FL , and cried his heart out. Real life is harsh n marriage is so much more than romantic love, it's foundations are trust , respect , n both partners changing for each other n learning to be co-warriors in the battle of life.
Because if "true love" means letting your lover n his family walk all over you n your family, then God save the girls of our country from such true love.
torn Dev, his family, his character, his ancestry, and his professionalism to shreds! 
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