Discussion: What If????????? - Page 8

Originally posted by: kajolfan

Simi,

Thoughthe thought personallyscares the hell out of me, I too believe that it's possible for one to find their soulmate after marrying someone. With regard to Jai and Bani, I can't help but think that if not physically, then spirtitually they would have always been connected had the circumstance been such where one or both were married but chose to upheld their committments.

Rani, in a perfect world we should all be with our soulmates....but in reality when you're in another relationship esp one as sacred as marriage the situation becomes very complex especially when there are children involved. Breaking up a marriage affects many many lives...so its up to the people involved to decide whether the pleasure would be worth the pain. Life is so short, so do you follow your heart, consequences be damned? No third person can break up a marriage...if the relationship is fragile it will break no matter what the circumstances. And children can suffer a lot more when their parents are in a bad marriage, but its a very hard situation to be in!

Originally posted by: kajolfan

Sangi,

Read your pm and this is my response....😆. I knew your pet topic would send you into analyzation mode.

I agree with you in that such a realization (just the realization alone) is enough to turn one's world upside down. Secondly, I also endorse your statement about J&B when you say that we haven't seen "that" side of them either which could be a complete revealation.

P.S. I'm sure you know who I had in mind while penning this post!

😆😆😆 My pet topic indeed. And dont forget I am a Virgo, I am very good at running after my soul mate 🤣 Problem is I havent found him as yet 😕😭😉

And I am completely sure as to who you had in your mind when you penned this post. So charming, must say! 😛

Yes and if KS was to follow its original script play, we could actually have seen JnB dealing with this situation - i.e. finding their soul mate after marriage. And that would be a helluva lot to watch 😉😃😳

Originally posted by: fsam

Sangs/Rani I agree that the realization would turn your world upside down, because of which I think it would be hard or near impossible for the external trappings to stay the same. The status quo of the external trappings would change due to the internal realization.

Farah,

If I may ask, can you please elaborate on this???

Originally posted by: sangitadas

😆😆😆 My pet topic indeed. And dont forget I am a Virgo, I am very good at running after my soul mate 🤣 Problem is I havent found him as yet 😕😭😉

And I am completely sure as to who you had in your mind when you penned this post. So charming, must say! 😛

Yes and if KS was to follow its original script play, we could actually have seen JnB dealing with this situation - i.e. finding their soul mate after marriage. And that would be a helluva lot to watch 😉😃😳

Fristly, are you really a Virgo or are you just taking a dig at something in particular? It would appear that all Virgo's share the same trait....and that is "very good at running after" their soul mate! 🤣🤣🤣 You know any other such Virgo's with such a trait? I'm not a Virgo, but a Libra who also share the same complex! 😆

Originally posted by: fsam

Sangs do tell if you know any other Virgo. Btw I am a Gemini but share the same trait.

since I am a Capricorn and can say the same as above - i doubt it has much to do with starsigns!!! 😕 😆

Originally posted by: kajolfan

Farah,

If I may ask, can you please elaborate on this???

Farah, may I ask for the clarification even?

BTW, where's Harvey?

Originally posted by: kajolfan

Fristly, are you really a Virgo or are you just taking a dig at something in particular? It would appear that all Virgo's share the same trait....and that is "very good at running after" their soul mate! 🤣🤣🤣 You know any other such Virgo's with such a trait? I'm not a Virgo, but a Libra who also share the same complex! 😆

Hey Rani...I'm a Virgo as well and I defo chased my man till he realised how perfect we were for each other 😉 😆 😆 Men can be such blockheads at times...they need a "gentle" nudge to see the light! 😆 😆 😆

Originally posted by: simz99

Hey Rani...I'm a Virgo as well and I defo chased my man till he realised how perfect we were for each other 😉 😆 😆 Men can be such blockheads at times...they need a "gentle" nudge to see the light! 😆 😆 😆

You're damm funny Simi! I wonder what the "nudge" entailed?? 😆

Originally posted by: simz99

Hey Rani...I'm a Virgo as well and I defo chased my man till he realised how perfect we were for each other 😉 😆 😆 Men can be such blockheads at times...they need a "gentle" nudge to see the light! 😆 😆 😆

Simi, I can imagine the scene you runnign after your hubby. 🤣🤣🤣

Cordy, its true that most of us may think of it the same way, but we Virgos are famous for cutting of relationships if we find our soul mates somewhere else, in someone else's body. 😆

Very good topic Rani!
I think if JW was married earlier and if he found Bani as his actual soulmate when they came to WM, definitely then the characters would hv been shown little different and probably inspite of their conscience, they would hv ended up together? I dont want to compare to KANK as it lacked lot of things, there was no reason for Rani suffering in her marriage (just my opinion) and if she wanted to walk out of her marriage, then why she had to wait until someone else entered her life? Anyhow as far as Jai and Bani is concerned, we would hv seen a differnt story which would hv moved in Hasretien style, where the characters were married and ended up together and audience didnt feel negative about it and I think everyone can give their views about find soulmates in another person after marriage is right and wrong, but I think the person who finds their soulmate inspite of being committed will be able to answer better to this question 😉 ! Want to discuss more about this, but have to catch up some work, will join later!