What do you think Katha should say to Viaan to give him closure?

What do you think Katha should say to Viaan to give him closure? What she should say exactly? So that Viaan feels satisfied and gets his closure which he is looking for. (give separate answers. Copy paste it if u think answer is same)

Originally posted by: abca19510

What she should say?

" I Don't want to pursue life with you anymore. Half truth that Aarav knows has made him a mentally unstable child and he hates you immensely that he doesn't want to see your face. Full truth will break him completely. Right now, he doesn't understand anything but later, when he grows up, don't know what will happen to him."

Something else that can be added to it?

Sorry, that I am enquiring too much but, I am unable to think of a convincing conversation which Katha can give to give closure to Viaan. Everyone is saying she should give closure to Viaan but, what will she say to give him closure? And, giving him closure is not easy for a very specific reason.

Originally posted by: abca19510

What do you think Katha should say to Viaan to give him closure? What she should say exactly? So that Viaan feels satisfied and gets his closure which he is looking for. (give separate answers. Copy paste it if u think answer is same)

I wanted to vent out my frustration but if i think from katha's screwed up pov then she should say-

Our love is doomed. We really tried to work on all the problems but our past is something which will never leave us. Even adults like garewals couldn't handle it so there is no chance that aarav can ever be able to understand it. Whatever he has heard has made him mentally unstable. He is so angry that he doesn't want to listen to your name forget about explaining anything to him and I don't want to take any chance with my son's health.

My son had always been my first priority. Whatever I had done in past was also to save my son. Even I start liking you only when I noticed that you have all the qualities of good father. So when my son doesn't want you any longer then whats the point.

Our families have also gone through so much and there is a bitterness among them which will never leave now.

I know our breakup will be unfair to you but thats what life is, we have to make adjustments according to it and I have made mine. I am going to marry doctor and I think I can make a perfect family with him. So please stop chasing me and try to move on. I know its difficult but you have to try for your family, for everyone around you who cares for you.

Okay, enough now. Its like writing an answer in school exam sheet when you dont know much about the question but still you want to fill the answer sheet so you keep on going in marry go rounds and write one and the same thing repeatedly with different words. Because honestly, katha doesn't have any valid reason for breakup.

For me, she has nothing valid to say so should keep her tounge shut. Let Viaan run, he will be tired at some point, let him think she wasn't worthy of his love.

Originally posted by: abca19510

Katha gave to him the closure 4 times technically

1st in hospital Breakup

2nd time in car when Viaan was drunk

3rd time in cafe

4th time it will be in engagement

So, the entire argument that she should give closure is futile when she has done that so many times. Also, no amount of closure is going to convince him.

Hospital breakup is the proper one where she gave valid reason for their seperation. I still don't understand what Viaan meant by fixing everything. He knew intentions of Maya and her truth still, he was unable to stop her. However, his desperation to fix everything also makes sense so, he is perfectly right at his place.

Let's don't count car one as a proper closure. It is proper closure convo from Katha's side but, since Viaan wasn't in his senses, so, it is wasted. But, thing to note is that in their first meet "alone" she gave him his answers which can be called a proper closure.

In cafe, it is again case of improper closure however, I don't expect a proper closure in public space.

I haven't watched today's episode so, don't know what happened today.

There is another problem with closure that once Viaan realizes the reason for condition of Aarav is his family and root cause on top of this is ONS, he will again go back into immense guilt and then, he will never be able to move on from it. Atleast its better that he is hating Katha and he is ready to move on from her but, in that case, he will spend his entire life in guilt. So, whether Katha gives him closure or not, he will still remain in past.

U have said one thing which I agree completely that no closure from Katha will be enough for Viaan and that's so true!! Why ?? Well whatever Katha is saying to Viaan her reasons are lame and Viaan sees love in her eyes. That love in her eyes still gives him assurance that every problem can be solved and fixed.Katha is repeatedly saying that she has moved onn whereas he sees love in her eyes then how come her half baked reasons be satisfactory to him?? Did she for once sit patiently with him and discussed about the reasons to get over?? NO!! Either she speaks out whatever she has to say and run away or just scream and shout saying "Move onn".Viaan said exactly the same thing to Ehsaan that they were in a realtionship and this is not the way to get over!! In hospital to a serious ailing person she said everybody knows about ONS ,so relationship over and then runs away without even listening a single thing from him.In cafe again running away without listening to him what he has to say.Kya hai yeh??Aisi hoti hai closure to a relationship??

I'm posting a reel here ...just hear the dialogues...so apt!!

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzN4EgLLp5J/?igshid=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

Originally posted by: abca19510

What do you think Katha should say to Viaan to give him closure? What she should say exactly? So that Viaan feels satisfied and gets his closure which he is looking for.

Originally posted by: abca19510

What do you think Katha should say to Viaan to give him closure? What she should say exactly? So that Viaan feels satisfied and gets his closure which he is looking for. (give separate answers. Copy paste it if u think answer is same)

2. That what she feels for him is not true love. What she had with Adi was love, that is why it took her so long to move on after his death and even after his death she continued to talk to him, share her problems with him, felt his presence always. What she feels for Viaan is some strange infatuation, she doesn't feel the need to communicate with him, and is therefore looking for excuses to cut him out of her life. Sorry I hurt you but such is life. Move on

Originally posted by: divine_16

Ek baat batao...was the relationship included only Katha ?? Wasn't Viaan in this relationship?? When a couple is in relationship and is in immensely love ,a closure of a relationship can't be unilateral .It wasn't a TOXIC one... that Katha said it's over...boom.. relationship closed!! And that's exactly what she is doing. She has taken the decision herself and now Viaan has to obey to it...pathetically ,that's her attitude, nowadays!! The things u have written... it only has a closure from Katha's side...and a relationship can only be over and closed from both ends.And that's why I said in one of my comments previously...in this relationship where does Viaan stand?? Unfortunately, Nowhere...be it continuing the relationship or getting over it.Sadly,the breath/ existence of this relationship depends on Katha's decision.... UNILATERAL!!

U have said one thing which I agree completely that no closure from Katha will be enough for Viaan and that's so true!! Why ?? Well whatever Katha is saying to Viaan her reasons are lame and Viaan sees love in her eyes. That love in her eyes still gives him assurance that every problem can be solved and fixed.Katha is repeatedly saying that she has moved onn whereas he sees love in her eyes then how come her half baked reasons be satisfactory to him?? Did she for once sit patiently with him and discussed about the reasons to get over?? NO!! Either she speaks out whatever she has to say and run away or just scream and shout saying "Move onn".Viaan said exactly the same thing to Ehsaan that they were in a realtionship and this is not the way to get over!! In hospital to a serious ailing person she said everybody knows about ONS ,so relationship over and then runs away without even listening a single thing from him.In cafe again running away without listening to him what he has to say.Kya hai yeh??Aisi hoti hai closure to a relationship??

I'm posting a reel here ...just hear the dialogues...so apt!!

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CzN4EgLLp5J/?igshid=MTc4MmM1YmI2Ng==

I was actuallly looking for a suitable closure conversation for Katha because everyone was saying after Viaan like a parrot that "she should give him closure and go where ever she like to go". So, my question was what closure she should give? So, I thought, people might have a more convincing closure than what has already been given or, What is happening right now.

You say, her say in this relationship shouldn't be unilateral which I agree with but, everyone expects her to give the closure. The point is that she has given her part of the explanation. Her explantion isn't convincing, I agree with that. Also, she is clearly lying about moving on.

So, does this mean Viaan should move on? No. As a viewer, I saw them bloom and I want to see them together in the end. However, I want to see them together. So, I feel sad when any one of them is demeaned and bashed like they are bashed now for no reason. If reason is appropriate, I won't feel a thing, I myself criticize them. Right now, I was finding so many comments Katha should give him closure ye toh batao bhai jo ho chuka hai uske alwawa bhi closure hai?

This is the hospital breakup scene. She presented her points which are very valid for me. Also, as Katha said, this truth indeed broke both families. And, as Viaan said, it is indeed breaking her. This is really heartwrenching to watch.

https://x.com/ThodaYehThodaWo/status/1709596297362067693?s=20

Also, I am seeing a Viaan's guilt track again but, this time he isn't the culprit but, he will just feel guilty. Won't elaborate on why I think so until it is shown on TV.

Originally posted by: abca19510

But, from the other lens where you can clearly see no amount of trust or talking could have suppressed the truth about the dark night. It went from a private affair to being public. No one in public will care about the ONS as it is their affair and they have no bussiness intruding in this affair but, what about Aarav?

Viaan knew about ill intentions of Maya was he able to stop her from spreading the message to Reet and Grewal family? So, this entire thing, she can trust on Viaan, they can work it out together seems redundant. They simply have no control over it. And, this is also conveyed by Katha in hospital breakup. "Ab uss sach ko chupaaya bhi toh nhi jaa sakta". Who is accountable for creating these circumstances? My problem is why she is getting entire blame. Why no one is seeing the circumstances they were in which caused this entire problem?

I want to say more things but, many of these are based on some logical conclusions. Nothing of that sort has been shown on TV so, there is no point in arguing about that. so, for now, I agree with most of the things you have said.

About Viaan knowing about Maya....well he came to know about it when he was signing his discharge papers.After that he Confronted her,bashed her,broke relationship with her in hospital and immediately went to Garewal house to meet Katha. He already knew when Yuvraj knows it then Garewal family will also come to know and was so afraid while lying on hospital bed. That's why he wasn't surprised to see that Garewals also knows about it when he arrived there.So warning Maya is not even in the equation ...truth from Yuvraj /Reet was sure to come out .

U know why Katha is blamed and bashed...bcoz her character has taken a drastic turn.She wasn't like this ever.Their relationship was basded on transparency. She used to share each and everything with Viaan...even she came at night to Viaan's house and spoke out what Teji thinks of Aarav.If then she thinks it better to tell Viaan without considering the fact that what Viaan will feel then why not now? Now,she hides about Maya's blackmailing... doesn't give clarity about her thought process and taking unilateral decisions ...which is making it hard for most of the viewers really to relate and sympathize with her.And the one thing I'm so salty about Viaan is how did he let go Teji so easily?? More than Maya I would blame Teji for this fiasco.I thought he will live separately after knowing the truth but nah!! May be bcoz he promised his mother not to leave her ever.