Purpose of Marriage

I wanted to ask a simple question, is there any purpose behind getting married? I mean not because you want to start new life, not because you want to hav Kids and planning foe future.

Is there any true purpose behind getting married. Example : your personality i mean personal skills should develop, should learn good qualities from each other.There should be growth in each other life.

Ex:- Two doctors will get married and they will start new nursing home and they will serve people.

In Some marriages people will meet, get attracted they will get married and after a some time they will hav kids, then they realize that it was just an attraction. By that time their kid's life, kid's future will become their purpose and they will lead the life(With out having any interst in their relationship).

Sorry, If iam wrong.

With regards

Bharathi

For all of us I imagine marriage means different things. A lot of us get married because we're thought that its the next logical step to take in life. We're thought that when we feel attracted to someone and it feels like love and you two make a commitment its only logical to get married. Admittedly not everyone gets married for the right reasons, but then again what are the right reasons and for that matter what are the wrong reasons. No marriage is perfect because we are not perfect human beings. Its not a bed of roses and its not a one way street. Both parties have to play their part in making the relationship work and survive. I think we all go into marriage thinking that its the only option from then on out to live life. Marriage shouldn't tie a person down, especially those that have dreams to live and things to achieve but marriage should be given its due of respect because all in all you do owe your partner first priority. A marriage is always worth fighting for especially when you really care about that person. It should be worth your all. Too many people expect too much and when it doesn't go their way they take the easy way out, hence the high divorce rate in most countries. The option of divorce or seperation does give many the excuse to get out.

I pretty much know how I feel on the subject but I find it hard to express in words, sorry!

Getting married is taking a oath in front of God to be loyal and walk the path of married life, in good and bad terms, that is getting married. Before you get married, you get engaged and that is when you are sure that this person is your soulmate, your other half. Haing children are the fruits of the journey. ANd it is your duty to bring them up or prepare them for life. Soem take more time and energy. But do not forget eachother, who cam first in the journey.