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Posted: 18 years ago
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The pain at the loss of a child is different for a mother versus a father but is in no way diminished for either one!!!

A mother may believe her pain is more intense due to the fact that she carried and nurtured the child in her womb for nince months..felt its first breath, first kick etc....

Just cause a father is not capable of carrying the child is his pain at the loss of a child dimished as a result, an emphatic NO!!

There are mothers we hear about everyday who give birth to loads of children as if its their national past time but care two hoots about them...take Pia in KS as the perfect example of such a mother....she would feel no pain at the loss of her child (she aborted one willingly didn't she?) -- Pushkar felt the los tremendously even though he wasn't carrying the child that Pia aborted!!!

Its all about the individual not gender related!!!

Just my two cents even though off topic!!!
Sorry, not meant to offend anyone!!!

Nina
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Posted: 18 years ago
#72
The pain at the loss of a child is different for a mother versus a father but is in no way diminished for either one!!!

A mother may believe her pain is more intense due to the fact that she carried and nurtured the child in her womb for nince months..felt its first breath, first kick etc....

Just cause a father is not capable of carrying the child is his pain at the loss of a child dimished as a result, an emphatic NO!!

There are mothers we hear about everyday who give birth to loads of children as if its their national past time but care two hoots about them...take Pia in KS as the perfect example of such a mother....she would feel no pain at the loss of her child (she aborted one willingly didn't she?) -- Pushkar felt the los tremendously even though he wasn't carrying the child that Pia aborted!!!

Its all about the individual not gender related!!!

Just my two cents even though off topic!!!
Sorry, not meant to offend anyone!!!

Nina
***Nina, very well said! 👏
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Thanks shalini

well said..Its all abt individual,ur right

Jojo,shobha..
Abt JW not trusting bani during abortion,well do u remember that teej party where in that rain she shrigs munna off adn tells him she wanted to abort but it's to late ,well bani herself gav it there
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Posted: 18 years ago
#74
Edited by Jojo_han - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#75
Jojo...

Which divorce??

Hailla when she takes the kids are in her arms adn fellow khaidis somment on kids going on their father she tells they may go on him on looks but will never go on him in character.

Abt bani trusting JW and having faith on him here are few scenarios:
1. Divorce case: What harm would hav it done to her if she would hav actually gone to JW and confided into him abt jiggs plan?? who and what was stopping her.

2. Attacks : When she knew that JW is being attacked she suspects jiggs and ranveer's involvment but she never thinks abt warning JW abt that

3. Miscarriage : She already sepearted kid and JW but does she think father has no right to know how his kid was lost.
where was trust and faith 😕

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: who am i???

Jojo...

Which divorce??

Thee divorce yaar.

Hailla when she takes the kids are in her arms adn fellow khaidis somment on kids going on their father she tells they may go on him on looks but will never go on him in character.

Thats after she was sentenced for five.


Abt bani trusting JW and having faith on him here are few scenarios:
1. Divorce case: What harm would hav it done to her if she would hav actually gone to JW and confided into him abt jiggs plan?? who and what was stopping her.

What was stopping him? Wasnt he the one who told TS she can never do something like this for mone. So why the hell didnt he try and find out by himself? Surely your were not expecting the mighty without action.

Are we're talking about the simple girl from Mt Abu. who doesnt know how to play games and the way Walia's and other mental half brainian's do. 🤔

2. Attacks : When she knew that JW is being attacked she suspects jiggs and ranveer's involvment but she never thinks abt warning JW abt that

Didnt she called him his office? Didnt she paid the ultimate price saving his life? Now dont start saying who asked her to. Cause you're mighty hasnt done any less sending her to MA.


3. Miscarriage : She already sepearted kid and JW but does she think father has no right to know how his kid was lost.
where was trust and faith 😕

Didnt he came aware that days itself..? Didnt she told him she'll tell him when she was ready, but whatever happened was an accident. Didnt he believed her?

Remeber all that was before they came clean to each other about their feelings. I'm talking about the present not the past.

Whatever happened to him and who ever did what.? My baby was the one who paid the price, so frankly speaking. She's the Angel and the centre of this scenario.

Stop blaming her all of you. I mean it... 😆


Edited by Jojo_han - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#77

Back off ladies......

I mean it... who ever is after my Bani...

Jojo

Edited by Jojo_han - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
#78

Ash, you are failing to see my point…okay fine…so Bani only trusted her sister and did not trust Jai…so please someone tell me, Why did not Bani jump at Mr. JW when she found about Pia's pregnancy not being cos of Pushkar? After all didn't Bani see Jai and Pia together in the video and didn't Bani not trust JW, so why did not Bani jump at JW's throat and say "you ba*t**d, you raped my dhoodh ki dhuli sister?"…After she came to know about Pia's pregnancy, NOT even a single time did Bani suspect Jai...

Ash dear, if you see at the surface, it seems like Bani did not trust Jai and only trusted Pia but the fact is Bani trusted Jai and that is why she never suspected nor believed that he would do such a thing with her sister…To me, if you really look at the actions in depth and the way she did not even utter a word against JW during the whole Post-ONS issue, it shows that Bani trusted JW…she was just heartbroken…If only Bani did not trust nor believe Jai, Bani would have been the one to perform sharradha (sorry for the spelling) and not Massi…To me, Bani trusts Jai as much as he trusts her. Her actions speaks to louder than her words to me. PERIOD…But if you insist and want to only believe and bash Bani, go ahead…I don't want nothing more to say…I don't think I can explain anymore…But I respect your view…lets not fight over fictional characters.😊

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Posted: 18 years ago
#79

Je-aime,

What you said was delicious...

How about a meal from the chef... ? 😉





Rgds,

Jojo

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Jojo_han

Je-aime,

What you said was delicious...

How about a meal from the chef... ? 😉





Rgds,

Jojo



😆...Thanks Jojo that was yummy😃....

You can call me Meena😃

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