just saw this on rediff.com... 😛 loved the way someone asked why did you marry mr walia 😛 when he is so much older than you.. and to which gautami answered we are the same age 😃 enjoy
'I'm poles apart from what Tulsi is'
Gautami Kapoor is known by many names. She made a spash on television as Gautami Ghatke, when she signed on Ekta Kapoor's Ghar Ek Mandir, and is also known as the Bindhaast girl, after her hit Marathi film.
The actress, who plays Tulsi in Kyunki Saas Bhi Kabhi Bahu Thi, chatted with Rediff readers about her hit show, her husband Ram Kapoor and more. For those who missed the chat, here's the transcript:
Gautami Kapoor says, Hi there! This is Gautami and I'm ready to take your questions!
VIRGIL asked, Hi Gautami - what is the secret of your calm poise and personality in the serial?
Gautami Kapoor answers, What I appear in television is really unlike what I am in real life. In real life, I'm very hyper and energetic. In fact, my husband says I'm scatterbrained. The poise and the calmness you see, so when Ram saw me on TV, he said, "God I wish you could be like this in real life."
soumitro asked, Is it very challenging to play a role which has been so pouplar with the old tulsi?Are you wary of comparisons?
Gautami Kapoor answers, Yes, it was very challenging. Not only is the role really popular, by someone who has done it for seven years, it's also very unlike who I am. So it's a great challenge, but that's what an actor always looks for.
Omendra asked, What you'll feel if some one else will play the role of tulsi in near future??
Gautami Kapoor answers, A change in any show is always welcome. So I wouldn't have a problem with it. :)
lavanya asked, Hi gautami, I just want to ask you, whether u r going to change ur look in kyunki?
Gautami Kapoor answers, Right now, there is no talk about changing my look. But when it happens, I think all you guys will definitely know.
'I really adore Ba and Krishna Tulsi'
Chitra asked, Hi Gautami, Is there any other big project you are working on? or planning to work?
Gautami Kapoor answers, No, nothing. Right now, my biggest project is my daughter, and then it's my show. :)
Friend asked, How does it feel like working under Ekta Kapoor's banner?
Gautami Kapoor answers, I've worked with Ekta during Ghar Ek Mandir, so my working relationship with her is fantastic. So it felt like coming back home after many years.
rameshwari asked, gautami, who is your favourite person in Kyunki saas bhi kabhi bahu thi
Gautami Kapoor answers, It's difficult to name one because I've made so many friends from the show. But I think I really adore Ba and Krishna Tulsi.
vinu asked, are u married?
Gautami Kapoor answers, Yes, of course I'm married! And I'm also a mother. :)
PM asked, how have you met with Ram first time?
Gautami Kapoor answers, We met on the set of the show we were doing together. And we were good friends for about two years, and we fell in love and got married.
Rony asked, i read wat you answered to Soumitro earlier. You really think people here are so naive to accept such an answer " the role being unlike what you really are and thereby being challenging". I think you are trying to color your views. Its just that you thought this is the best platform to get recognition fast. Or else, who knew you well before you started enacting Tulsi? Although you have been around for a while.
Gautami Kapoor answers, Well honestly, this is probably the biggest opportunity not to take it. But, if you know me personally, you know I'm poles apart from what Tulsi is, and why would I let such a big opportunity go by? And before this, you wouldn't believe, but even though I wasn't doing TV for a while, people still recognise me as Anchaal from Ghar Ek Mandir
Dheeraj asked, Why did u accept Kyunki? Though it's a big flop.
Gautami Kapoor answers, Kyunki is the number one show, even after seven years, on Indian television. And you may not be watching it, but there are a whole lot of other people that do. It's an honour that is the longest running soap on Indian TV and I'm proud to be associated with it.
Avi asked, Well, it will be quite a task to step into a role essayed by Smriti Irani and appreciated by audiences for so long. How does it feel?
Gautami Kapoor answers, Yes it is a big task and I am absolutely open to criticism first. And I'm hoping that the praise will follow.
macmib asked, Hi Gautami,How do u feel working with Ekta Kapoor? Did u feel any tension when u entered in Kyunki as u'd to be in the shoes of Smriti Irani?
Gautami Kapoor answers, Yes I did feel tension because the media hype giving to replacing Smriti was so big. That really weighed on me. But Ram told me "you should come for work, enjoy it thoroughly, and enjoy the rest!" And that's what I've been doing, so I've really been having a blast.
Nehal asked, i don't have any question, but i just wonna to inform you that you are the best. I never watch kyunki until your entry but u created the magic & trust me for others too.
Gautami Kapoor answers, I really have no reaction! :) :)
Digesh asked, Your acting is good but your role is melodramatic and sometimes it must be getting too boring for you right?
Gautami Kapoor answers, It's just been three months. There's no way I'd be bored after only three months!
bhindi asked, How does it feel working with your husband? Do you talk about work at home and does it affect your house life?
Gautami Kapoor answers, No, it doesn't affect my home life. It actually helps because he is an actor also and he understands the pressures the industry can have.
sammy asked, Gautami - Any plans to work in Marathi serials? I know you are the Bindhaast girl!!
Gautami Kapoor answers, No, not at this time. I'm too busy and have my hands full with work and my daughter.
Prachi asked, why dont u cnange ur look as u dont look gud in those aunty type sarees?
Gautami Kapoor answers, Well, I'm a sixty-five year old woman in Kyunki. I have to wear what the role demands.
chamy asked, I just want to ask that How much more episods r going be there??
Gautami Kapoor answers, Good question. Even I don't know the answer to that.
Dipti asked, hi gautami, is it true that you graduated from ruia college in mumbai?
Gautami Kapoor answers, Yes it is.
smritiirani asked, HEY GAUTAMI, DO YOU EVER WATCH BORING SOAPS DIRECTED BY EKTA??? OR JUST ENACT IN THEM SO AS TO EARN NICE MONEY? I HOPE YOU TELL THE TRUTH..
Gautami Kapoor answers, Yes, I watch a lot of television, both Hindi and English. And I have no problem watching the 'saas bahu soaps'
virgilg asked, If Ekta Kappor asks you to quit and replace you back with Smiti - how would you react ?
Gautami Kapoor answers, Well, this role does belong to Smriti and the day she comes back I will gladly step down. I'm very confident that Ekta will give me a clean exit. I totally trust her.
Sheel asked, what is your priority in life work or family??
Gautami Kapoor answers, Of course, family!
coolgal asked, hi!! you are very beautiful and young. How come you married Mr. Kapoor who looks so much more older than you?
Gautami Kapoor answers, He's not old! We're as old as each other. :)
Somendra asked, are you looking for ny movie right, i loved ur short and sweet role in Fanna....?
Gautami Kapoor answers, No, not looking for anything right now as my hands are full. If something comes up, when I have more time, yes, maybe I could take it up.
'If people recognise me as Tulsi, then I think I've made it'
Swai asked, you are good but smriti was best as tulsi, pls leave this serial
Gautami Kapoor answers, Leaving this serial will be Ekta's decision, but thank you for saying I am good. ;)
kevin asked, How was it acting with both abhishek & Aishwarya.
Gautami Kapoor answers, It was great because they are both thorough professionals. And, it was even better dancing with them.
Sheel asked, would you like to become famous as Tulsi or Gautami??
Gautami Kapoor answers, Honestly, I don't know, that's a tough question. But if people recognise me as Tulsi, then I think I've made it.
kravindrapai asked, Why have you chosen small screen whereas an actress like you could go to big screen as well since you are having the talent and all the incredients that is required for the big screen?
Gautami Kapoor answers, First, thank you for the kind words. But for me, any kind of work, whether it's on TV or in films, is welcome. I'm here because I love the medium of acting. So, whatever comes my way first, I'll take that up.
Gautami Kapoor says, Thank you for taking so much time and asking me these questions. It made me feel really special that even though I was away from TV for so long, I've got such a warm welcome back. Keep watching and giving me your feedback. Have a nice day! Cheers!