Originally posted by: aashnaa5
That was a good one (in fact a very good one ) armana. Your Bani reminds me of Tolstoy's Anna Kerenina. Though they are very different characters in a very different setting, they still chose love beyond everything. The society might scorn her for her affair, but I truly believe that she deserves the love she is seeking.
I had these wonderful discussions with my brother (his all time fav book is Anna Kerenina). I was surprised when he argued that Anna was epitome of love and womanhood. But, as a woman, I could never relate to Anna. All said, she still committed adultery, which thankfully, ur Bani has not. I am actually surprised that there was no child here.
Unlike my previous post, here, I'm falling in love with ur Bani. Just a matter of time before JW does too.
Brilliant !!!!
Society puzzles me. What is wrong in a single woman and a single man engaging in a relationship?
As for Anna K, well, one of the few Tolstoy or russian (come to think of it) novels i can tolerate. I'd have to agree with your brother, epitome of love and a woman in love's fate. (For a more detailed view you ought to speak to Rupy who actually enjoys reading Russian Novelists. I prefer the Poets.)
Adultery: again our responses to it are conditioned by societal norms and taboos. But love and life are above and beyond norms. At the same time, love and life are also not free. You have to pay for every thing, including love and happiness. As Anna did. I think the point such literature makes is not whether adultery is to be condoned or not, but whether those who pay the price think it worthwhile or not.
I would recommend: "The English Patient," by Michael Oondatjee or if you prefer something lighter, "The Bridges of Madison County," by Robert James Waller.
As for Bani and child: m'dear, it's after AIDS and the 90's. Anyone who goes to bed- with a stranger or a lover (unless both have discussed it, proved that their medical history is clean and committed to monogamy or unless they are living in kektaland) -without using a condom is an IDIOT.
I am very glad to hear that you are beginning to like this Bani.
Love
Armana
p.s. all the above is the result of my personal point of view and opinion. It is not intended to hurt or offend any one's sensibilty. My apologies if i have inadvertently done so.