MEIN JADOO NAHIN CREATE KAR SAKTA…………Hmmm - Page 3

Originally posted by: mili9

Thanks for all the responses and funny takes🤡. And cold calling gets flak for no reason👍🏼

But seems like nobody is watching the show dil se😲As a follow up of the above statement, he said, yeh jadoo mera nahin hain. Yeh jadoo Katha aur Adi be create kiya and mein iss mein ghusne ki koshish kar raha hoon. Mein jadoo nahin create kar sakta.

That is giving a negative connotation to the whole hoopla he went through. Does he mean that by this statement, that he can’t connect with somebody else’s jadoo, Aarav?😡 This, coupled with his pregnancy blues, I am wondering if he will back outOr else, the writers are not proof reading their writing to see how that comes across in the current situation.

What say?😒

Mili, I hope apart from Kath’s life, he also realizes he is taking responsibility for Aarav when he shouldn’t be. That he is teaching him to ride a bicycle, deliberately keeping it from the parent. That he doesn’t want to meet the parent so his time with Aarav isn’t interrupted. That he can go talk to the school principal, that him sharing details of his absent love life with someone else’s child is normal because nothing can be above their friendship… none of this is ok. So perhaps for once acknowledging that the sole rights on what Aarav does rests with the parent.

Maybe he just realized he cannot be reading daddy books to win over Aarav without first winning over Katha. Meaning, he needs her permission to reach out to Aarav.

Originally posted by: mili9

Thanks for all the responses and funny takes🤡. And cold calling gets flak for no reason👍🏼

But seems like nobody is watching the show dil se😲As a follow up of the above statement, he said, yeh jadoo mera nahin hain. Yeh jadoo Katha aur Adi be create kiya and mein iss mein ghusne ki koshish kar raha hoon. Mein jadoo nahin create kar sakta.

That is giving a negative connotation to the whole hoopla he went through. Does he mean that by this statement, that he can’t connect with somebody else’s jadoo, Aarav?😡 This, coupled with his pregnancy blues, I am wondering if he will back outOr else, the writers are not proof reading their writing to see how that comes across in the current situation.

What say?😒

may not back off but will ask Katha to give him a chance. Then one day Katha will say you have been a great support for Aarav as Robin so you can be his dad ….tadaaa Viaans eyes will become big

Originally posted by: Bana

Exactly! If Katha doesnt love him enough to want to marry him or change her current life, she shd say that. Not make Adi or Aarav her shield. This way Viaan may construe that she is interested but loyalty to Adi’s memories & consideration of son Aarav are holding her back. In that context it wld make sense for Viaan to try to lower her defences wrt Aarav by “learning” to be a good dad. Of course the way he is going about it is utter nonsense, but thats a different point.

But there are no scenes to show that Viaan thinks she is intetested but something holding her back. if what he has understood is that she doesnt reciprocate his love yet, then how can proving to be a good dad win her love? If she was a woman who needs a man’s support for bringing up her child it may work but she is clearly not. So instead of this dad nonsense he shd try to woo her & win her love thru his friendship.

Only problem is he doesn't know how to. He thinks staring and breaking into random poems at random times is wooing. 🤢

Originally posted by: kushikumari

Only problem is he doesn't know how to. He thinks staring and breaking into random poems at random times is wooing. 🤢

maybe that’s how guys in 30s do these days 😂

Sorry for responding so late.I am just bored of the show and watching it out of habit.The episodes don't evoke any strong emotion in me to write about them.

Originally posted by: Starship1

Originally posted by kushikumari

Only problem is he doesn't know how to. He thinks staring and breaking into random poems at random times is wooing.

Starship1:
maybe that’s how guys in 30s do these days 😂

in the words of sima aunty.... 🤣

Mango ji you crack me up(in bold)🤣🤣

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

mili -- I watched the latest episode and I can't believe how stupid this is. I repeat, no hospital staff in India would allow a random person to enter the delivery room. 😂

many people have various ideas about modesty based on culture and religion. so these factors are always taken into consideration. you can see my post here.

why would a nurse/doctor allow viaan in without even checking whether amrita or the head doctor is okay with it?????? 🤦🤦🤦 lets not forget the germs factor and how hospitals restrict entry more in certain environments.

I am reminded of this convo with my cousin sister. she was laughing about this hindi serial where this doctor is watching some ITV -- in it, the FL will go into surgery room saying her mangalsutra and sindoor will save the ML --- and the doctor is eyerolling away. 🤣

this scene was on par with that. 😆

Agree initially it looked like there's something happening between them and now, after confession it's downhill and it seems the writers are clueless as to how can they bring everything together.

Originally posted by: kushikumari

@bold, the max it can be is a transaction? So far there are no sparks or chemistry or smiles or laughs, or any sort of emotional bonding. If these two fall in love it will be the biggest shocker.

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

in the words of sima aunty.... 🤣

Mango, as much as Seema aunty irritates me with her blanket statements and profiling, she does speak some utter truths👍🏼 This is one of them👏

Originally posted by: G259

Sorry for responding so late.I am just bored of the show and watching it out of habit.The episodes don't evoke any strong emotion in me to write about them.

same; I am also just watching on and off out of habit. I feel like I am watching some kitchidi of some firengi based Indian show and so I can't connect at all. some of the arcs treatment are just strange -- like they picked out scenes from some random english movie and plonked them here.

I have cribbed about the dress which is not typical office wear here. now, we have weird fella in delivery room and fatherhood lessons journey that don't sound true to me in Indian context.

look at the preview.

why do we have a babysitting track? does keith have no family at all? does amrita have no family at all? in the south, a newborn and mother do not step out of the house for 40 days unless needed; they even discourage visitors other than the super close relatives and friends. this is to avoid infection and give time for the newborn and mother to settle in.

so no random person will be babysitting because both mother and child are at home. even if there was an emergency or some need to step out, why would you call inexperienced person to babysit? what about your relative such as mom or mom-in-law or aunt or cosister or anyone else helping out? even if that option is not available for you because you live far away or estranged from your family, you can always hire a nanny or ayah. you are not going to call random friends who may not even know how to hold a baby.

ofcourse when you are abroad or living far from home, you may not have much help. but then most travel home for the delivery and stay couple of months. why is amrita not at her mom's house?

also, the way these guys freaking out makes me eye roll. 🙄

I was babysitting my mom's friend baby when I was 11/12 so she can step out for a few hours to do groceries or whatever. when I told my mom that I am too young, she eye rolled and told me that she was taking care of her baby sis when she was 8/9 and I am old by comparison. 🤣🤣🤣

so what instructions did I get from my mom?

-- just sit there with a book.

-- if baby wakes, engage/play. no need to pick up baby necessarily but can just play in bed itself.

-- if baby cries, give bottle. still crying, pick up baby and walk for a bit till baby settles and put back on bed.

-- if really needed, change diaper/nappy.

happy to say I never called my mom in panic. 😂 for the most part, it wasn't bad even if baby cried. eventually they settled in and liked me and just gave me a toothless grin.

and my mom is such a good friend that she happily volunteered me to her friends even though I kept saying 'no' -- my mom was like "you are just reading a book. you can read there also" 😂😂 but I was a great babysitter. sometimes, in addition to baby, there was another toddler or two.

so: babysitting is not rocket science that you need to call lecturer madam FL for guidance. all babies do is eat, sleep and poop. even a young teenager can do it!