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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl

Lets just agree to disagree Adhira.

Because if my ex did that to me then I would have never even seen the face of the jerk again. I am not saying Manik needs to hang out with her or anything, but the way he broke it off with her and the way he behaved with her after is in no way acceptable to me. If he does the same with Nandini, would we have justified his behaviour? I don't think so. So, from my side, he needs to make amends.
I am not saying he needs to be sweet to her. I am saying he needed to be more considerate, have a talk, tell her it's over. Alya is still hanging on to the hope because Manik closes people off. Because he refuses to explain himself. If she's indeed getting over Manik, then she owes it to Dhruv and not Manik or his behaviour in any way.



To be honest, Alya was never emotionally close to Manik. Whenever Manik had issues, Alya actually said herself that only Dhruv can get through to him, when it should have been the GF. In addition, I also think Alya sending those goons really showed Manik how much the relationship was dead. Like I said before, it was a one sided relationship, Alya was in love with the idea of Manik, because when Manik said "Alya, exactly you have known me for 7 years" told me everything about how both had different notions about eachother. What I'm saying is that I think I can understand why Manik is behaving like that, he may also be hurt deep down as to how Alya can even do that..didn't she ever know him?
Edited by diva82 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl

Lets just agree to disagree Adhira.

Because if my ex did that to me then I would have never even seen the face of the jerk again. I am not saying Manik needs to hang out with her or anything, but the way he broke it off with her and the way he behaved with her after is in no way acceptable to me. If he does the same with Nandini, would we have justified his behaviour? I don't think so. So, from my side, he needs to make amends.
I am not saying he needs to be sweet to her. I am saying he needed to be more considerate, have a talk, tell her it's over. Alya is still hanging on to the hope because Manik closes people off. Because he refuses to explain himself. If she's indeed getting over Manik, then she owes it to Dhruv and not Manik or his behaviour in any way.


Of course, everyone has varied opinions and thats what makes the discussion interesting/

From my perspective, well I was Alya years ago, of course the issues we faced were not what Manik and Alya faced but I totally can see it from the long-term relationship breaking and getting over it aspect and still harbouring feelings for my ex in hopes of getting back. It took me "no contact" to get over him and actually be friends with him even years later.
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Posted: 10 years ago
I'm sure Manik will trust Nandu but for him it's essential to keep fab5 together mainly because it's made up of broken souls and they need each other. Manik was completely in character when he got so confrontational with Raghav despite getting a subtle reminder from Nandu. He kept his body language suspicious thereby allowing Harshad the realisation of suspicion. Oh I don't know am not thinking straight just down...
Annie I think by the time Nyonika gets intoduced Manik and Nandu will be safely ensconced in their love and trust so that may be smooth sailing for me as audience.
But this I think is a crucial juncture...
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: gujjupari


Re-reading my opinions I think I know now... I don't think he will question her, I just think that he will do something drastic... Idk what, maybe I am over analysing (fictional characters Parishi🤪)

@Bold: It's always better to use protection😛


Something drastic yes. He goes over board with his dramatics. 😆 And you owl, we all over analyze the characters, LOL

Chill bae, not killing you (so soon) 😈
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Star_girl


Niya, I don't know if you have been in a relationship, but only a jerk breaks a seven year old relationship off at one go and expect you to get over it right after. People do not get over long-term relationships overnight. Alya may not have been Manik's first love, but he definitely was hers. They were also friends before lovers, so I really liked their sequence tonight. I love this Manik who is a wonderful guy despite everything. The Cvs do not know how to deal with a breakup. I felt it in Cabir-Raghav track as well.
It's just that he doesn't understand how relationships work. He needs to learn that. And he will.

mujhe aisa lagta hai ye relationship was like a thing for spicing up Fab 5! itne lambe time se ye sirf Fab 5 keliye tika hua tha...jab Nandini k aane se Fab 5 k jadde hil gaye tabhi ahista ahista sabkuch dikhne laga ke asli picture kya tha...sabke vulnerabilities bahar aane lage...tab nazar aaya actually people move on & grow up...Manik changes me believe nai karta tha...but tabhi karne laga jab apne andar k changes ko feel karpaaya! ussne bola v tha k they were actually going apart from each other..kaafi waqt se but waise samajh nai aaya pehle...
I have never been in a relationship but I feel time matter nai karta relationship me...it's freedom which makes every relationship beautiful...we should set people free...kyoki spontaneously happening relationship se zyada nice & beautiful aur kuchh nai ho sakta! 😊
baaki u r very sensible Star...I think aap mujhse zyada hi jaanti hongi! 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: VKlovesFK


Catty i think since last week she has stopped thinking about being with Manik again... She has been saying it for sometime- how she will forget Manik, whether she will be able to move on.., its not easy to forget your first love.. I think she is finally taking her step.😊


Haan Vaishu thats what I meant from her recent behaviour, it does seem like she is getting over Manik.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: AnomanderRake


Haan Vaishu thats what I meant from her recent behaviour, it does seem like she is getting over Manik.

agar aisai hai to dhruv ke peechhe aise haath dhokar kyo padhi hai Alya?! 😕
seedha bas nai chala to ulte tareeke hi to apna rahi hai...I don't blame her but still she is not at all in process of getting over Manik...majburi me chup hai wo coz Manik ussko bilkul v ghaas nai daalraha! 🥱
Edited by N_Niya - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
I am butting in to get a point in here... personal exp...
My cousin bro..(we live next to each other) was in a 5 year long relationship and they were childhood friends from school but problems started when he joined college and got to know a girl and they became very good friends (they still are BFF)... his ex started to behave very coy and insecure, picking up unnecessary fights, putting tab on him.. finally my bro called it quits... being in the same friend circle they often meet but my bro totally ignores her... and I used to feel bad seeing her face.. and asked my bro the same question and this was his answer... IN A GUYS WORDS>>>

"I dont how to stay in the middle, either its there or its not... Most guys dont know how to keep a balance... "

Pls do read
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Posted: 10 years ago
Woah. MTV uploaded todays episode already. Whoosh - this is becoming a good habit of theirs.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: nyxx

Woah. MTV uploaded todays episode already. Whoosh - this is becoming a good habit of theirs.


Only on the weekdays yo!

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