Bajaj-Wrong 2 Prerna,Totally Right 2 Anu! - Page 5

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

I am not saying it is wrong in keeping their friendship! Agreed both of them have 2 worlds where as sam and bajaj only has 1, but if they want to keep these 2 worlds, they should know how to maintain both of them!! If they dont know how to give required priority to both of them, dont u think it is better they dont maintain them! Spouse commands more priority than friendship, but if it happens the other way round, then i dont think that friendship is right (this i am talkng about anu-sam). Ok agreed in prerna's case it is a misunderstanding as bajaj thought prerna told anurag that she still loves him, and he thought she only told anurag about sneha killing kamini! Ok i do agree that bajaj asking anurag to cut off from prerna for ever is wrong, but it is prerna-anurag who brought situations to this extent! What is the need for both of them to go on talking about their past and their past love, and that also so loudly that both their respective spouses heard!! Bajaj had never opposed prerna-anurag's relation, neither had sam! It is just now when things crossed limits that they have a problem!

All i am saying is keep both friendship and love, there is no harm, but see to it that both sides are happy, especially the side which requires higher priority! Thats all 😊 !!

The highest priroty for Prerna was not send Sneha to jail. Its not as if she told Anurag directly he over heard them talking so how is their fault.

Mr. Bajaj and Sam are being unreasonable. Mr.Bajaj left her so he had no right to say all that to Prerna. The only person she could turn to was Anu, who is her dearest friend. If friends dont come to help in time of need then what are those friends for. Bajaj should understand that he is as important to Prerna as Sneha is. A mother love has no limits, she will do anything to protect her child. he would have understood better if she had been his.

He even has no right to say all this to Anu as well, who after all did looked after his family when he abondend them for crying out loud.

Love is something you cant define. You can love your parents, friends it is not only for the spouses, even you can love animals.

Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

Bajaj's bhashan to anurag rocked today 👏 !!

Seriosuly...the 'paraya mard' thing was superb😆 My Rishabh Rocks!!!!!!!

And Appu..once more u thank me..either here or thru PM..I'll be after u with dandas..u might be MI9...but I'm MI7😈

Originally posted by: sunflower52

The highest priroty for Prerna was not send Sneha to jail. Its not as if she told Anurag directly he over heard them talking so how is their fault. OK, fine. It's not AP's fault that A found out. But a) Bajaj does not know that and b)shouldn't Prerna have told her husband and the father of her daughter the truth? Why should he be the only one kept in the dark? Why does she want to be so mahaan that she won't even tell him the truth?

Mr. Bajaj and Sam are being unreasonable. Mr.Bajaj left her so he had no right to say all that to Prerna. The only person she could turn to was Anu, who is her dearest friend. If friends dont come to help in time of need then what are those friends for. Bajaj should understand that he is as important to Prerna as Sneha is. A mother love has no limits, she will do anything to protect her child. he would have understood better if she had been his. He left her because he thought she still loved another man, because on her LAST DAY in HER HOUSE, i.e. BAJAJ house, she was spending time talking to her "friend" instead of saying bye to her husband. It's not about Sneha - Bajaj loves Sneha much more than he loves Prerna, and always will. And if its about friendship, then why couldn't Sam be a part of AP's Friendship Club? Why was she excluded?

He even has no right to say all this to Anu as well, who after all did looked after his family when he abondend them for crying out loud. Agreed, but once again, Bajaj does not know the truth because no one deigns to tell him.

Love is something you cant define. You can love your parents, friends it is not only for the spouses, even you can love animals. Yes, but loving your "friend" over your spouse suggests a weird sense of priority

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

Seriosuly...the 'paraya mard' thing was superb😆 My Rishabh Rocks!!!!!!!

And Appu..once more u thank me..either here or thru PM..I'll be after u with dandas..u might be MI9...but I'm MI7😈

😆 😆 😆...Galti ho gayi !!....MI7 Ki Jai Ho 😆 😆 😆 !!

Originally posted by: psawyer

Agree with u!! But does bajaj know that tushar, etc are staying with anurag in his house?!

Originally posted by: Manasi_16

That's better... 😆

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Originally posted by: *dewdrop~pearl*

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Originally posted by: psawyer

She even told Bajaj she loved him before she went to jail and told him to try to understand.

I have seen this show from the begining and Prerna & Anu share a history long before Bajaj entered her life.

He is not a child that he has to be told evevrything, he should have asked or bother to find out how his family doing without him. Thats his duty as a father and husband. If he is having problems he should have talked out with Prerna about the conversion with Anu.

He should be 60 + dont you think his level of understanding should be more.

In some ways Sam is right and wrong. She cant expect Anu to leave Prerna when her husband abandand her. She has noone to turn too expect him. There are somethings you can forget but not the past a love which is deeper then anything else.

Originally posted by: psawyer

How can he try and understand when he doesn't know what to understand?

Just because AP share a history doesn't mean that Prerna's husband should be sidelined. I too have watched this show from the beginning.

He DID ask Prerna, countless times, why she was doing what she was doing - why she wouldn't tell him. Mahesh and he were certain that Prerna was covering something up, but when she weas being so stubborn and not telling him, what could he do? And how do we know that he didn't know what was going on with his family? Just because he wasn't there didn't mean he wasn't keeping tabs...he must have known that Prerna was released.

So, he should be understanding ALL the time, and AP have no responsibilities? They too are old enough to know better, so why do they want to breed misunderstandings by attempting to be mahaan all the time? Is communication such a big problem for them?

Past love may be deep, but surely current love is the priority?