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Posted: 10 years ago
So. Who has read A Thousand Splendid Suns? It's the only example coming to my mind at the moment.

As for the answer to that 'kill' question, my opinion is- Manik would kill for her, in a heartbeat. And Nandini would get herself killed, in a heartbeat. Therein lies the similarity, and the difference.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie


Not Nandini, she plays by the rules , too conventional and she is the one who will take the bullet for him.Because of her need to protect him . And she thinks he can live without her too.

While he can kill because of his no rules, no morals, monster self , as Nandini's life in danger would always push him to protect her, where dying while saving her will leave her vulnerable after. Hence he would rather eliminate the thread than die . Not that he is not capable of giving his life for her. But he would kill too.

You think Manik can kill for her? Okay.
so going by the bold lines, and no bullets nothing, no zindagi sacrifice, if a threat like as such comes to Manik's life, will Nandini kill for him?
And does the fact that he'll kill for her mean that he loves her more than she does? Because he'll do absolutely anything, anything, to protect her. What about her? 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Firebolt


Excellent points raised genie.

What's the kind of trust manik expects? James considered it the height of insult to doubt his friends. Manik is much the same. Perhaps for Manik too more than actions it is a kind of unvoiced loyalty that equates to trust. But I'm merely speculating here.


But how much Manik trust the others. James trusted his friends enough to share his secrets . Does our boy manages to do that? If it's unvoiced loyalty that equates to trust then he broke it himself as well , twice. Dhruv and now Album . How does this man overlook his actions while measuring the same parameters in others like here Nandini or previously Dhruv.

He never goes back analyzing his actions . he takes in the guilt and overcompensates by self-destructing.

@BOxter - Seriously, stop enjoying too much. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
No one should kill for anyone. Manik won't kill for Nandini and Nandini won't kill for Manik.
Cuz they aren't like Christian and Ana. Bat shit cray.

Killing. I mean that takes another kind of darkness that in spite of their troubled pasts, Manik and Nandini don't have.

They are inherently innately intrinsically good people. Flawed yes. But good definitely.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: BoxedIn

So. Who has read A Thousand Splendid Suns? It's the only example coming to my mind at the moment.

As for the answer to that 'kill' question, my opinion is- Manik would kill for her, in a heartbeat. And Nandini would get herself killed, in a heartbeat. Therein lies the similarity, and the difference.


I said the same thing but in more words, typical. 😳

So this means you read my question then and ignored it like a boss, don't know what to say, Dost. 😕😆

READ THE BOOK, AND I know where you are going. I am smart like that. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: MaybeSomeday...

]You think Manik can kill for her? Okay.
so going by the bold lines, and no bullets nothing, no zindagi sacrifice, if a threat like as such comes to Manik's life, will Nandini kill for him?
And does the fact that he'll kill for her mean that he loves her more than she does? Because he'll do absolutely anything, anything, to protect her. What about her? 😆


No Nandini won't kill for Manik , either she would die trying or take whatever he is suffering. Her protection is intrinsically linked to her way of dealing things which is where she differs from Manik.
No it doesn't mean he loves her more , just his idea of protection differs from her. Since he is capable of doing absolute anything and anything , it will always put Nandini on the unease and make their relationship unstable. Because their way of processing things sit on two extremes - they will need a middle ground to sustain.


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Posted: 10 years ago
Love does not have to be the same for two different people, they love differently, does not mean either of their love is weak/strong compared to the other person.Just that they are shaped differently by their experiences, to exhibit love in their own way.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake

Love does not have to be the same for two different people, they love differently, does not mean either of their love is weak/strong compared to the other person.Just that they are shaped differently by their experiences, to exhibit love in their own way.



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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: charminggenie


Because he bases all his relationships on absolute - an extreme , you do that only when you don't trust yourself to recover from emotions like disappointment , fear , guilt and failure.

absolute and extreme? Another two abstract words, the funny thing is, they're supposed to define intensity but they fail to define its concentration. What is absolute and extreme exactly?😆 I mean does absolution for Manik means a set of codes to follow? But then FAB5 are the biggest example of flaws, the more he learns the more he evolves, He wanted his friends to always share their secrets, but he accepted them as they came in light. Absolution? Also Dhruv. He thought Dhruv betrayed him, but he wasn't dense. He learned why Dhruv did what he did.

Another question.😆 If he didn't trust himself to recover from disappointment, fear, guilt and failure, how did he come to open up to possibilities and vulnerabilities in case of his friends and Nandini, not quite possible? And if he did, then he did?😆



Noyonika shaped it in him. He never trusted himself to be good , even though he wanted to be one. He had it internalized in his head that he had to play bad because he is not capable of good , hence Dhruv the saviour


Legit kostin.😆 If he didn't trust himself to be good, how did he come to think that he can protect his friends? Ultimately he had to be good to them? to Dhruv? Or was his circle of good rather narrow? Selective? He also said he liked to be bad. That people anyway treated you the way you let them treat you, that 'nahi banna mujhe achha' not ever, 'im not capable of good' never doubt' for when the good inside him was needed, it came roaring out. The old home, fireflies, Dhruv, Rishab, Chacha Chachi.
'Tumhaare saath hota hoon toh I feel like being good.' Another selectivity. Why would he feel like being good if he's not capable of it or if he doesn't trust his good?Or rather his goodside only comes out for the people he cares about? But its incapability is not in question then is it?




. His need to hide behind a monster mask - to wage his battles is the biggest proof.Also why he took to monster self, not just for protection of his friends but for himself too.

Wouldn't we call it a choice? Because the monster didn't exactly exist for everyone?

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