What happened to Prachi's care for Neev? - Page 2

according to me neev never existed for her....neev cares for her alot but then she has forgotten neev totally....

if now she talks to him is like a outsider or a helper to make her hubby sister life full with roses....

only neev loves her and cares for her alot...her love for neev is all fake....

now she doesn't even care a damn for neev....

i am happy for her new life....but this happiness she got is through a man who loved her so much more than his life broken heart

i wish dat Prachi still cared for Neev, not love him but did know that he existed, i guess for Prachi it was nva true love.

prachi is no doubt
a good daughter
a good daughter-in-law
a good sister-in-law
a good sister(always to ayesha)
a good grandaughter
a good wife
in future a good mother for her children

but then she is not a good friend nor a good lover.....
the person who can forget her childhood friend who took care of her whole life and the one moment love memories they spent she can never be a good friend or lover...she is unfaithful with neev...she betrayed him and cheated him badly in love....the promise she makes to him are all fake and untruthful
neev never realise love for her at all...he was with his own world flirt,fun and masti who jokes around and live world in his own terms...its she who falls in love with him since childhood and changes his life...she have changed him so much in his life that now she left him he forget how to live and worst even can't forget her

but what makes me angry that no matter how much prachi gives neev pain...tears or treats him like outsider neev always will love and care for her even though the love for her he will never express it....

being a wife is different
being a lover is different

Lets STOP finding reasons in OTHERS for the state Neev is in. He is a grown up guy and has made decisions on his own and he is liable to honour them come what may. He cant do it... he is more than welcome to freee himself. HE needs to take care of himself... Not Prachi, Not Premlata and NOT anyother person.

Yes Neev hasnt done anything to deserve this state... but the TRUTH and Irony of the Neev's life is that he is in this state because HE HAS DONE NOTHING! If he did something and took control of his life and refused to be treated like a doormat by his parents and his wife... he would have been in a better position in life today. And for life i cant understand WHAT on earth is he still doing in Milind's house.

I am tired of reading again and again Neev did this for Prachi, he did that Prachi. Hello, as if Prachi didnt do anything for him. If he took care of her... What was she doing? Taking care of him aswell... She was the family the guy never had... I agree i havent followed Neev & Prachi's story... but I know for a fact that Prachi took care of Neev's life everyday... from waking him up to keep a check of his schedule for the day and along with that his food aswell. along with helping in studies when the guy used to miss them due to his flirting sessions or just go to sleep inbetween. And was always there to listen to his dates and their disaters along with approving gifts and romantic ideas for his life. She has suffered every minute of those times without expecting anything from him beyond freindship. She had accepted the fact that Neev would never be a part of her life. So if Neev has done so much for Prachi... Then Prachi has repaid him with the same care and concern. Hishab Barabar!!! And to see she is doing him and his wife another favour by allowing them to stay in HER house!!!

Ok, Neev is a flirt so that does away with the impact he has on the girls he flirted with? HOW sure can one be that those girls he flirted around with werent serious about him and didnt love him seriously???? All that is fine because he was just being a flirt and Prachi is wrong because she decided to move on and wasnt really serious about her love for Neev? We cant have two sets of rules for two different ppl over teh same issue, can we? Prachi is wrong because she she is the reason he got serious in life and about the emotion of love? She did him a favour i would say, because atleast he doesnt go around flirting and giving hopes to other girls now. The truth IS that she didnt love Neev enough... Is it her mistake that another man came into her life who exposed her to the real meaning or True Love and gave her the same Love with purity and intensity and more importantly SECURITY?

I agree Prachi did wrong by breaking her relationship with Neev... whatever reasons she had, stupid or justified... she also had the right to break away from a relationship she didnt want to be in... Everyone has that right....even Neev has! She didnt force Neev to marry Ayesha... he did that on his own for his requirements... for the priorities in HIS life at that point... and I think he should be a strong enough to accept that and make it work instead of being thrown around like a doormat and expecting sympathy for it or blaming Prachi for it.

The Happiness in Prachi's life today... is not because Neev played a martyr or thorugh his broken heart. She would still been sad in life even after marrying Milind... but Her happiness comes from the LOVE her HUSBAND has filled her heart with and the Love that he has for her.

Yes, being a Wife is far far different from being a Lover... because being a WIFE(in all its real meaning) means being a Lover, A friend, A soulmate and a LIFE PARTNER. Being a Wife is far more a honour and a responsibility when compared with being merely a Lover. And Prachi's priorities are just fine.

So instead of asking Prachi to show some concern for Neev... it will do a lot of good to everyone if Neev is advised to take care of himself first.

I think due to Milind's pig headness and insecurity, Prachi could either be a friend to Neev or a wife to Milind but she could not be both. She may be falling short of what is required of a true friend, she may even be selfish for being so absorbed with her husband but is it honestly reasonable to expect her to jeopardize her marriage for her childhood friendship.

@Ryka - Agree with every word. Neev has to help himself before anyone can help him. Anyway, he is a grown man, why does he need Prachi to come and save him from big, bad Ayesha and his psycho family.

ryka...

that was put brilliant....
hats off....
and I agree...

Originally posted by: shali

ryka...

that was put brilliant....
hats off....
and I agree...

Ditto!!!

@ Ryka -Completley agree with every word you said Ryka darling....👏

Neev needs to move on...take responsibilities for his actions...an stop blaming Prachi for the situation he finds himself in...

@ Mages - Dear....Prachi...the dsay she married Milliand...seized being...Neevs...lover....so its compleltey wrong in asking a married woman to be a good lover still ....thats like you want her to have an affair with Neev...even though she married and loves her husband.....

She may not be a good friend right now...but she always was....better then Neev ever was to her.....

Right now her priorities in life are her hubby...as shoudl be for any wife...and her family...not Neev ...whose big enough to take care of him self and his life...if onloy he does that instead of blaming others...

Originally posted by: kubare

Ditto!!!

@ Ryka -Completley agree with every word you said Ryka darling....👏

Neev needs to move on...take responsibilities for his actions...an stop blaming Prachi for the situation he finds himself in...

@ Mages - Dear....Prachi...the dsay she married Milliand...seized being...Neevs...lover....so its compleltey wrong in asking a married woman to be a good lover still ....thats like you want her to have an affair with Neev...even though she married and loves her husband.....

She may not be a good friend right now...but she always was....better then Neev ever was to her.....

Right now her priorities in life are her hubby...as shoudl be for any wife...and her family...not Neev ...whose big enough to take care of him self and his life...if onloy he does that instead of blaming others...

sweetie, i cannot for the life of me agree with what you said. she will always be better than neev was? I mean, answer me this: what the hell did neev do wrong? NOTHING!!.. i am not talkng about any couples here, even though i am a Milind-Prachi fan, but think about neev individually as a character. he didnt blame others at any point, and how can you say that he was worse than prachi? That technically means that you're saying that if you have loved someone but now youre in love with someone else, you're going to forget your first love?!?!... Neev took care of her for her whole life, milind comes in for a few months and yes, it is passionate and very loving and touching..but that doesnt mean she can forget everything she has done before meeting milind.. So i woud lke you to find any example of neev blamng someone else, or being "worse" than Prachi ever would be, and get your facts straight before accusing Neev...

I'm sorry if you got offended, but you cant just go around blaming innocent people just because you like another couple. And yes, i know, its a tv serial, but this can well happen in real life. As for me, i just hope that when you fall in love for the second time, you wont forget your first lover...

It vanished somewhere in the air... 😕 😆

But yes in a normal situation....i mean how can she forget her soo called true love i.e. soo easily...

Originally posted by: candyfloss

thnks ryka..you explained all.
i'm fedup of ppl digging grave to find prachs mistake.If prachs cheat mills and have c-night than everything will be fine.
Neev is not practical...this is making his life worst.
I don't believe silly stuff like 1st love.We miss our pasts love or anything cz when ppl are unsocial,impractical,lack of confidence,cant get along with ppl.....neev is someone like that.
funny everyone blames prachs and tag her as betrayal but what abt milind.isint he a big cheat???he did the same thing as prachs.
This is too tooo silly to blame prachs alone when mills is also in the line.
in this case both MICHI deserve each other cz both have forgot their love and pay 2 cents to NA.
I can understandNP fans frustration but the truth is prachs n mills never cared or loved neesha as much as MICHI love each other.They dont have control or rule their love.Michi's heart has moved for each other.its not MICHI who just fell in love.Their heart n soul belong to each other.
sorry i can only talk abt michi cz i understand them.
for neev i can say be practical or get lost!

well said i completely agree wid u