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shreya roy

@munni_rajatfan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#111

Originally posted by: elasingh

shreya I understand what you are trying to say...But now I want both of them to realise that no child and no grief and no happiness is above their love...Nothing can break their love...this seperation will make them realise each other's worth but the thing is it is too long...Will both of them be willing to start afresh? Jalal decided to stay away from Jo but will Jo decide to be with Jallu again after three years?

look thts JJ love for u. jalal had distanced himself from jodha, but he wont be able to distance her from his heart. similarly, if after chittor destruction jodha distances herself from jalal, she wont be able to distance him from her heart. why jodha loves jalal so much??? bcoz she knows his heart. why jalal loves jodha so much??? bcoz he knows she is right. even jodha is also blaming her love for her child's death. the truth is tht in this track they will realize tht their love is not dependent on anything. they can distance themselves from each other, they can hurt each other but they cant live without each other.

Edited by munnirony - 11 years ago

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adiana12

@adiana12

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Posted: 11 years ago

#112

Originally posted by: AbHer_neha

No Adi, Jodha blamed herself but she didn't distance herself from him out of guilt otherwise she wouldn't have gone to him to console him. Jalal started distancing himself from her. She tried again. Do you remember the scene where she did pranam to him but he didn't respond. I agree Jodha was feeling guilty but she didn't distance herself from him. She wanted to be his strength this time but he refused her help. I m not blaming him. I know he's in pain but please wrong interpretation mat do.

Did you hear the soul talk Neha and what Jodha said just before the pranam in that soul talk - even Jodha had distanced herself Neha - and the soul talk was the proof of this

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Ela Singh

@elasingh

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Posted: 11 years ago

#113

Originally posted by: Donjas
Thanks Ela for the writeup, I sort of like the "baddie Akbar". At times in recent months I have wondered whether I was watching the story of Akbar or Mahatama Gandhi. Akbar had a wild, violent streak that needs to be shown. It was only after the birth of Salim that he calmed down and rarely went on military campaigns again.

Ruqaiya's no punishment. I sort of agree with the logic, her downfall needs a full fledged track. It cannot be wasted on a track which is already overflowing with drama. Besides if Ruqaiya had been punished now, her standing as a villain would have declined and at present the serial is desperately of short of viable villains.

The separation of Jalal and Jodha. Again I see the logic here, if the CV's want to show Akbar on a warpath against the Rajput states, it is desirable that Jodha not be shown, hand in glove. Besides the reunion will be sweeter after a long separation.

As for the importance of the passionate SR, a day back. I was off target, nothing to do with Salim or any other child, it was just for guilt. It means we will have another SR later in happier times.

Kitni logical hai tumhari post but I am feeling very pained and emotional tonight...Very hurt by Jallu drawing the cutain...Plz dont misunderstand me I am not blaming Jallu but confused right now...I just dont understand how should I take this seperation ? I know they both are hurt and feeling immense emotional guilt...but they should realise that nothing can be bigger then their love...This is one lesson that they need to learn...and I wonder if they will be able to break the wall of silence and if both will be willing to pick up the relationship from the point it got broken?

Mahatma gandhi and Akbar...😆😆

I respect both of them...⭐️

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AbHer_neha

@AbHer_neha

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Posted: 11 years ago

#114

Originally posted by: adiana12

Did you hear the soul talk Neha and what Jodha said just before the pranam in that soul talk - even Jodha had distanced herself Neha - and the soul talk was the proof of this

Yes she did but after seeing Jalal's reaction. But Jalal started this first.

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shreya roy

@munni_rajatfan

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Posted: 11 years ago

#115

Originally posted by: AbHer_neha

No Adi, Jodha blamed herself but she didn't distance herself from him out of guilt otherwise she wouldn't have gone to him to console him. Jalal started distancing himself from her. She tried again. Do you remember the scene where she did pranam to him but he didn't respond. I agree Jodha was feeling guilty but she didn't distance herself from him. She wanted to be his strength this time but he refused her help. I m not blaming him. I know he's in pain but please wrong interpretation mat do.

i agree neha. but when jodha agreed with him, he definitely felt she also wants the same. jodha didnt wanted to distance herself but even she blaming her love gave jalal tht impression. 😭

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Ela Singh

@elasingh

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Posted: 11 years ago

#116

Originally posted by: SindhuMenon
Ela, finally I watched the episode. I thought of skipping but in the end I watched.

I can understand Jalal's pain and he was venting it out on Jodha. I will leave it here. At least Jalal can vent out his frustration , anger blame on anyone. Ruks did the same thing until SB shut her mouth. Love you SB. What about Jodha, to whom can she lean on and share her pain and sorrows. Today I am fully on Jodha's side as she was a true wife, bore it all and did not say a word against anyone.

Jalal and Jodha share the same pain, frustration but Jodha blamed herself and not anyone else. She could have blamed Ruks for keeping Zeenat as Dai ma, like this so many so many incidents. She bore it all.

Cvs, why did u give this Dialogue to Jalal. Because his innocent Kids died he need not have to feel about how many innocent people dies. His Kids were killed by his relations and not those innocent people. Just could not understand this connection.

I did not like too much of Kajol on Jala's eyes..

I too am thinking that where should Jo go? and Moti had the termity to tell Jodha that Jallu is angry with her...Does she ever realise that she talks too much for a maid and she is more responsible for Hussain's death then Jodha...

When Jallu comes back to Jo one day will Jo feel the same abt him? Will she love him with the same innocence and same trust? Will she be able to drink poison and give up her child to keep his words? Or will there be bitterness at him?

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Ela Singh

@elasingh

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Posted: 11 years ago

#117

Originally posted by: ---jais---
Three years has been passed????? When did this happened? I actually missed some part. So when did this happen?

Jallu said in DEK...

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adiana12

@adiana12

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Posted: 11 years ago

#118

Originally posted by: munnirony

i agree neha. but when jodha agreed with him, he definitely felt she also wants the same. jodha didnt wanted to distance herself but even she blaming her love gave jalal tht impression. 😭

Exactly Shreya. Neha, when Akbar asked her if he shd blame her she kept silent and to him that indicated that she indeed blamed herself for staying with him and loving him - that was not him blaming her but him trying to know how she felt

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Sandhya.A

@Sandhya.A

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Posted: 11 years ago

#119

Originally posted by: adiana12

Ela, it is Jodha who blamed herself and distanced herself and all Akbar did was to find out what she felt and her thinking - and once he knew she was blaming herself for spending the night with him, his self blame increased to blaming his loving and his dil - and the fact that his having felt love was taking all he loved away from him added to his self blame - and so he distanced himself from his love and from everyone else as well

Ela

I agree with Adi here.

The way he looked at her as she wept for Hussein - it wasn't the same as for Hassan. There was self-blame guilt written on her face more than the desperation and grief. If they were to ever get closer, the memories of the night would haunt them both. What used to be magical had turned into a nightmare for them. With this wall of guilt between them, the innocence of love was lost, not just for Jodha but Akbar too. Not the fault of either, but destiny.

Ela such wounds are hard to heal. People shutting themselves is the most natural reaction. One of my school friends once so much insisted that she wanted to see a movie and persuaded her parents to book the tickets (no e-booking then). Both her parents met with an accident and passed away. Years have passed but she never sees movies even now. None of us ever discuss about films in her presence. She never insists for anything from anyone. Self-guilt can eat you away from within. They create scars that even time cannot heal. Jalal and Jodha are in the same phase. Even Jodha has not made any advancements. today even if she came out to insist the anuchith-ness of the war, it was more out of her convictions of right and wrong, than an attempt at normalcy.😭

Edited by Sandhya.A - 11 years ago