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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: N_Niya

aur Alya still in love wid Manik...aise me Manik k thode soft behavior v usse galat sign de sakte hai...issliye Manik usse space deraha hai so that wo apni life samet sake! maine to kuch galat nai lagraha...abhi ex gf se sympathy dikhaata phirega to wo peechhe padhi hi rahegi na?! Alya Nandu jaisi hoti to problem nai thi...par wo chipku hai...

ussne koshish karna tabhi bandh kia jab Manik ne rudely ussko dur rehne keliye bola usske ghar pe...break up k turant baad wo wohi care jo dusre doston keliye karta hai wo Alya ko to nai dikha sakta na?! 😕


Niya, I don't know if you have been in a relationship, but only a jerk breaks a seven year old relationship off at one go and expect you to get over it right after. People do not get over long-term relationships overnight. Alya may not have been Manik's first love, but he definitely was hers. They were also friends before lovers, so I really liked their sequence tonight. I love this Manik who is a wonderful guy despite everything. The Cvs do not know how to deal with a breakup. I felt it in Cabir-Raghav track as well.
It's just that he doesn't understand how relationships work. He needs to learn that. And he will.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Sanely_Insane


They are not in love yet, I agree with you on that one, but they trust each other, and they've even vocalized it. And for these two, trust equals to love. It's a huge thing. They won't just say "I trust you" for the heck of it, they mean it in every sense. So, Manik not standing up for Nandini or not trusting her at all doesn't sound like him.


It's not like Manik might just go at her or something. But in his emotions, at that very point in time, he could let his anger take over. I don't think Manik will let anything happen to Fab 5 and I do hope (like I am praying) that Manik stays with Nandini, because as much I love angst, I hate it (LOL, W*F😆)

He is so far portrayed as being quite erratic when it comes to Fab 5, that's all😛
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake

Sometimes cruelty is the kindest thing, as long as you are hanging out with each other, if one person hasn't gotten over the other, you are doing them a disfavour because you are always giving them hope of the relationship being rekindled. And Alya even with the cold treatment Manik gives her right now has been hoping to get back with him until not so recently. It took me one year of not hanging out with my ex and our common friends to get over him and it helped us rekindle our friendship in the long run.

Completely agree wid u in this Caty! 😊 mai v kabse yahi bolrahi hu! 🥱
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Posted: 10 years ago
Even after Manik broke up with Alya, she chose to cling on to him, and that irked him. He made it clear that it's over, and still she chose to be in her bubble, Manik had to be aloof with her for her to see the reality. And the reason why he never spoke to her after the break up was because he was under the impression that she's still not over him. If he chose to speak to her, that wouldn't have helped her. And Alya is/was still hoping to get back with Manik, now, if Manik acts all sweet or just talks to her about normal stuff, she would have taken it in the wrong way.
I'm sure they'll be back to normal, they'll have this conversation, only when he's sure that Alya is over him.


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl

Adhira, I am not saying Manik was wrong to break it off. No idea where you got it from. He should have broken it off sooner but whatever works. However, my point is that he needs to treat her with some respect at the very least. They cannot and will not work together as a couple. But Manik needs to effin sit down and talk to her. He has no respect for what they had and it sickens me, TBH.

I love Manik but I cannot justify his behaviour regarding this. And I have been an extremely painful relationship when I was in school as well. While I know we had to break it off, I would have hated it if he behaved like Manik.


Annie I don't disagree that he is acting cold but my point being that even with him acting so damn aloof and cold, she still thinks they are going to get back together. If he acts nice and sweet with her, is he doing her a favour in the long run to truly get over him?
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: gujjupari


It's not like Manik might just go at her or something. But in his emotions, at that very point in time, he could let his anger take over. I don't think Manik will let anything happen to Fab 5 and I do hope (like I am praying) that Manik stays with Nandini, because as much I love angst, I hate it (LOL, W*F😆)

He is so far portrayed as being quite erratic when it comes to Fab 5, that's all😛


If he's thrown into a position where he has to choose fab5 or her, he will choose fab5 and remain mum about his trust, but it doesn't make sense to me that he would question her regarding this. He might stay mum and this might trigger the angst.

Why you showing me a tongue? I'm not going to kill you. 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Sanely_Insane

Even after Manik broke up with Alya, she chose to cling on to him, and that irked him. He made it clear that it's over, and still she chose to be in her bubble, Manik had to be aloof with her for her to see the reality. And the reason why he never spoke to her after the break up was because he was under the impression that she's still not over him. If he chose to speak to her, that wouldn't have helped her. And Alya is/was still hoping to get back with Manik, now, if Manik acts all sweet or just talks to her about normal stuff, she would have taken it in the wrong way.

I'm sure they'll be back to normal, they'll have this conversation, only when he's sure that Alya is over him.



Bushu i get what you are saying... Somehow a bit convinced too... I don't know..😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
Lets just agree to disagree Adhira.
Because if my ex did that to me then I would have never even seen the face of the jerk again. I am not saying Manik needs to hang out with her or anything, but the way he broke it off with her and the way he behaved with her after is in no way acceptable to me. If he does the same with Nandini, would we have justified his behaviour? I don't think so. So, from my side, he needs to make amends.
I am not saying he needs to be sweet to her. I am saying he needed to be more considerate, have a talk, tell her it's over. Alya is still hanging on to the hope because Manik closes people off. Because he refuses to explain himself. If she's indeed getting over Manik, then she owes it to Dhruv and not Manik or his behaviour in any way.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake


Annie I don't disagree that he is acting cold but my point being that even with him acting so damn aloof and cold, she still thinks they are going to get back together. If he acts nice and sweet with her, is he doing her a favour in the long run to truly get over him?


Catty i think since last week she has stopped thinking about being with Manik again... She has been saying it for sometime- how she will forget Manik, whether she will be able to move on.., its not easy to forget your first love.. I think she is finally taking her step.😊
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Sanely_Insane


If he's thrown into a position where he has to choose fab5 or her, he will choose fab5 and remain mum about his trust, but it doesn't make sense to me that he would question her regarding this. He might stay mum and this might trigger the angst.

Why you showing me a tongue? I'm not going to kill you. 😆


Re-reading my opinions I think I know now... I don't think he will question her, I just think that he will do something drastic... Idk what, maybe I am over analysing (fictional characters Parishi🤪)

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