Honest Poll updated with a funny incident - Page 5

Originally posted by: dushturain

Guys,

this is a very controversial topic..do support pre marital sex or not...its different in western countries but here in India, Bangladesh, Pakistan pre marital sex is frowned upon. What is your opinion about it??


Note:
Im just amazed by the number of replies im getting..Thank you all for being so sporting. And the weird thing is I agree to everyone 's reply whether its a no, a yes or it depends.


Funny incident I want to share:

background information: My mom is a MaNan shipper and she loves Manik like anything.

My mom was cooking I went to her and asked mum , do you support pre- marital sex??? she just screamed🤣
" Naujubillah, Naujubillah...you'll burn in fires of hell forever its absolute haram in our religion. "
I said, " calm down Im just asking generally not for me.."
She just kept sputtering..and I said " what if its not about religion ,what does your heart say??"
mum said, "its NO even then, its immoral, whats wrong with you??"
I said I was just asking it because Nandini is doing a secret ballot on this ..

she said, "IS SHE CRAZY?????"

I said thats exactly what Manik said. Mom replied, My Manik is always right.🤣
guys I just wish you saw her reaction ...I was rofling

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake

I don't judge. Like its not my prerogative to say whether its right or wrong.

The truth of the matter is that it happens a lot in India too and people behave like it doesn't.

I believe in sex education, so that people like Navya don't find themselves pregnant and alone at 18.

By shoving the topic under the mattress and not talking to kids about sex education, we leave our children vulnerable.

Originally posted by: Chickee

Waisey... It's commendable that you could go and even ask ur mum this question. I know so many who don't have such a relationship with their parents... Leading to hiding and doing things etc.

oh!!😆😆 My mom is very cool...we have our difference in opinions but I can tell her anything ...she will agree or disagree depends

I got mum addicted to KY2 ...and now she loves it too...I forced her to see the shower scene between Manik and Nandini 😆😆😆 and she got intersted LOL

but you know what??? she supports Cabir's mum in the gay issue...when Cabir's mum was giving Cabir lecture on what the society will say, you can be cured bla bla...mum said..this is so true..I absolutely feel this woman..

I said "mom, being gay is not a choice its natural" But mom hold on to her point saying being gay is not allowed in our religion.

as I said we hv our difference in opinion but ya i can tell her anything ...😃

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake

I don't judge. Like its not my prerogative to say whether its right or wrong.

The truth of the matter is that it happens a lot in India too and people behave like it doesn't.

I believe in sex education, so that people like Navya don't find themselves pregnant and alone at 18.

By shoving the topic under the mattress and not talking to kids about sex education, we leave our children vulnerable.

very well said dear...I do not support pre martial sex but unfortunately these things happen.
sex education is very important and ofcourse youngsters should be aware of the consequences.
But I also believe that the boy and the girl should get the same punishment...for example Harshad got suspended but Navya got expelled...why????
Navya cant get out of the situation but Harshad has, Navya will be taunted in every step but no one will say a word to Harshad.these things need to be addressed rather than asking if pre-martial sex is right or wrong.And I dont think that anyone has the right to point finger at the girl or take away her right to a better future.

Originally posted by: Chickee

Actually, and again unrelated to this post somewhat, that is what I love about nandinis character ... That even though she is bindaas or let's say practical about gay relationships and pre marital sex etc. to the extent of speaking about it openly (even cabir admitted to his friends not having the guts to speak about his relationship) she has her own set of values or rules that she follows without judging others ... Something simple like she herself doesn't drink, but did not lecture them about drinking !

My buoy Manik on the other hand pops his eyes out when she says the word SEX when all he is wanting is to kiss ALL the time!!! Some may even call it 'hypocrisy' if he was not such hot property 😉 To get away with it.

r a yaar!! me too I love this Nandini ...she is so real..

And also I can relate to her character 😳.he hv so many similarities in thinking...I also hv this set of values which is for myself only and I absolutely never ever judge people...I went abroad to do my Bachelors and all my friends used to drink...hell i had a bar in my university...but I never drank!! but i never lectured my friends, i used to hang out with them and they respected my wish of not drinking...

anyway the only difference between Nandini and me is, me not meeting any Manik 😔

and true to what you said about Manik, lol he is so hot he can get away with murder 😆

Personally...yes!

Originally posted by: shehra

I dont support at all... marriage is a sacred relation between 2 individuals and sex is a show of love between husband and wife..not only is pre marital physical relation a sin in every religion as far as i know, but also imagine if people do it before marriage and end up pregnant and alone like navya.. and also im sure everyone wants their spouse to be pure and virgin, and there is no guarantee the guy or girl a person is dating currently will marry them..so if they do it but marry someone else, then its not fair to the one they are marrying as the relation is not pure and innocent...not a fresh start with someone we are planning to spend our whole life with. if a person wants their spouse to be pure, they themselves must refrain from pre marital physical relations so that it also wont affect their marriage life. however with new generation, more teens in india are involving in them...this is usually i think due to media too...bollywood is mostly showing all this only...but we as indians must respect our strong culture, roots and traditions which we value greatly

yes dear I also believe in marriage , but I wont condemn my spouse if he has a past relationship as long as I know he loves me...I believe it to be a personal choice and I cant really judge a person on basis on that

yes you may not marry the person you are dating thats why I said it depends ...only when you are sure he is the one...i support pre marital sex in that case...not just with anyone.

Originally posted by: tamanna-azaan

one night stand is a big no for me..
but pre marital sex is ok..
if u believe that person with ur body nd soul nd he will be there for u... then if u r comfortable go for it..
marriage only give u the certificate that now u can do it..
but what when u r comfortable with tat person in that way..
so for me it doesnt depend whether u r married or not but it depend whether u trust that person or not..

for me too !!!👏

Originally posted by: medha16

Personally...yes!

I don't equate sex with marriage.

I feel it's a matter of personal choice again and whether u r emotionally, mentally physically to take that step with your partner. Physical intimacy like any other aspect is a part and parcel of any relationship but having said that, it is a step that cannot be undone...one needs to be aware of the pros, the cons, the surrounding issues and think thrice before taking such an important step in a relationship.

I'm not someone to judge like genie n adhi said and as long as it is consensual and a well-informed decision, i have no qualms with it, be it someone having a casual one night stand or in a serious relationship...it is their life, their choice, their prerogative and their business.

And i definitely don't believe that it is immoral or it is a sin or anything like that. It is a matter of choice and no society, nation, religion , community, caste or race has d power to dictate how u lead your life.

I absolutely agree to what you say!!

Im so happy to see most of the people in the forum has this positive mentality...