Before they patch up.. - Page 2

Agree with every word you wrote !! have been reading posts abt people being upset wth the new entry or questioning how cld Sona smile and be happy or if Sona really loved and so on ...she has time n again proved her love to him..and if inspite of being thrown out of his life like a curry leaf, people expect her to still wait to get back to Dev and be happy being down under in his priority list..i am sorry ..i do not agree...i love Devakshi.i love Shaheer..but here Dev was always at fault..he promised moon n stars when he knows he cannot tke a single decision without his mothers approval...for someone like Dev, who values and idolizes his mother , he shld have shared the news with his mother, as soon as he realised his love for a woman so that he cld continue once he is sure of his living idol being happy for him..instead he decides to hide it..make all sorts of promises to his lady..romances her and even makes her dream of being the future daughter in law and finally when he realises his idol doesnt approve, he decides to back out all of a sudden , breaking all the promises he ever made..without thnking for a moment abt the girl and her family...how do u ever trust such a guy ever in your life? I want to see devaskhi together..but the c.vs do need to show some great redemption scenes for me to be happy wth Sona going back to Dev..as of now..Dev is the only one e is wrong..not Sona..not Ishwari...its jus Dev...a guy like him shld never ever have hidden the relation from his mother for a long time...

Originally posted by: ipshu06

I agree with you..!!
I am happy with the new entry and want to see Dev realizing the importance of Sona.He can't have that realization if Sona does not attempt to move on in her life.He chose his mother over her and she has every right to move forward in her life.Why should she be the one doing the waiting?

Great post. Really getting on my nerves when I read comments like Sona moving on fast, oh she has started smiling n look at poor Dev crying his heart out, she is getting engaged, married,she is not supporting Dev's decision, she is breaking her promises.

Originally posted by: gemini54

Such a fantastic post. I am surprised to see a lot of posts angry at Sona for smiling, moving on...and I wondered about it. Thanks for giving me a place to give my views.

Why is it that always men can do what they want and women just have to react?. I am sure I may offend some people with this line . The portrayal that Men can dish out everything and women have to take it in order to prove true love stuns me. When you are in Love it is the responsibility of both parties involved to keep their end of the promises made. In this case Dev has shut the door to any future with her and told her in a very nasty way that there is no future for them...so why should she wait for a close door to open?.

Her family supported her when she made a choice to love Dev and went to Dev house to talk marriage..which any parent would do. Now that they see their daughter shattered to pieces they are doing everything they can to make her happy and instead of letting her live with the heartbreak wants her to move on. Sona gave it all for the fairy tale love she thought she will have with Dev when that is not happening what is wrong with her choosing a practical way? A way that her parents believe will bring her happiness?. After all her parents also mean as much to her as Easwari does to Dev. My gripe in all this was that Dev never even attempted to get to know Sona parents...to date they have only showed that Sona has worked on the relationship t is time for Dev to do his part if he wants Sona so I have no regrets in Sona moving on.

Sorry for the long rant

Great post. Completely agree with Sona moving on. It's the right thing to do. Dev needs to really learn his lesson the hard way and work his ass off to prove his worthiness of Sona. Love how the Cvs have handled things thus far. I am so optimistic about this show.

Love these lines you have a beautiful way with words

Originally posted by: AnnaPaquinFan

What a beautiful beautiful reply. I'd great pleasure reading it , it made me ponder on so many other points than those that I mentioned in my post.

Let me ask a question- what should be more important for a girl when she's trying to choose and decide on a life partner ?? My simple mind says she should be sure in her mind n heart that this guy'll stand by me through thick n thin ( life is always full of hurdles , if hurdles could've been given lieu as excuse to breaking ,er, say kicking your partner out, then no marriage would've sustained. ) , will respect me n my family, will try to make himself a part of my family , get to know them as much as I make myself part of their family, will treat me like a good friend to whom I can confide with out fear of being judged and also have the confidence that he'll not consider as lesser priority than his family n most importantly , never drop my hand.

So till now, Dev has successfully failed in all these regards.

Dev would've continued to behave as if Sona was Dudh mein Makhhi who now left and that didn't bring even slightest of change in his life. NO wonder his mother calls it < " char din ka rista.. " n " a mistake. " After all , he himself affirms such comments through how he behaves.

Why'd his mother take his relationship seriously when he never did ?? I frankly speaking, cringed when Sona said " I was also part of his happiness. " when the said guy is busy portraying that She's totally irrelevant to his happiness.

Originally posted by: kalviswes

I totally agree with you---the most important part of choosing a life partner is one who will cross all of life's hurdles with you. Dev basically failed at the first hurdle that he and Sonakshi needed to cross-his mother. I really don't know how they can redeem the character sufficiently enough where it would make logical sense for Sonakshi to want to be with him again.

He doesn't even try to defend his love? Laughs it off like a simple mistake and nothing happened?? Ok-then whatever happens after this-is on you buddy. Your mother thinks she can pass sly comments about your relationship when Sonakshi at least shows up with her chart and all the details. I would have told the doctor-that Ishwari is mental-and needs psychiatric assistance, as does the son.

Originally posted by: meghapatel79

Indian society has patriarchal mindset you know , since childhood they are taught to make adjustment regarding their dreams ,choice , wishes. Our indian serials are not helping it either .More than anything i am worried about reaction of some girls here i mean they want sona to wait for the guy who just dumped her in a worst way. I mean give me a reason why she should wait for dev. who cares for Girl's respect and her choice right.😕

Dev is very good man at heart .But his weakness is not understanding other's emotions and feelings.It goes two ways.He has to earn the respect from sona.