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Posted: 11 years ago
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what is the best time do in a married couples life...
1. Newly married..HMoon period..
2.First 2/ 3 years of shaadi before kids are born enjoying each others company ..leading a carefree lifewith each other
3. Having kids together
4. after 25/ 30 years wen all couples responsiblities are over and there is understanding after all lifes challanges
5. Old age ..its companionship

i kno its a lame question but still want to kno ur views n we can work on the forum activity😛
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: uppaas

what time do u think it is in a married couples life...

1. Newly married..HMoon period..
2.First 2/ 3 years of shaadi before kids are born enjoying each others company ..leading a carefree lifewith each other
3. Having kids together
4. after 25/ 30 years wen all couples responsiblities are over and there is understanding after all lifes challanges
5. Old age ..its companionship

i kno its a lame question but still want to kno ur views n we can work on the forum activity😛


Ooh interesting question and thank you for starting discussions.

Well, obviously I am not married, but my parents have enjoyed every phase of their relationship together... and they will soon enter the all-responsibilities over phase. However, with that said, both of them have said on numerous occasions that the best thing to have ever happened to them is having children and they have also said that the most beautiful thing to have come out of their marriage is their son and daughter😳 They still go on honeymoons and dates now so in that sense, they are still like a newly wed couple and enjoy each other's company in a carefree way.
Anyway, coming back to the point, I always talk tooo much😆 - I would say having kids together
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i m not married as well but i think couples can enjoy their life more before they have kids and in initial days of marriage and HM..after they have kids then they spent more time with their children
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Although am NOT MARRIED, my VIEW - there is a romance right at the first year of marriage. When you look at the average life satisfaction -- if you graph out the 10 years before marriage and 10 years after -- you do see a romance right in the first year of marriage.

Rgds,

Kalpana

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Posted: 11 years ago
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nice post👍🏼 .. for me having kids together😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: BenPhillips


Ooh interesting question and thank you for starting discussions.

Well, obviously I am not married, but my parents have enjoyed every phase of their relationship together... and they will soon enter the all-responsibilities over phase. However, with that said, both of them have said on numerous occasions that the best thing to have ever happened to them is having children and they have also said that the most beautiful thing to have come out of their marriage is their son and daughter😳 They still go on honeymoons and dates now so in that sense, they are still like a newly wed couple and enjoy each other's company in a carefree way.
Anyway, coming back to the point, I always talk tooo much😆 - I would say having kids together


thats so beautiful Ben i think ur parents are truely blessed...Yes for me whemn my kids came things just started to get better n better today I feel the best moment was for us wen our kids came to our lives
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sabreen_06

i m not married as well but i think couples can enjoy their life more before they have kids and in initial days of marriage and HM..after they have kids then they spent more time with their children


yes ..true😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: AARMAY1

nice post👍🏼 .. for me having kids together😊


so true for me tooo😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: kalpana19

Although am NOT MARRIED, my VIEW - there is a romance right at the first year of marriage. When you look at the average life satisfaction -- if you graph out the 10 years before marriage and 10 years after -- you do see a romance right in the first year of marriage.

Rgds,

Kalpana


true some ppl have it but for me my happiness started after the first 5 years😃
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Posted: 11 years ago
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For me it was very different because I married my boyfriend/ who was also my best friend after 11 years of dating. Once we got married things became different. not that I didn't like it but it was different. Then came the kids and I have become totally absorbed in them that my husband takes a back seat. Kids brought us closer but in a different way. Now that my lil boys are more independent and don't need my attention all the time I can see the romance returning in my life.
So, to answer your question I like TODAY very much. That means when my kids are old enough for me to be free and romance ;)

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