Originally posted by: saumiee
I wish I did not have exams to study for , I so want to quote each and every post here to reply.
Such a wide perspective has been put, to view the same situation.
👏 Brilliant comments!
So true, this portrayal of relationships is as real as it could be. It not always rosy and sweet talks 24*7. The problem is not with raising his volume and yell "No you don't" at Sona.
He did not acknowledge her efforts in trying to know him. .When she said,
"Kya aap please mujhe maaf kar sakte hai"
He could have directly expressed his views with a 'its not about sorry' or even 'no , I can't'
He is always so vocal about everything then this indirect gesture of saying "Oh! You called Maa..Maa" (strangely she did not use the word in last 3-4 sentences of hers) to acknowledge her (that I don't think it was intended to) doesn't sit well with me, at least. I felt like its his desperate attempt to change that topic and acknowledge her efforts. Because he is not yet made peace with his dreadful past and it wont happen over night and its going to be a long journey.
Like Malvika said, We dont even want him to say sorry or its okay, just a smile but you ought to reply to her words at least.
And no, never wanted Dev to change for Sona completely nor Do I want to change her. It is their personality, no amout of change because of love anyway could bring a 360 change in them. Their characteristics will remain the same.
I can relate with Dev much more than Sona about the God situation, the dilemma of keeping faith even when you can't see him listening to you. . Lost a parent and the flashbacks were so connecting. I know how it feels to carry that burden all the time . . But, felt much bad for sona even then.
Maybe I am sad to see Sona always being the giver in every interaction with anybody in the Dixit mansion. I feel bad for her
More because I know that what is happening next.😆😭
Lets not judge or make opinion on their present based on what we think about their future. Because we really dont know the path they are going to travel to reach that point. In any realtion, some times it may happen that one will contribute more and that does not make the other person less worthy. Its just their start and there is long way to travel and we really dont know whats there in store for them as well as for us. Lets hope for the best and stay positive always dear.😊
And about Sona forcing Dev to believe in God, No, she never forced him to do that. .she was very genuinely concerned about Dev and ishwari both. If you notice, she was leaving at one point and said "aap soch sakte hai is baare me"
It was Dev who was irked and said , "aapko lagta hai maine socha nahi hai is baare me".
You cannot ignore your love and his mother, sulking for something silently. . And walk away after putting your POV. It is natural for any girl to get involved in it. Besides, Sonakshi has always been like that. Concerned and intrusive, if you want to say that.
And pyaar haq deta hai, remember?😆
Kabhi Neem Neem Kabhi Shahad Shahad
