Katha Ankahee -- #13 daily episode DT - Page 46

https://youtu.be/q1N9XDVFau4?t=112

Viaan ... usse papa wali feeling jarur aarahi hai .... 😉😃

The support partner is their for the mothers well being and support

It could be anyone friend boyfriend sister brother mother etc etc

For a long long time men were kept out of labor because of misogyny

The want women to face their pain alone and didn't think it was appropriate to burden men with it

I'm glad its changing

Originally posted by: Twinklestar139

Ayooo, I just some some news clip and why the hell is Viaan in the delivery room when Amrita is popping out the baby. 🤢 This aint even legal and wrong on so many levels. Someone please tell me is it legal in india to have a friend present when a woman is in labour? This feels so disgusting.

this track is cracking me up. so much so I called up my cousin sister -- one of her friends recently gave birth and I wanted to check if things had changed since my sister had a baby years ago. my sister started laughing when I told her that ML is allowed in delivery room as random friend. 🤣

so she confirmed: depending on the city and hospital, even husbands may not be allowed in the room. they may get to pop in and out. some do allow the guy to come in the full time but it is really at the doctor's discretion. more allow the girl's mom to come in rather than the husband but again it depends on the health of the girl's mom.

my understanding is that doctors and staff are more concerned about working conditions and their ease as they move from one delivery to another. even a C-section, there will be multiple appointments in one day. when my niece was born, there were 4 other babies born in the same hospital that morning. so staff can't deal with over-the-top family members -- easier to keep them outside in the waiting room.

in one documentary I watched a while ago on babies around the world, the chinese nurse won't allow the husband in the room. he will insist and she will tell him that the last guy they allowed fainted and they ended up having to do CPR on him in the delivery room. 🤣 the hubby will insist that he will not faint and he is okay with blood and she will tell him to buzz off. it was such a hilarious scene like out from a movie that I still remember it. 🤣🤣🤣

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Originally posted by: G259

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Mr Viaan Katha ke dimaag mein rent free rahathe the , ab dil mein bhi ..... 😳😃

Originally posted by: mango.falooda

this track is cracking me up. so much so I called up my cousin sister -- one of her friends recently gave birth and I wanted to check if things had changed since my sister had a baby years ago. my sister started laughing when I told her that ML is allowed in delivery room as random friend. 🤣

so she confirmed: depending on the city and hospital, even husbands may not be allowed in the room. they may get to pop in and out. some do allow the guy to come in the full time but it is really at the doctor's discretion. more allow the girl's mom to come in rather than the husband but again it depends on the health of the girl's mom.

my understanding is that doctors and staff are more concerned about working conditions and their ease as they move from one delivery to another. even a C-section, there will be multiple appointments in one day. when my niece was born, there were 4 other babies born in the same hospital that morning. so staff can't deal with over-the-top family members -- easier to keep them outside in the waiting room.

in one documentary I watched a while ago on babies around the world, the chinese nurse won't allow the husband in the room. he will insist and she will tell him that the last guy they allowed fainted and they ended up having to do CPR on him in the delivery room. 🤣 the hubby will insist that he will not faint and he is okay with blood and she will tell him to buzz off. it was such a hilarious scene like out from a movie that I still remember it. 🤣🤣🤣

Originally posted by: ruchita3179

I had my son 12 years ago & nobody was allowed.Not even husband.Nowadays i dont know if anyone is allowed.

yea it all depends on the hospital and doctor it seems. I have a feel that these ultra private top-end hospitals will allow husband these days (depending on his health and ability to take stress) as they are not having so many births in one day. however, the govt hospitals and the smaller hospitals which have multiple births in a day -- the staff simply do not have the energy to deal with family members.

one of my classmates did medicine and I remember meeting her in her final year -- she had finished the practical round and out of all the depts, she hated the gynaec; she said she couldn't believe the number of babies and complications they had to handle each morning. it was a semi-govt funded hospital and so the number of patients were very high. the staff are really overworked in these places. so it is understandable why they won't allow even a family member inside. as it is, the rooms are small and you have staff and imagine some family member having a meltdown as they are anxious. will you take care of the patient or the family member? so obviously patient is priority -- that is why the doctors kick out family members.

Duniya mein achanak delivery time pe birthing partner prakat nahi hoga anywhere except Itv 😂 I mean she hardly knew Viaan or that was what was shown. No old connection between them was shown.

Husbands are allowed in most hospitals these days in the delivery room but it depends on if the would be mom will be keen on that, the comfort levels of the medical staff. Also like others mentioned anyone could be your birthing partner but you should have a rapport with them.

This Viaan’s I want to experience fatherhood & then Keith not available end minute etc is simply ott. Oh! Amritha telling Katha Viaan is one in a lakh people & Katha is one in a million people or something like that was just too off for me. At least for name sake put a one liner ki - kuch mahine baad then show this convo with Katha. All the itv new moms are too well supported as a new mom to talk such dialogues & plot against others like Reeth. I wish Itv got some reality check.

I will resume watching when this Viaan’s ott I want to experience fatherhood & Katha being smitten by this act is over.

Originally posted by: badgarlriri

The support partner is their for the mothers well being and support

It could be anyone friend boyfriend sister brother mother etc etc

For a long long time men were kept out of labor because of misogyny

The want women to face their pain alone and didn't think it was appropriate to burden men with it

I'm glad its changing

I will disagree with you on this as the picture is far too complicated. there are several complex moving parts such as falling birth rates, the smaller size of families, the number of hospital-doctor-staff ratio, access to healthcare, rising costs, people's ability to pay, health of the mother, falling immunity, attitudes towards modesty that is influenced by culture and religion.

if you look at industrializied countries with falling birth rates, there is more care and personalized options available because the number of babies is less. whereas in a developing country, with the ratio of doctors to patients, even access to healthcare can be an issue if you don't have enough medical colleges. then where is the question of a doctor providing more personalized care when you have tons of patients in a day. anxious family member is a liability and not a plus in those situations. so staff need to control the situation in order to do what they do best.

then you have to look at the complication angle. my doctor classmate said that maternity ward can be super unpredictable because you can go from a normal birth to a life and death complication within minutes. so do we have family members present during surgery? obviously not. so the mother's health also has to be considered by medical staff before they would allow a family member.

unlike decades ago, where women easily had five and more children, the health of women and ability to take pain is not strong according to many because we lead a sedentary lifestyle. then the health of the accompanying family member is also an issue -- do they have the ability to handle this kind of stressful situation?

then you have to look at angles like community and religious feelings towards modesty -- these attitudes are different across people groups. if a woman gave birth in her village, she would be surrounded by other women she knew -- so she was still getting support. it would be awkward for the man as well as the midwife and other women helping out if he is present. they need to be able to fully concentrate on the mother and not have to deal with awkward cultural sensibilities. so there too, it boils down to the ease for the midwife and other women helping her. even today, most maternity depts in hospitals are dominated by women doctors

so changes in healthcare, attitudes and access can never be boiled down to a simple cut and dry answer. we have to look at the whole picture when we are thinking of solutions for society especially within healthcare. thats just my take. 🤷

Originally posted by: teddybearcastle

Duniya mein achanak delivery time pe birthing partner prakat nahi hoga anywhere except Itv 😂 I mean she hardly knew Viaan or that was what was shown. No old connection between them was shown.

Husbands are allowed in most hospitals these days in the delivery room but it depends on if the would be mom will be keen on that, the comfort levels of the medical staff. Also like others mentioned anyone could be your birthing partner but you should have a rapport with them.

This Viaan’s I want to experience fatherhood & then Keith not available end minute etc is simply ott. Oh! Amritha telling Katha Viaan is one in a lakh people & Katha is one in a million people or something like that was just too off for me. At least for name sake put a one liner ki - kuch mahine baad then show this convo with Katha. All the itv new moms are too well supported as a new mom to talk such dialogues & plot against others like Reeth. I wish Itv got some reality check.

I will resume watching when this Viaan’s ott I want to experience fatherhood & Katha being smitten by this act is over.