कसौटी ज़िन्दगी के ২ Episode Discussions 20 Nov 2019[Nt page 9] - Page 6

Originally posted by: hope4u

I'm not in agreement with some of the opinions here which are implying that somehow komolika is repeatedly coming on to anurag because he has not firmly said no. The fact that he is uncomfortable is clearly visible and he did also tell komolika yesterday that he's not comfortable. What more is he supposed to say?

This is horrifyingly similar to insensitive people claiming that it's impossible to rape someone if they are firmly against it. (I do not mean anyone here).

Komolika knows very well that anurag is uncomfortable with her touch.. It's all over his face and body language.. He doesn't have to be any more vocal about it than what he has already said for her to get the point. The fact of the matter is that she is coming on to him despite that rather than because he has not made his wishes clear.

Hope..I agree he said that he is uncomfortable but he was not firm in doing so

A mo means no....has to be told sternly

But I guess we will get that very soon....komo is crossing all limits now

another thing , why Anurag is more concern for the baby than Prerna. today he scolded prerna for not taking care of the baby , agar baby ka kuch ho jate toh ? he tensed for only baccha not for prerna, why ? gir jane ke badd toh prerna kabhi luksan ho sakte the na ? he dint ask if prerna ok or not .. uska concern hai baccha ka kuch na ho ...

iyea kaisa peyar hai bhai , ma se jeyada bacche ka fikar

peyar toh ma ko kia sabse pehle , baccha toh just nishani ... today's reaction was anurag's unconscious mind's reflection only jo hit moment pe bahar aye hai , where the baccha is prior more than mamma.. 🤪

Originally posted by: hope4u

I'm not in agreement with some of the opinions here which are implying that somehow komolika is repeatedly coming on to anurag because he has not firmly said no. The fact that he is uncomfortable is clearly visible and he did also tell komolika yesterday that he's not comfortable. What more is he supposed to say?

This is horrifyingly similar to insensitive people claiming that it's impossible to rape someone if they are firmly against it. (I do not mean anyone here).

Komolika knows very well that anurag is uncomfortable with her touch.. It's all over his face and body language.. He doesn't have to be any more vocal about it than what he has already said for her to get the point. The fact of the matter is that she is coming on to him despite that rather than because he has not made his wishes clear.

Idk why, I have a feeling they are going to drag it till the time Komo overdoes it, and Anurag loses his cool like badly. 😆 Coz, that would be the CVs' idea of bigger drama.

Originally posted by: opsora2090

another thing , why Anurag is more concern for the baby than Prerna. today he scolded prerna for not taking care of the baby , agar baby ka kuch ho jate toh ? he tensed for only baccha not for prerna, why ? gir jane ke badd toh prerna kabhi luksan ho sakte the na ? he dint ask if prerna ok or not .. uska concern hai baccha ka kuch na ho ...

iyea kaisa peyar hai bhai , ma se jeyada bacche ka fikar

peyar toh ma ko kia sabse pehle , baccha toh just nishani ... today's reaction was anurag's unconscious mind's reflection only jo hit moment pe bahar aye hai , where the baccha is prior more than mamma.. 🤪

Originally posted by: najma123

Well, keeping aside the obvious ML fact, people do love the kids more. There are people who don't. There are people who do, mothers who love their kids more than their husbands/boyfriends, even if it is a love marriage, and men who do love their kids more than their wives. KZK is no benchmark for showcasing beautiful equations between different relationships in real life, but that said, there are some things that even they show that may not really defy logic, or love or whatever. 🤗

najma , it is not like people love kids or not..kids abhitak iss dunia mai ayai nei , so how come a family friend kam class fellow itna over protective ho sakte hai like a father ? chalo mai man lia khoon khoon ko pukar raha hai , but what are they showing anurag is super possessive for the baby right now. like woh puree rat soooo bhi nei paye for the baby . it is exaggerating the baby matter . anurag ka main concern baby more than pre.. he is now attached with baby more than pre... today from subconcious mind he blamed pre for not taking care of herself, agar baby ka kuch ho jate toh ... he was super serious and looked over tensed ...itna tensed pre bhi nei jitna anurag hai ... agar iyea development manually dikhate toh i could understand .. but they are rushing like 2-3 epi se anurag ka concern suddenly baby ke liye bar geye ...

toh socho agar iyea baby ka kuch hote hai , in future jab Anurag ka memory bapas aye toh whom he will blame ? atfirst prerna ofcourse .. that is why i am saying right now anurag subconscious priority is not for prerna, it is for baby ... which is looking weird ATM.

Originally posted by: opsora2090

najma , it is not like people love kids or not..kids abhitak iss dunia mai ayai nei , so how come a family friend kam class fellow itna over protective ho sakte hai like a father ? chalo mai man lia khoon khoon ko pukar raha hai , but what are they showing anurag is super possessive for the baby right now. like woh puree rat soooo bhi nei paye for the baby . it is exaggerating the baby matter . anurag ka main concern baby more than pre.. he is now attached with baby more than pre... today from subconcious mind he blamed pre for not taking care of herself, agar baby ka kuch ho jate toh ... he was super serious and looked over tensed ...itna tensed pre bhi nei jitna anurag hai ... agar iyea development manually dikhate toh i could understand .. but they are rushing like 2-3 epi se anurag ka concern suddenly baby ke liye bar geye ...

toh socho agar iyea baby ka kuch hote hai , in future jab Anurag ka memory bapas aye toh whom he will blame ? atfirst prerna ofcourse .. that is why i am saying right now anurag subconscious priority is not for prerna, it is for baby ... which is looking weird ATM.

Originally posted by: anju_maaneet

I really did not know her age...I searched in google....but she is 42 years old in real....so sad younger hero has to pair with this much old lady....

But initially I did not feel awkward abt that I thought she is younger( she is looking good and younger) may be little elder than parth Erica like hina.but she is very elder....after knowing that I couldnot see them together...sorry no offense..just my point.....

It’s OK for any one to dislike their fav actor paired with a much elder actor ... it’s the same for every one ., .. every fan has his rights to express his dislike for his fav actor's mismatched pairing ..

it’s applies to every one ...

Originally posted by: najma123

Well, he IS uncomfortable, and in general, people should understand these underlying currents. However, if someone isn't understanding those signals of disinterest, would it be unreasonable and actually wrong to voice out one's discomfort? Would he lose something by voicing it out? This is keeping aside the point that Komo is a vamp. He COULD say, we need more time. Or let's wait for me to get my memory back. He need not say it. But he could, right?

Idk why, I have a feeling they are going to drag it till the time Komo overdoes it, and Anurag loses his cool like badly. 😆 Coz, that would be the CVs' idea of bigger drama.

He did say he was uncomfortable in yesterday's episode. I think that suffices as far as voicing out is concerned. Uncomfortable means uncomfortable. There are no further qualifications required especially in such matters.

Beyond this point, the o ly thing left for anurag to do is, as you've said lose his cool to make it clear that no means no.

Basically he's giving Komo a long rope and she's just happily hacking away at it.

Originally posted by: hope4u

He did say he was uncomfortable in yesterday's episode. I think that suffices as far as voicing out is concerned. Uncomfortable means uncomfortable. There are no further qualifications required especially in such matters.

Beyond this point, the o ly thing left for anurag to do is, as you've said lose his cool to make it clear that no means no.

Basically he's giving Komo a long rope and she's just happily hacking away at it.

And he's a grown up guy, who can pretty well gauge people's mentality, even he can figure out that Komo isn't someone who gets subtle hints, he could see that when she tried ambushing him in his office. So, when you are dealing with someone like that, the next logical thing would be to convey your discomfort more strongly. Now, if that doesn't work, then all hell breaks loose. But, here, I'd blame the CVs, they are probably gearing up for some nonsense OTT drama with this SR bullshit.

Originally posted by: najma123

See, as far as what suffices and what doesn't, it's Anurag's right to feel comfortable with the people around him, and he also has the rights to demand it when it's not being given personal privacy, my point was just that, though, he may be conveying his feelings out, would he be at a greater disadvantage if he's a little more vociferous than he is now at present?

And he's a grown up guy, who can pretty well gauge people's mentality, even he can figure out that Komo isn't someone who gets subtle hints, he could see that when she tried ambushing him in his office. So, when you are dealing with someone like that, the next logical thing would be to convey your discomfort more strongly. Now, if that doesn't work, then all hell breaks loose. But, here, I'd blame the CVs, they are probably gearing up for some nonsense OTT drama with this SR bullshit.

Emotions samjho.

He doesnt have a reason to push her away.. from.his behavior he looks confused , more than anything else.. neither is he creeped out nor molested...he just said he is feeling awkward..and awkward doesnt necessarily mean he doesnt want to get close..the awkwardness can be due to a new relation also

This I am.not saying because I want something else..I am saying this because they are showing it that way right now.