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Posted: 18 years ago
#51
The "love" that one has for a soulmate transcends anything physical or romantic love. It is something that will never subside whereas romantic / physical love attraction is here for one pal/moment and dissipates with time.

the love of a soulmate continues to grow with time until it becomes eternal !!!

This type of love is what historic couples such as Laila & Majnu/ Romeo & Juliet and out very own JB have!!!!

Just my opinion!
Nina
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Posted: 18 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: kajolfan

😆 I'm no expert on this, but there's no "secret lovin" where "soulmates" are concerned....it's a mutual realization.

When i meant secretly ..it meant she not realizing she deeply cared for him ..for instance admiring his smile one day at the office telling him he is like a child ..the day she went to see an appt which she was planning to move into ..dont know if u remember that scene .... she did admire him which could /did lead to Love ..TRUE LOVE ❤️
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Posted: 18 years ago
#53

Originally posted by: shahni4

The "love" that one has for a soulmate transcends anything physical or romantic love. It is something that will never subside whereas romantic / physical love attraction is here for one pal/moment and dissipates with time.

the love of a soulmate continues to grow with time until it becomes eternal !!!

This type of love is what historic couples such as Laila & Majnu/ Romeo & Juliet and out very own JB have!!!!

Just my opinion!
Nina

Take a bow Nina, very aptly conveyed!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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My 2 cents... 😕

Jai and Bani are soulmates, definitely no doubt about it.

However, look at the past year and what they have been through before actually admitting to themselves or someone else (not each other as yet! ) that they are connected in this way?

They were pushed together by Pia, pulled apart by KD, sliced open by Reptile and now disjointedly 😕 joined back together by Karuna. In all of this, both of them (one in particular 😡 ) have always put their love/respect/sense of honour for another in front of their own feelings or the feelings of said soulmate.

If a KANK-like situation therefore arose I think it is safe to say that J-B would be non-entity. 😭

First of all, the two would never even admit to themselves that they loved the other, hell, even refuse to admit that they had looked at the other in THAT way!! 😕

If, by some small miracle, they did admit it, both would prefer to pine alone rather than take any proactive steps at taking the hand of their soulmate!

If JW was married and Bani was single - Bani would immediately leave WM and JW would not stop her. He would never betray his wife to go actively looking for her after she has gone, as he is above all a principled and moralistic person. There is a possibility he may divorce his wife knowing well that whether Bani remains in WM or not, she will always be in his heart and he therefore cannot remain true to his wife.

If Bani was married and JW was single - Bani would rather walk on hot coals than even look at another man who was not her husband. She just wouldn't. But as I said, if by some small miracle she admits to herself that she loves JW and not her husband - she would continue to be the aadarsh bahu, patni, ma etc and completely cut JW out of her life, happy to live in total denial or self-flagellation for eternity. JW would drink himself silly in Devdas ishtyle and probably spend the rest of his life as a lonely recluse.
You think i'm kidding don't you. No i'm not.

If both were married to different people - probably the best chemistry that television has ever seen, would be created!! Both would pine for each other but in a strictly "Look-Don't Touch" way! Whereas Bani would behave in the same way as described above, I can see JW behaving in a very SRK-like manner - wavering between picking fights with his wife, or overcompensating in his affection to her in front of Bani. If Bani were to remain in his life after the epiphany of their feelings towards each other, I can imagine him going into self-destruct mode, except the fallout would not be a quiet divorce and lonely reclusion, but rather, a jealous and probably public confession of his feelings!! After which, of course, Jai's wife would leave him, Bani's husband would leave her, and Bani would then leave JW's life forever.

Although I do believe that both are very moralistic people and would never indulge in an affair, or even an ONS, I have suggested the above turn of events because JW has a passion in him that Bani and only Bani seems to ignite. If Bani were to remain in front of him, and that too with another man, then JW's jealousy would lay waste to his usual dignified silence. He would never make any sort of proposal to Bani herself (whether decent or indecent! 😉 ) but would definitely not be able to control his fiery temperament to the fullest, which is what would lead to the "jealous and public confession" suggested.


The fact is, because of the nature of the two duffers, I doubt that had Pia not pushed them together in the first place, there would be no possiblity of a happy and contented collective J-B. 🤢

But I completely agree with previous comments - regardless of where they are or who they are with, the two would still be soulmates, in spirit, but not physically. And the love they feel for each other would never dissipate - whether they chose to admit that or not! 😕

In essence therefore, we do have a lot to thank her for - that is, until she turned into freakish-psycho-chipku!! 😕 😆

Edited by Cordelia - 18 years ago
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Thanks Rani but this is what the JB jodi means to me and I have never felt so passionate about an on screen couple as these two mostly because of their potrayal by RK / PD who are the ones that should really take a bow!!!

Now, I only hope we get to see RK/PD in the same frame and not those damm body doubles!!!

I also wish that Ekta Mai brings back Sandip Dikand so he can bring back the magic of KS folden days!!!

Nins

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Rani,

A bit late joining in. But my opinion on the matter.

JW and Bani would perhaps never ever have come to the extent of conisdering each other as soulmates. But by chance if they ever did, neither would ever transgress their own marriage or the other parties. Maybe content to be very good friends in the Bani-Pooch or JW-Sonalu mould but strictly no EMA or ONS.

Rgds,

Pri
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Hey Rani
A very very thought provoking post indeed. I believe that it is possible to meet your soulmate even after you're married…indeed there are few people that are fortunate enough to be married to their soulmates. What happens if you meet your soulmate afterward is indeed dependant on what sort of person you are, what state your marriage is in and how much you value your marriage I guess. Coming to J-B, it's a really interesting situation…imagine if Jai had been married to a Roshni or someone like Pia (I'm saying this cos prior to Bani these are the sort of women he's been attracted to!) we can safely assume that he would've been quite unhappily married. In that situation I reckon that Bani's simplicity, quiet beauty and strength of character would have attracted him immensely. In turn Bani would have been drawn very strongly to his pain…if you look at their current relationship as well its been based on their mutual loneliness and pain. Those same factors would have drawn them irresistibly and I have no doubts that they would have been involved emotionally but not physically. Both J-B have a very strong moral compass so I doubt whether they would have allowed themselves to cross that line!
I have little doubt that Jai would have ended his marriage prior to cementing his relationship with Bani. But of course if there was a child involved, then the whole equation would change completely – Jai's "mera bachcha" complex would not allow him to step out of his marriage and he would've perhaps let Bani go knowing how futile their relationship would be.
Just my two cents…..
Cheers
Simi
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hkaurk22


Exactly Navs! Assuming their characters were the same, I doubt they would allow themselves to stray from their marriage. They would quietly accept it. For both of them, marriage vows are stone and are meant to be treated with the utmost amount of respect...therefore they wouldnt break those vows, but quietly accept them and move through their life with the hope that in the next lifetime they will be with their soulmates.



I will divulge slightly from here. U dont even know what people goes thru when they find their soul mates in somebody else than their spouses and sometimes the great lengths they will go to be with them.

As I would endorse the saying 'human beings are mixed up people, so dont judge them harshly'. We just dont know really who will do what at a particular point of time.

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: fsam



Completely agree with you on this.

One question, ifeither of themwas being emotionally unfaithful to their spouse,would it be fair to continue in the marriage?




double-edged sword of a question farah!! 😛 😆

on one hand you could say that thoughts and dreams are just that - thoughts and dreams. Many of us are infatuated by/obsessed with/dream about/are totally in love with RK or Salman, or SRK and a milion others - does that mean we are being unfaithful to our other halves? No. Because given the opportunity, we wouldn't seriously act on those feelings.

however, you could say that the above is silliness compared with the connection of 2 actual soulmates - if relationships are based on emotion and physicality both, then a betrayal is also related to emotion and physicality too.


personally, i believe that if you could get over your feelings, move on and give 100% to your marriage then there is no use teling all and causing your spouse that heartache because of feelings you have never acted upon.

however, if you feel you cannot be true to your spouse because of these feelings, then continuing in that relationship would be unfair on them, and you as well.

concisely - if your emotional unfaithfulness is truly in the past then perhaps continuing in your marriage would be the best, and fairest thing to do.



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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: fsam


Sangs very well said. I think that would be one of the hardest realizations a person can make. Absolutly heart wrenching. Again agree, we really don't know how an indivudial would react.




well said farah! i think we can easily predict how J-B would react - they are 2-D characters that we know. an individual is an entirely different and unique, therefore unpredictable entity

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