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@RadhikaSolipsistic means being self centered...Solipsism is extreme egocentrism or being only selfish, only conscious about self existence
Hi Radhika,
Thanks for the post and also warning us to be prepared even for the worst.
For me there was two that stood out on yesterdays episode
1.Jalal from his state of numbness after the loss of children moved to extreme guiltiness before daisa and barmal had now seem to be wanting to address the reason for the guilt that's when we saw that beautiful scene a bonding of a father and a son and the most touching scene the warmth of a child that brought back the smile on a mothers face.Here when ruq comes,we see the first form of assertiveness "yes i brought my child to play" and then the obvious disgust on her. when she plucked the child from jo which lead to his anger towards her.Yes it could have been better if he had openly supported jo but I think the problem is he feels he is binded by the farman yet want to find a way to bring the child back though there could be another reason as he is aware of all ruqs tantrum and may be wanting some peace for hussain .I think their equation is also forever changed yesterday though he called for hakim on humanitarian basis ,i didn't see any overt concern in his face all he was thinking was of a way to take the child back to jo . I think we are not far off the days when we will witness an open contempt on her and would treat her like as if she didn't exist.
2. Jo finally from her denial seemed to have moved on to acceptance of hasan's death by holding the other precious life in her hand. For me Pari stood out all the way in her deriving strength from holding on to hussain and when ruq came her longing to hold on to the child a little more and finally by stopping her from reaching out to the child remembers a pain of a mother . I accept with her reasoning we wouldn't even wish our worst enemy to go through the pain of a loss of child and she stood true to her character by not asking for the child,Priya, you explained these 2 points well. 😊
We haven't seen Todarmal or Birbal for sometime as its understandable as the last episodes were more of parent coping with the loss of a child.But i think going forward will be more on action front and i guess the beginning of it is the jalal's injury.May be now we'll get to see one of them as already there is a doubt abt the fire and now with this injury suspicions may start.
I guess that injury is more likely caused by quasim,zeenat duo in an attempt to get jo out. But may be here salima or zakira may get a role to play as they may get suspicious on her as seeing the burnt finger should have some significance right?.It looked similar to that on nigars hand .That's what I'm curious about - how did the finger get burnt?
But i agree with you radhika that no theory yet could be discarded out rightly as the track is still so open ended and anything could happen.
But i wish this doesn't goes like atifa .Personally i never liked that te way of solving that pbm.What if she had commited sucide on that day?.So i think its so extreme and couldn't appreciate it.I missed many episodes of the Atifa track - it was so miserable. 🤢But in this track i still believe there will be no mu as the only silver lining in this already draining track is the love and support of jalal and if it misses even temporarily then that episodes will become completely unbearable to watch.I still hold on to swap theory .Definitely. It's amazing to see Jalal supporting Jodha in her most vulnerable phase. Hope extreme care isn't turned into extreme insensitivity by the CVs.Let's see if the swap theory is indeed the missing link.
Originally posted by: JAfanCharu
Thank you Radhika for your kind words .I have always believed in Jalal's love and support for Jodha . I never had any doubts about that . What angered me most was his tolerance towards Rukaiya's highhanded attitude . Never once did we see him reprimanding her impossible behavior . This made me wonder if she had some kind of 'hold' over him . I had almost quit watching the serial , because I could not tolerate Rukaiyya anymore .Yes, I completely agree with you, he SHOULD NOT have kept quiet when she insulted daadisa, Bharmal and Jodha . He scolded her in private about it , but it did not serve the purpose at all . Not only did Raja Bharmal and daadisa leave for Agra , unfortunately they will never get to see or interact with Hussein again .I am thankful to the Creatives for showing the good father in Jalal yesterday . Whatever he did was with Baby Hussein's best intentions in mind . He loves Jodha alright , but he has also realized that the infant needs his 'real' mother now . Even though his reactions are late , I'm glad that at least now he took a firm stand against Rukaiya . Better late than never .Even if there is a misunderstanding between Jodha and Jalal , as the spoilers indicate ,it will not affect their relationship drastically . The Creatives may take the soap opera route by showcasing plenty of negative drama and waterworks ( that is their forte ) , eventually everything will be fine . Jalal is really really upset with Rukaiya . The misunderstanding will only aid in strengthening the bond between Jalal and Jodha, which in turn will help them heal from their grief . It will also be instrumental in getting Jalal to see the ghastly reality of his bachpan ka dost and khaas begum, thereby causing Rukaiya's ruin .Right! The MU may be real or faked. But it will be temporary till the culprits are caught. JJ will get back together again. They may start seeking spiritual guidance from mystics like Sheikh Salim Chisti now to understand what happened and why.Shaguni bai's scary bhavishyavaanis and the spoilers , pre caps annoy me no end . The production house puts these up only to gauge the reaction of the viewers . I have seen a pattern . When the audience reacts negatively to a spoiler , they issue another one, to calm them down, and finally end up showing something that has no connection to both spoilers. i am expecting Rukaiya's track to D R A G for at least two more weeks . We should be prepared for it.
I feel so too.
exactly when its matter of ruq its tough to believe on jalal. Ruq's guilts haven't been started newly. She did guilts using murti against jo but ja kept it hidden before everyone then ruq's implication with maham in sujamal track against jodha this also he ignored by playing chess with ruq(if maham could have been punished for it why could haven't been ruq for same reason) in next morning then in fp track here ja became furious on ruq but it was b/c she did treachery with him not b/c she used jo as her servent as a result ruq even got jaan begum's title. Now for the 1st time in private ja opposited ruq slowly b/c the fact is jalal has compelled to say against ruq seeing jo's biggest heart that can't b possible to compare with anything. But is it enough to keep faith on jalal that next day he won't become silent again when ruq wl reprimand jo openly!
Originally posted by: RadhikaS0
Ruqaiyya is going rapidly downhill. Everyday, her behavior is becoming even more difficult to bear. So is her downfall imminent? Hopefully by next Friday, Zeenat will be caught and her involvement in the poisoning of the twins will be exposed.Zeenat was not able to poison Hussein, as Jalal arrived just then to take the child from her. Gathering that Ruq would be busy for sometime, Jalal happily took Hussein to the waiting Jodha. She was so thrilled to hold Hussein in her arms and shower all her maternal love on him. Jalal knew he had done the right thing by bringing Hussein to her.But Ruq was not one to give in so easily. She immediately marched upto Jodha and took away Hussein on the pretext that he was to be fed. (What is laughable here is that Ruq seems to go by the clock to decide when Hussein should be fed and how much or rather how long. I mean doesn't Hussein ever get to decide anything - whether he wants to be fed or whether he's had enough? Poor baby is extremely cooperative with his mother's military regime.)Jalal was burning in anger while Jodha turned away slightly, holding Hussein more tightly, unwilling to let him go. No matter what Jodha says, she cannot help her love from bursting forth and seeking release. Jalal too saw this and was greatly irritated by Ruq's cheap antics.Ruq telling Zeenat that she trusted only her was laughable. What will be Ruq's reaction when she learns of Zeenat's plan?I liked the Jalal-Jodha talk. Jodha was unwilling to make Ruq suffer, as she was suffering. Jodha felt that Ruq truly loved Hussein and wanted him to be safe. But, deep within, her heart did crave for little Husein. Jalal, who knows Ruq and Jodha inside out, was ready to break his promise but unwilling to keep Hussein away from Jodha. He was most keen to din it into Ruq's head that Hussein was Jodha's son, that she had sacrificed a lot so that Ruq could be happy and therefore RUq must appreciate and value Jodha.I am glad he stopped short of slapping Ruq but am equally glad that he gave her a good dose today. You were right in your assessment of Jalal and Ruq and also guessed correctly that Ruq was given some medicine to make her temporarily ill.Jalal asked the same Q as you, Abhay - why Ruq could trust Zeenat and Khwaja Sheras but not Jodha. Thankfully, Hamida and Salima also piped in. So Jalal took the decision himself and promptly walked off with Hussein before Ruq could say anything further on the topic.Side note: I didn't see anything resembling a hug when Jalal rushed to Ruq's side, as she fainted. He was just holding her from falling down. Nor did Jalal grace Ruq with any "get well soon" hug or forehead kiss today. This should make everyone happy.Abhay, Thanks for the update!I have a few Qs: 😊1.. What is the significance of the burnt finger? In fact, I didn't see clearly. How did the finger get burnt? Was it due to the poisoned finger glove or due to the mashal falling on it?2. What is the significance of the poison finger glove getting misplaced and being found again?3. Is there any significance to Salima being present when Zeenat is searching for her missing poison finger glove.4. How does Jalal get so injured in the head? Is this a lucky coincidence or did Zeenat do anything to get Jodha out of her hojra?
Originally posted by: JAfanCharu
Abhay , I will not get miffed at your thoughts . You are absolutely right .As irritated as I am with Rukaiyya , I know that Jalal did the right thing by not hitting her. I will also be honest in telling you that I have been tempted several times to pull her out of the tv screen and spank her for her screaming and unacceptable behavior . Actually today when she refused to let dadisa anywhere near Hussein, I was fuming . Believe me , I am a very calm person . My kids will vouch for that . I have never spanked them 😉Humor apart , hitting her would have been inappropriate.Just by releasing anger on a person for their mistakes by using physical force , is not going to rectify the mistakes they have made . It only invokes more anger in the person that has erred and makes them doubly rebellious . Jalal's anger towards Rukaiyya has been simmering ever since she asked Jodha for one twin. Her selfish reaction to his request yesterday when she refused to give Hussein to Jodha for solace, followed by her disgusting act towards dadisa and Raja Bharmal culminated with her accusing Jodha of negligence in handling baby Hassan . In a fit of anger he raised his hand but stopped short when she started coughing/gagging .Would he have slapped her had she not coughed ?Now I am wondering how he will react on finding out her 'real' intentions behind asking Jodha for a baby . Jodha is most precious to him . Will it be okay for him to physically assault Rukaiya in a fit of indescribable rage for misusing Jodha's goodness and his trust. We all have seen him in his elements when he is angry .There is no stopping him . Rukaiyya's selfish blunder is no ordinary one. How do you think he will react on learning about her 'asliyat' ?Whatever she did, Rukaiya did knowingly , planning out every step in detail keeping Jodha's weakness in mind .Even though she is childish and immature, I do not believe that positive reinforcement of any kind will work on her . What would be the best form of punishment for her ?I have been contemplating writing a detailed analysis on Rukaiya's personality and psyche . I stop short thinking of all the gaalis I will receive ,after people read it . People should not misinterpret my analysis as sympathy for her . Rukaiyya is the way she is due to deep rooted insecurity caused by (a) having lost her place in Jalal's heart (b) due to lack of proper communication between Jalal and her where Jalal should have assured her of her importance and value in his life, thereby reducing her insecurity and jealousy (c) being unable to conceive biologically . Jodha has achieved all of the above . Hence her resentment towards Jodha and wanting to usurp what Jodha has.The Creatives have made her character exceedingly villainous , made the audience detest her immensely , to such an extent , that many including me are ready to do what Jalal stopped short of doing today .
Originally posted by: history_geek
By the way: I want to share some thing interesting. LOL
This is the PHONE CALL of one of my friends to Zee.{She is not on IF.} I am writing whatever i was told. These are the combined contents of her last 3 calls.
She called Zee NOT to ask about tracks but to blast them. I am posting as much detailed as it is possible...
Request:
If you call Zee then call them to suggest the IDEAS..!!.
She - Is it Zee.?.
Zee - Haanji Mam. Boliye. {It appeared as if he is already tired and has received many calls.LOL}
She - What nonsense is being shown in Jodha Akbar.?.
Zee - Mam, aapko kya shikayat hai. Aaram se bataiye.
She - Where are Jodha and Akbar in this show.?. This show has massacred the definition of Royal Families.
Zee - Mam, Hamara Show Jodha AKbar hi hai. Yeh Hamara best show hai.
She - Nahi, ye Jodha Akbar nahi hai, yahan Akbar ki koi izzat nahi hai, Ruqayya Begum ne Akbar ko dost nahi apna Slave samjha hua hai.?.
Zee - Mam, Ruqayya ko saza milegi, aap dekhiye...
She - {She did not respond to above answer of Zee, and asked the next question.} Man Singh , Agra mein kya karne aaye hain.?.
Zee - Mam, wo Jalal ke rishedaar hain. Jalal ke wafadar hain.
She - Jalal ke rishtedaro ke saath , Jalal ki pehli wife aisi badsaluki karti hai.? Jodha aur Akbar kam pade the ki, aapne Bharmal/DadiSa aur Man Singh ka bhi Shreeganesh kara dia uske haato.?. Bhagwan Das aur Mainawati kahan hain.?.
Zee - Mam wo sari galatiyan samne aayengi.Aap dekhte jaiye..
She - Maine aapka show dekhna band kar dia hai, aur main aur logon ko bhi yehi bolti hun ki Jodha Akbar na hi dekhe to acha hai. Man Singh aur Amer walo ke saath aisa kyu hone dia.?. Creatives ke paas, koi idea hai ki nahi.
Zee - ( ..?.. )
She - Aap jante hain ki itna bada risk dikhana kitni badi galti hai.?. Kisi Raja ko aise apmaanit karna wo bhi bina kisi baat ke.?. Yeh Bharmal ki nahi Akbar ki badnaami hai. Akele mein uski wife kuch bhi bole, farak nahi padta, par sab ke saamne aisa dikhane ka koi hak nahi hai aapko.
Zee - Mam, Akbar bolega Ruqayya ko..Aap dekhiye band nahi kijiye, aap dekhte rahiye.
She - Jodha aur Akbar ki shaadi ko 2 saal beet gaye, Aaj tak unhone koi festival celebrate nahi kia.?.
Zee - Mam wo sab ideas main de dunga CV's ko..
She - Maine 3 months pehle bhi bola tha festivals ke liye. Ek baar Holi dikhai thi, us mein bhi Jodha ne Maham Anga ke upar color daal dia tha. Koi festival ya jashn Agra mein shaanti ke saath ho hi nahi sakta. Aap Diwali, Karva Chauth, Teej, EId, aur kitne saare festivals dikha sakte hain.
Zee - Mam, main aapki baat CV's tak pahucha dunga.
She - Shahenshah-e-Hind aur Malika-e-Hind ke paas 3-4 se zyaada dresses nahi hain.?. Wo purani dresses ka kya hua.?. Jodha ke dresses ki fabric{i forgot the word she used😕} bhi nikal gai hai..
Zee - Mam, hame complain aai hai is bare mein, bahut sari. Main CV's team to bata dunga.
She - Aapki lead actress Jodha hai ya Ruqayya.?. Jodha ka make up is pathetic compared to after wedding days. Ruqayya is always decked up. Yeh sab kya hai.?. Yeh baat main nahi puri social media websites bol rahin hain. Make up artist ko Jodha se problem hai kya.
Zee - {Laughs.} Mam. Hame complain mili hain . Main bata dunga . Aap show dekhiye.
She - Main is show mein kya dekhun.?. Yahan par khushi kam aur rona dhona zyada hota hai. Is ko dekh kar, headache hota hain.
Zee - Mam, main track ke bare mein nahi bata sakta. Bas aap dekhte jaiye.
She - Phir main yeh track khatam hone ke baad hi dekhungi. Thank you.
Zee - Mam, aap bas 2-3 episodes aur dekhiye.
She - Us mein kya dekhun.?. Hussain ko Zeenat successfully khatam kar degi. Phirse Jodha ko sun na padega Ruqayya se, Ye hi dekhu.?.😉
Zee - Mam. Main nahi bata sakta aapko, plz nahi puchiye.
She - Aapse puchne ka faeda bhi nahi hai. 😆 Sab logon ko bewakoof banaya. You all are liars. You said, koi child sharing nahi hogi, par child sharing hui. Uske baad jab maine last time call kia tha, maine bola tha ki bache natural death se nahi mare the, but you said aisa nahi hoga, but aisa hi hua. Aap ki har baat galat saabit hui, and meri baat sahi.
Zee - {..-----..}
She - Aapke, Most of the Promos, Dream Sequences hote hain, and kuch kabhi actual episode mein dekhne ko milte hi nahi, and kuch to bilkul opposite play hote hain episode mein. Aisa bas Jodha Akbar mein kyu hota hai.?.
Zee - {..------..}
She - Waise aap logon ne ye kaise dikhaya ki Hasan pehle mara gaya.Ye to galat hai.
Zee - Mam ye aapko kisne bataya. Maine to aisa kuch nahi padha.
She - {She kept quiet and was in a shock for a moment after hearing his answer. Still she said >} Hussain pehle tha, Hasan baad mein.
Zee - { He was not ready to listen to this. They have mixed up the names of twins i think. }
She - {She dropped the idea of asking more.} Last thing, Aap log promo kyu nahi de rahe hain. Baki shows to promos dete hain aur itna promotion karte hain..
Zee - Mam, wo Marketing ka department hai. Main bata dunga. Hamara show Zee ka best show hai.
She - Aapke BEST show ki TRP girti ja rahi hai. Did you see the latest TRP.?. {In a sarcastic manner..LOL.>.} Thank You. CuTTT...
Moral:
I Do not rely on Zee since starting, i rely on what i know and hence was sure that this track is for Ruqayya's downfall, though the duration (i mean torture) of this track depends on the CV's .
If you call Zee, please do it after making a LIST and suggest them some ideas..!!.