Three years have passed - JA distance grows - Page 14

Originally posted by: Sandhya.A

Ela

I agree with Adi here.

The way he looked at her as she wept for Hussein - it wasn't the same as for Hassan. There was self-blame guilt written on her face more than the desperation and grief. If they were to ever get closer, the memories of the night would haunt them both. What used to be magical had turned into a nightmare for them. With this wall of guilt between them, the innocence of love was lost, not just for Jodha but Akbar too. Not the fault of either, but destiny.

Ela such wounds are hard to heal. People shutting themselves is the most natural reaction. One of my school friends once so much insisted that she wanted to see a movie and persuaded her parents to book the tickets (no e-booking then). Both her parents met with an accident and passed away. Years have passed but she never sees movies even now. None of us ever discuss about films in her presence. She never insists for anything from anyone. Self-guilt can eat you away from within. They create scars that even time cannot heal. Jalal and Jodha are in the same phase. Even Jodha has not made any advancements. today even if she came out to insist the anuchith-ness of the war, it was more out of her convictions of right and wrong, than an attempt at normalcy.😭

Originally posted by: adiana12

Neha ek baar phir uss scene ko dhyaan se dekho aur poori baat ko suno - Jodha went to him but she was not there emotionally since she was blaming herself for having spent that night with him in love - he drew the curtain to keep himself away from her becoz he considers his loving as the worst that he could do to his loved ones - he pulled that curtain so that she would remain safe - yes they both dont realise that they need each other to heal - but then that is what they need to learn

Originally posted by: chitterati

I heard poori baat, I know it not blame he was seeking affirmation that she dint blame herself or him, but can't help it Adi, mahaul hi aisa tha, in that state of mind do you think Jo would have read between the lines, and even if they did blame themselves, they could've have overcome this blame together naa... In such circumstance our mind can sway, instead of seeking togetherness, they sought distance - who started it, who didn't , doesn't matter - Jo JA toh door ho Gaye naa...Itna mush kill waqt akele toh dono ko karna pada na...

Originally posted by: chitterati

Agree with everything, except the last line...please Jo ko Kuch mat bolo, despite her pain she did go to Jalal after hassan's funeral, even after Jalal said those words to him, she tried to follow him to his roof, before he closed the curtains on her. She did try being normal with him, but he for whatever reasons did not reciprocate...and I get his pain and sorrow, and his reasons for this distance, but when Jo when to him regarding war , it wasn't time to be normal, he was leaving for battle ground, harly a time for normal chit chat.

Originally posted by: Sandhya.A

I am not blaming her at all. Her self guilt too was natural and Jalal was more hurt at her self-guilt than his own self-guilt.😭. The night had seemingly spoiled the innocence and beauty of what had been so beautiful so far. But with time, they will learn that it had only created creases that time will smoothen.

Jalal had never wanted her to feel bad about him or his love, even before he admitted to his love. That is why he never forced her and gave her all the time in the world to reconcile. But now he knows that the memories of the night and the guilt has scarred her. Perhaps he thought that it is better to avoid the thing that he loved than see it broken and pasted and scarred and fragile. His own self-guilt is compounding things.😭. I feel for them both today.😭

Originally posted by: adiana12

Becoz Charu, they blamed their love - becoz for them their love for each other was always above everything else and they felt that this had made them loose their children - and this is not self blame but blaming Love - and when we blame Love it is God who we blame - and that is what has happened to both here - they have turned away from Love and thus from God and their faith is shaken - yeh distance ek doosre se nahin Mohabbat aur Prem se hai, Yakeen aur Vishwaas se hai, Khuda aur Kanha se hai

Originally posted by: elasingh

Adi I feel their love was not above everything and that is why this pain broke their relationship...Next time when they be with each other it will be after realisation that no death of child and no sorrow can make them apart...This is my view...