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Posted: 17 years ago
#61
I don't think I for one ever sprouted such words JC true Prachi drove me mad but her love for Milind remains intact it's her stupid actions that have us all maddened. Can you blame the viewers isn't it the viewers who are entertained or rather supposed to be not the creatives themselves. I find it hard to believe you justify the creatives at this level because even Sandiip and the creatives have been bashed by the viewers. The creators and their creation both are the culprits here. Prachi was not waiting to be kissede but she didn't do anything to stop the action either a single "Proteek" doesn't fit the bill as a stopping gesture a few more words wouldn't have hurt.
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Posted: 17 years ago
#62

Originally posted by: KillSandy

Sorry JC u have wrote so much but i am not even interested as i am currently hating prachi so much.

sorry if i had hurt u with my comments.



Me too I can't justify any reason
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Posted: 17 years ago
#63

Originally posted by: michifanreal

JC you have contradicted yourself in your reply. You say Milind never forced her (agreed).. which means Prateek was forcing her.. did she not see that he was forcing her so react even more strong? i have not contradicted myself hun. And i didn't say Milind never forced her...oh yes he did. But by force i meant his strenght was used agains ther arms...but i guess the difference is that I am seeing it from the prespective that if one of my guy friends were to playfully scare me in such a situation, how would i react vs. you looking at it as a married woman is not reacting much to a stranger coming close to her.

What i said before was that in the situations where Prachi has run off from Milind...those were romantic scenes and he let her run off. If he had wanted to stop her he could have easily and he did many times too...and we can't forget that when Milind was vengeful...he wouldnt let her push him off..so if she was successful in pushing him..it was because he let her.

I don't think a 25-30 year old traditional Indian woman allows a man to come so close so easily. Thats not taking into account the context. You are separating the fact that they were playing around, they've been best of friends for 5 years...and he's never done anything to make her feel uncomfortable before...she trusts him completely...to have consented to be his fake wife. Those things matter...like i said..i am seeing it from a different perspective.
I personally would have slapped or shouted badly.. Knowing Prachi is so sensitive to a man's touch (at least her husband's) I expected better from her.What do you mean she is sensitive to man's touch...at least her husband's...please explain your comment. I don't get it...do you mean she doesn' t like to be touched by her husband???? That just wrong Shubs and i can see you repeatinig such things in each of your posts..and i am done replying to it. I think you interpret her pushing Milsi away in a completely wrong way.
Or should I defend Prachi stupidly that because she feels no romantic goose bumps for Prateek she didn't care reacting vigorously? And is that comments supposed to mean that i am stupid for defending Prachi. Fine. Then no need to read my defensive posts.

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Posted: 17 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: blind horizon

I don't think I for one ever sprouted such words JC true Prachi drove me mad but her love for Milind remains intact it's her stupid actions that have us all maddened. Can you blame the viewers isn't it the viewers who are entertained or rather supposed to be not the creatives themselves. I find it hard to believe you justify the creatives at this level because even Sandiip and the creatives have been bashed by the viewers. The creators and their creation both are the culprits here. Prachi was not waiting to be kissede but she didn't do anything to stop the action either a single "Proteek" doesn't fit the bill as a stopping gesture a few more words wouldn't have hurt.



Munee i never said that you personally did...but i've been reading comments and since the whole forum is against Prachi now...its hard to keep track who said what...so instead of giving a name or a thread i just stated which comment really hurt. I am not defending the creatives anymore. I think i made that clear in my analysis..they completely mishandled this leap. But as for Prachi I will stand by her..because to me whatever she did do...even if that seems too little to some...it was enough to keep her from falling in my eyes. I have been a fan of Prachi the longest and still i will say that i've never placed her on a pedestal or seen her as a devi of any sort. I've accepted her and loved her with all her faults and imperfections and though i don't agree with most of the things she does, i still understand her and appreciate her for who she is. And when you do have understanding of someone's situation..the anger and dissappointment lessens to some degree.
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Posted: 17 years ago
#65

Originally posted by: trros

JC i agree wid ur each &every point
i m juz mad on prachi as she snatched all da rights of a father frm milind
for dese i can't nvr forgive her but she still loves milind dats wat matters for me
moreover she didnot hv ne other option, for her &milind's child she had 2 take dat decision, before goin wid prateek she must hv nvr expected dat every1 will misunderstood her as panchi

so we can't blame her for everything



I will wait to watch the rest of the drama unfold...its been two epis and they have only tried to show us how Prachi became Panchi Das gupta. Maybe tomorrow we'll see more on how her pregnancy was and if she even thought of her family for a second. And more importantly i am waiting to find out what Milind didn these 5 years. I want to see where he is today...and i want to see how they will manage the lives of two kids getting ruined in this whole process. Like i said before...i'll take each epi as it happens. When it comes to the point where things are too bad...i'll finally be able to leave. Not now..not today.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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JC, you took offense. I didn't mean to say you are stupid to defend Prachi (I appreciate your love for Prachi which makes you defend her). I rather meant (repeated too) that it was a bad cheap and unnecessary scene by the creatives and we defending it for loving Prachi doesn't erase the scene. I can see Prachi beyond that scene and I am not considering her characterless based on that scene.

When I said Prachi is sensitive to a man's touch, I meant a even if Milsi slightly got romantic with her, it would make her senses so alive (and she would be shy too) that she can't bear with it.. and she will try to escape or push him off.

so this was the same Prachi who was getting approached for a kiss and she didn't react that strong. How do we explain this? I again conclude it was a cheap scene and that's it. It can't really be defended.


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Posted: 17 years ago
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thanks a lot JC for taing out time anallyzing and patiently writng down your take...............if you look at things with a cool head you observe things that a frustrated and depressed mind fail to observe.............that is me.............i was in a furious mood for the past few days as much i tried stayingpositive they read those creatives pulled me down........i was angry at everyone and everything..................and thought will give up but to be very true i love michi way tooo much to think abt giving up i just cannot..................prachi is the main reason why michi even came into existence that everyone has to agree...with her patience and selfless love she made sure milind and prachi glowed as michi............milind madly loves her inspite of her numerous shortcomings and fooloishness..................then why cannot i do the same...........................i am certainly not vouching for that bedroom scene coz that closeness is a big NO however close a friend is and you are married ....................but i am not going to condemn her to death coz for me she was alwyas a young innocnet naive woman who thought from her heart and in her lied the best interest for others ..i never had sanctifies her as a saint so it is easy for me to see a flawed woman who makes mistakes ...............i remeber after the near rape scene when we were hanging in anxiety for the weekend the numerous posts bashing milind up some even telling prachi deserves better move on etc etc. but it just took and a very sincere and heartfelt apology from milind for his chi to forgive him.................when she took a very foolish step to stop him from going to pune it just took her tears for milindto forgive her.................even after accusing neev and slapping him ,when she seeked apology and was crying neev forgived her........................love trust and relationships are much above errors that humans do...................if we judge them and call them sinful then there is no need for such emotions and relaionships.....................
yes i hold her responsible for keeping away the son and father but for me she is chi of michi and michi are very precious for me and i still hold them sacred..................................
i am feeling much better...and this post was not to rebuke anyone but something i felt in my heart after my anger cooled down...........nor am i asking anyone to agree with me but for me michi still lives and hope floats..................i am not going to let a bunch of morons who call themself creatives destroy that for me ,i have gone thorugh hell and above for michi for the past year and half with all of you and at this point am not going to let go till they actually sink and drown me in their meaningless twists and turns
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Posted: 17 years ago
#68

Originally posted by: michifanreal

JC, you took offense. I didn't mean to say you are stupid to defend Prachi (I appreciate your love for Prachi which makes you defend her). I rather meant (repeated too) that it was a bad cheap and unnecessary scene by the creatives and we defending it for loving Prachi doesn't erase the scene. I can see Prachi beyond that scene and I am not considering her characterless based on that scene.

When I said Prachi is sensitive to a man's touch, I meant a even if Milsi slightly got romantic with her, it would make her senses so alive (and she would be shy too) that she can't bear with it.. and she will try to escape or push him off.

so this was the same Prachi who was getting approached for a kiss and she didn't react that strong. How do we explain this? I again conclude it was a cheap scene and that's it. It can't really be defended.




I am not defending the scene. Ok so in that way...yes she is sensitive to Milsi's touch ...we can understand why...😆

And omg i am actually glad she is not sensitive like that to anyother man's touch. What do you expect her to be "sensitive" to another man's touch. She played around like that with Neev too...falling with him on her bed. It took a while for them to become sensitive to each other's proximity...but even then it was nothing like Michi. I also think this was because Prachi's acting got much better with Shabbo in the picture and she was much more comfy doing romantic scenes with Shabbo as she said herself. I would have hated to see her having any sort of feelings when Proteek was getting close...all i saw was her eyebrows getting furrowed and her face twisted. And I did notice her trying to move her hand but he held it too tight. And i am just fine with her saying "Proteek" for a "What are yo doing?" type of reaction...I don't think she really expected that he woudl kiss her too. If she had such doubts on him...she wouldn't have agreed to be his pretend wife.

again i am not defending the scene...i didn't like it either. I am just saying what i observed and how i see Prachi.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sun29

thanks a lot JC for taing out time anallyzing and patiently writng down your take...............if you look at things with a cool head you observe things that a frustrated and depressed mind fail to observe.............that is me.............i was in a furious mood for the past few days as much i tried stayingpositive they read those creatives pulled me down........i was angry at everyone and everything..................and thought will give up but to be very true i love michi way tooo much to think abt giving up i just cannot..................prachi is the main reason why michi even came into existence that everyone has to agree...with her patience and selfless love she made sure milind and prachi glowed as michi............milind madly loves her inspite of her numerous shortcomings and fooloishness..................then why cannot i do the same...........................i am certainly not vouching for that bedroom scene coz that closeness is a big NO however close a friend is and you are married ....................but i am not going to condemn her to death coz for me she was alwyas a young innocnet naive woman who thought from her heart and in her lied the best interest for others ..i never had sanctifies her as a saint so it is easy for me to see a flawed woman who makes mistakes ...............i remeber after the near rape scene when we were hanging in anxiety for the weekend the numerous posts bashing milind up some even telling prachi deserves better move on etc etc. but it just took and a very sincere and heartfelt apology from milind for his chi to forgive him.................when she took a very foolish step to stop him from going to pune it just took her tears for milindto forgive her.................even after accusing neev and slapping him ,when she seeked apology and was crying neev forgived her........................love trust and relationships are much above errors that humans do...................if we judge them and call them sinful then there is no need for such emotions and relaionships.....................
yes i hold her responsible for keeping away the son and father but for me she is chi of michi and michi are very precious for me and i still hold them sacred..................................
i am feeling much better...and this post was not to rebuke anyone but something i felt in my heart after my anger cooled down...........nor am i asking anyone to agree with me but for me michi still lives and hope floats..................i am not going to let a bunch of morons who call themself creatives destroy that for me ,i have gone thorugh hell and above for michi for the past year and half with all of you and at this point am not going to let go till they actually sink and drown me in their meaningless twists and turns



Actually i want to thankyou for posting this. 👏 I think you are more positive than me.😆😆😆 You actually made me feel a lot better right about now. I was starting to loose the battle against my better sense. lolz...why am i thanking you..oh yes..because you give me hope. Thanx hun.
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Posted: 17 years ago
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Originally posted by: sun29

thanks a lot JC for taing out time anallyzing and patiently writng down your take...............if you look at things with a cool head you observe things that a frustrated and depressed mind fail to observe.............that is me.............i was in a furious mood for the past few days as much i tried stayingpositive they read those creatives pulled me down........i was angry at everyone and everything..................and thought will give up but to be very true i love michi way tooo much to think abt giving up i just cannot..................prachi is the main reason why michi even came into existence that everyone has to agree...with her patience and selfless love she made sure milind and prachi glowed as michi............milind madly loves her inspite of her numerous shortcomings and fooloishness..................then why cannot i do the same...........................i am certainly not vouching for that bedroom scene coz that closeness is a big NO however close a friend is and you are married ....................but i am not going to condemn her to death coz for me she was alwyas a young innocnet naive woman who thought from her heart and in her lied the best interest for others ..i never had sanctifies her as a saint so it is easy for me to see a flawed woman who makes mistakes ...............i remeber after the near rape scene when we were hanging in anxiety for the weekend the numerous posts bashing milind up some even telling prachi deserves better move on etc etc. but it just took and a very sincere and heartfelt apology from milind for his chi to forgive him.................when she took a very foolish step to stop him from going to pune it just took her tears for milindto forgive her.................even after accusing neev and slapping him ,when she seeked apology and was crying neev forgived her........................love trust and relationships are much above errors that humans do...................if we judge them and call them sinful then there is no need for such emotions and relaionships.....................
yes i hold her responsible for keeping away the son and father but for me she is chi of michi and michi are very precious for me and i still hold them sacred..................................
i am feeling much better...and this post was not to rebuke anyone but something i felt in my heart after my anger cooled down...........nor am i asking anyone to agree with me but for me michi still lives and hope floats..................i am not going to let a bunch of morons who call themself creatives destroy that for me ,i have gone thorugh hell and above for michi for the past year and half with all of you and at this point am not going to let go till they actually sink and drown me in their meaningless twists and turns



Hey I too appreciated this post too!!! 👏👏👏 Made me also feel more hopeful and positive!!! But I can't equate Prachi's actions with Milind or her previous actions thought they were bad by themselves.... by this I mean, I personally don't want her to be forgiven so easily!!! But yes, I do think she deserves to be forgiven... I do want to see MICHI together!!! 😊
Edited by meteora_smt - 17 years ago

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