What happened to Prachi's care for Neev? - Page 4

Originally posted by: bips

what exactly did milind do to deserve prachi's love ?

Originally posted by: bips

i honestly don't want to extend the debate even more plus i'm not a regular on the kayamath board, so i'm feeling as if i'm barging out of nowhere... but one point i want to make -

Its unbelievable how many people here support physically and mentally abusive relationships, because the bottom line is (as i see it) that milind IS abusive. beating up your wife is not the only form of violence in marriage. All that they have shown here is also considered ill-treating your wife

hi Bips,

I know, and i dont disagree with you. M did Illtreat his wife and is/was abusive.

this is not about neev. i used to find his character extremely kiddish. this is just about milind and prachi.

uh huh

To the people above, who said you don't need to do anything in true love and you don't keep track of who did what. you just have to be yourself. I completely agree. but milind's 'yourself' is not very attractive. I am not talking about the so-called sizzling chemistry between MP. i just don't get the writer's logic of introducing romance where there is nothing lovable about milind's character. They have shown no quality in him that would make me like him.

now here were i beg to differ, lovable is term relative, what i might find horrific you might find lovable. So that just answers your ? i guess

How many of you could love someone like milind ? I'm curious. How many of you will take so much humiliation from your boyfriend/ lover/ husband.

huh now bips you have got mixed up, why in the world would my liking towards Milind has anything to do with my hubby/lover/boyfriend, he is fiction. I love gabbar singh, mogambo etc etc, does that mean i want a boyfriend like them 😳 no not really, I am sure in real life none of us would have been in such situations nor would want to be in one, but liking in real life has nothing to do with reel.

I'm just aghast at how many people especially girls support and justify this kind of behaviour and term it 'soulmates'

well you know what i am confused soul, i do agree that he is abusive period ( no arguments).

I know what i have said is mostly harsh but i guess i'm just very saddened with the way women are potrayed on television. This is more of a general rant. just very sad at the state of things

join the club sigh i understand you

Originally posted by: candyfloss

Milind never beat or physically abuse prachs.He only wanted to scare prachs to force her in bed cz he thinks alap used suks n slept with her to ruin her life.He did this when ayesha told him prachs wants to poison him.So his action is justified cz he cleared prachs that he's not cheap like alap to rape her.

well attempted rape, rape or anykind of physical or emotional abuse is an abuse, it only proves him abusive, Candy dear, he has tried to scare her by doing this, which kinds of make him sick. Just becoz he didnot do it doesnot mean he is any better, there is no justification for rape or attempted rape. It is his way to humiliate prachi, which he did, which is wrong.

he always shaked n strongly gripped her intentionally to hurt prachs cz he thought prachs n her family took all his happiness.Ayesha led him to think prachs betraying him n having affair with neev.Everything was front of his eyes.But later when he fell in love with prachs he didnt hurt her.mills only wanted her happines so wanted to let go off her to neev.

well if he really did why did he abuse her before c-night called her slut in many words, you know that kinds of man does that. Dont forget that he ( to his knowledge) has slept with ayesha, to morally too Milind is wrong here candy. He has no right to ask about P or N, he should first look at himself then talk to prachi, but he seem to have conviniently forgotten it. I know he didnot do it, but it doesnot make him feel any better, becoz according to him he did it, drunk or not drunk doesnot matter. And please is Milind a kid, he always falls for ayesha talks doesnt he have any brain of himself, how is he to blame ayesha when he is a full grown man who is runnign a hotel empire 😳

Mills is very impulsive,hyper,short-temper,passionate n aggressive but still he's very emotional n insecured.In temple he broke his relationships with prachs cz thought prachs got suk-sak married.
But in every situation mills repented his mistakes n asked forgiveness to prachs.he loves her too much to lose her.His way of loving is different from both are from different background n class.
You dont understand mills-prachs relationships so its no use arguing.No one is supporting ill treating of prachs cz mills never abused prachs.he showed his anger n frustration.To the people above, who said you don't need to do anything in true love and you don't keep track of who did what. you just have to be yourself. I completely agree. but milind's 'yourself' is not very attractive. I am not talking about the so-called sizzling chemistry between MP. i just don't get the writer's logic of introducing romance where there is nothing lovable about milind's character. They have shown no quality in him that would make me like him.

How many of you could love someone like milind ? I'm curious. How many of you will take so much humiliation from your boyfriend/ lover/ husband.
I aadmit i will never fall for mills cz he's totally opposite of my class and background.But that doesn't mean i'm right.This is just me.I never see a character from my point of view nor want everything to go according to my wish.This is what i dont like abt some opinions.they just want to see what they like and bash mills n prachs.I'm trying to understand from MICHi's point of view.If i were in prachs place i wud have never fall for mills but prachs did.So we shud respect her love n not criticise or bash her.Just cz i dont like mills attitude doesnt make him a villain or non-acceptable.You shud see from prachs point of view what she feels for mills.

I'm just aghast at how many people especially girls support and justify this kind of behaviour and term it 'soulmates'
Do you actually know the meaning of soulmates???I doubt.Here's a tidbit abt soulmate.
In order to recognize your soul mate, you must first know yourself.Soul mate marriages can be well balanced, strong, and positive.A soul mate should make you feel safe.A relationship with a soul mate is a natural fit and usually feels like it is meant to be. Even so, every marriage, even a marriage of soul mates, takes the two spouses giving priority to their marriage relationship.A soul mate partner often feels like a mirror to their spouse. Though this does sound a bit boring.A marriage to a soul mate is filled with honesty and support. But then, so are successful marriages of couples who don't believe they are soul mates.There is a sense of familiarity and mutuality in a marriage to a soul mate as well as in long lasting marriages.Soul mate marriages can be healthy, passionate and harmonious. Soul mate partners can easily get a lot done by working together.Couples who are soul mates often take joy in watching the growth of one another.A soul mate will accept who you are, will bring out the best in you, challenge you, and be your best friend. A soul mate will not require you to change. Soul mates relish small moments together and cherish their commitment to their marriage.
Soul mates don't agree on everything.Don't use the soul mate concept as an excuse to walk away from your commitment to your marriage.Remember you can still have difficult times even when married to your soul mate. Romance is a gamble. Marriage takes attentiveness.
Bottom line: Marrying a soul mate isn't necessary in order to have a successful and happy marriage.
I know what i have said is mostly harsh but i guess i'm just very saddened with the way women are potrayed on television. This is more of a general rant. just very sad at the state of things
Dunno what ur talking abt.Prachs is an idle woman.Do you want her to have affair with neev n think everything will be right if she divorce mills without working out her marriage.This is called weak.READ milind and prachi both love each other.No one can separate them and no one can change their feelings.
this is too silly everyone seem to be in rage just bcz prachi consummate her marriage with milind.What abt karrena kapoor??she slept with shahid 100 times n now making out with saif.Did any MP bashers criticise kareena..No!still they love her.
This seriously getting too much.Prachs love her husband so why accuse her??
if she had an affair being married everyone wud have killed her..if she loves her husband everyone tag her as selfish,betrayer,cruel etc.
NP fans pls make up your mind what exactly you want prachs to do???if you want to bash MP then better got to neev prachi fan club.

Originally posted by: kubare

Gawker....donot know your real name...but so beautifully put dear....👏 Completley agree with every thing you said.....👏

omg!! that was sooo well written...hmm i guess thats the reasong i cant really understand prachi or infact quite a few love stories shown on tv.....for us toh just the cuter guy rocks or else 1st love ....i guess being in clg we still think ki 1st love will be ever lasting or whatever....avvhe dreams we have....

Originally posted by: candyfloss

Originally posted by: Mages

according to me neev never existed for her....neev cares for her alot but then she has forgotten neev totally....

if now she talks to him is like a outsider or a helper to make her hubby sister life full with roses....

only neev loves her and cares for her alot...her love for neev is all fake....

now she doesn't even care a damn for neev....

i am happy for her new life....but this happiness she got is through a man who loved her so much more than his life broken heart

omg lela u just typed my thoughts😕😳