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i hope narayan supportz tha marriage an leavez abi alone but i beat adhi will ruin tha marriage be4 any1.

narayanan is abhis ex fatherinlaw

oh no i hate adhi ....y iz he reckin everythin...i hope baskar goez away..an comez bac afta tha marriage....

Originally posted by: santhy

good abi finalli accept tha doctor...i hope she getz married 2 him an live happily eva afta or somethin like that 😛 😛

If we would have everything as we want, and if we are always happy, then we did not "live a life" ...then.. we might have had a dream only. We must have had problems and inbeteeen happiness...then it fulfils the definition of life..

Do you know even for PAYASAM (sago) while cooking my mom puts some SALT why? Because You cannot enjoy payasam otherwise; so is life if always happiness then there is no life. What happened to John of BEATLES with all his wealth, he left behind and went to Himalayas.

So LIFE is like MARATHAN the church father says, be prepared!

Abi STILL has a soft corner for Baskar! Abi prefers if Baskar would shed-off all egos and return as a good husband. Baskar got his arrogance washed away long time back which Abi has well noted. This is also because she thinks marriage is only once. Did you notice Abi turned towards Baskar and showed her readiness to Narayanan to trigger Baskar to put Kungumam....This Kalkotta Prasatham scene showed the WETNESS in Abi's heart and Baskar's heart. How many of you agree that you noted the wetness. Both (Abi & Baskar) still have "PASUMAI YANA NINAIVUGAL" of their past marriage. If she marries Doctor this drama goes to garbage I hold a bet!

Wait...She just ONLY agreed to marry the doctor, marriage not yet evented. Which means too far yet to go..so on its way things may topple...and get changed. No drama would boldly like to make us believe Jothidam...hence don't believe things should take place as per Jothidam too...

So I tell you, that Dr.Mahesh won't marry Abi, and hence eventually Baskar only would return to his original seat as Abi's husband, but this time a better husband to match Abi and also the proverb........ Once beaten twice shy.

Originally posted by: simi_1

narayanan is abhis ex fatherinlaw

Thanks..I dint know that fellows name in the serial

Skeptic, i agree i think abhi still haz a soft spot 4 baskar but still after all he haz dune i dont think she should go bac 2 him

remember : put her in jail with tha ranjini case, accused her of having affair with thulz, was alwayz askin 4 money...remember tha sick scene when he asked abhiz family 4 a car...remember how he sent her home because of money...an there iz a big list so therefore i dont think she should go bac 2 bhaskar...she should marry tha doctor an make bhaskar go through hiz penance

Originally posted by: santhy

Skeptic, i agree i think abhi still haz a soft spot 4 baskar but still after all he haz dune i dont think she should go bac 2 him [/quote]

I am happy that someone else here noted it carefully that Abi's soft corner for Baskar. She knows that Baskar is otherwise internally a good or excellent character except for all what you said, which he would not be doing at all in future. There is hardly any chance to turn into a devil again because his past severe sufferings in life taught him a good lesson

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remember : put her in jail with tha ranjini case, accused her of having affair with thulz, was alwayz askin 4 money...remember tha sick scene when he asked abhiz family 4 a car...remember how he sent her home because of money...an there iz a big list so therefore i dont think she should go bac 2 bhaskar...she should marry tha doctor an make bhaskar go through hiz penance

Santhy..... Last night I had some argument with Thols on the phone. He also agrees A known devil is better than a new UNKNOWN Angel. Men pretend as angel till they get a woman in their trap; once achieved then show their colors. Baskar was also nice looking before marriage.

Thols says look at me " I am with a woman in this house for years together ...how many men today can live like Thols he asked me..." I could not answer his question. So India still has men like Thols also.

Thols said : What assurance do you have to STAMP on Mahesh's forhead that he is better than Baskar?

Thols will teach a lesson by this drama NOT to jump from pillar to post, because pillar or post all are same. Grib firmly what you got than jump to another and get disappointed to jump again from there. Then a woman's name changes as " PRo ".

Thols Also said: "A Bird in the hand is worth two in the BUSH" Baskar is a bird in the hand and Mahesh is birds in the Bush.

Who knows what DR.Mahesh has in his pot for Abi when fate begins to play as was in Baskar's case? Baskar was also seen nicer at the time of proposals, if NOT how did they agree to marry him? C'mon boys and girls! answer me!

By marrying her to Dr. Mahesh you are coming back in circle to where you started earlier and this is no guarantee as you all guess. He is an unknown angel, Baskar a known devil. She could predict what the devil would do, but cannot predict what the angel would do.

However Baskar who was soaked well in ocean of troubles and swam to shore has had better lessons in life. He went to the edge of his life, has more chances to value Abi's LOVE as GOLDEN. So he would be definitely nicer, very submissive and she also knows easily to handle him in future.

Also she would also be maintaining the tradition of "Thali Sentiment" and "one woman one man" tradition too. The scars would disappear when her life turns happier. Money was a major problem in Abi's side now that too disappered it is OK now!

The scars earned with Baskar may become nothing compared to sleeping conciously now with another man on his first night (VOMITTING for me ) with DR.Mahesh. Its hard for REAL INDIAN WOMAN like Abi although many foreign living woman may support mainly in anger with Baskar & they are used to see a different culture abroad where women or men switch so easily their life partner. But this THOL's typical Indian woman's memories would torture her. Values of women in Thol's eyes are different. He also gives number 1 place for love which he misses as orphan. Next time when Abi consults Thols with regard to her marriage I guess Thols would advise Abi to continue with Baskar than with Mahesh.

Abi is very sentimental type so its difficult to forget the past life with Baskar, which will be triggered every time when she passes through those phenomenons again in 2nd round with Dr.Mahesh.

I assure you all that one day DR Mahesh may in anger point out and hurt Abi about her 2nd marriage. Invariably this would happen. Thats the nature for anyone to drag that into oral fight. And then the damage to Abi is worse than all she received from Baskar.

Baskar is internally a nice person except for craziness for money. This Abi knows. We are all human liable to make mistakes and also being controlled by planets too (FATE), but the TRUE LOVE is far above all tortures. A good human is when he/she realizes all her/his mistakes and beg for pardon, which Baskar has done over the cell phone by begging her to pardon all his mistakes.

If "Maniporm Maraporm" is also Abi's policy then she would be better off with Baskar since Baskar is ready to surrender to her. Think of your teeth which sometimes severely bite your tongue. Did you pull out the teeth to punnish; Your finger sometimes pricks your eyes severely. Did you cut away the fingers? So is a married life, hurting each other is part of the married life. And a TRUE LOVE bound between husband and wife would wipe out all the scars from all these hurts. However as foreign living NRI Indians its hard to swallow.

Above all, events in dramas should NOT go according to the readings in Jothidam which then end up in encouraging Jothidam via Dramas and also it would be concluded as Dramas' part-motive is to cultivate viewers' believe in Jothidam. This objective will never be allowed.

Wait..Thols is calling me on my cell! I will discuss with him and come back.

Could someone please post the update for Tuesday, 28 March night. Where
is Dasa who was updating regularly. Thank you.AddSmileyIcon
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very good update Dasa, and very prompt too!!! thanks :)

why do people walk into another person's house unannounced? Wouldn't it have been more sensible for Bhaskar to call abhi on her cell phone? She is a high flying buisiness person- obviously very busy, so how did he expect to find her home?

And doesn't he have any sense? He should have known that the whole battalion would be there at home to attack him. Silly chap.