JA Oct 7 2014 | Elegy for Hasan, Oct10 Abhay Updt P18, Call to Zee P24 - Page 14

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Posted: 10 years ago
Oct 10

So, Jalal is already simmering. And, he gave it back to Ruqaiyya.
Faltu mein all were going after Jalal. He very much understands Jodha.
Actually, he is restraining himself. 😉

I am not able to get Ruqs logic. She can give the Kid to Khwaja Shera and Zeenat but not to Jodha.
Also, we were right in thinking that Ruqs has been drugged.
Now, Kid goes to Jodha, and Zeenat is here also...


Precap:
Hussain with Jodha, Jodha comes to know Jalal has been hurt badly in head. She is about to leave to go to Jalal, but stops. Zeenat is present in Jodha's Hojra as well.

Note:
Will Ruqs again blame Jodha.?. That is obvious. One thing which is clear is that, Salima Begum also saw Zeenat's burnt finger. That is for a specific reason. We know anyways, Jalal is present with her. And Zeenat would be caught. We all know that Hussain won't survive, so let us NOT spoil the weekend thinking what will happen to Jodha. Enjoy your coming festival. Best Wishes. 😊

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: RadhikaS0


Abhay,

You know my views about this - I would NEVER support Jalal hitting Jodha, Ruqaiyya or any other woman.

Temptation may be there but it has to be overcome. That is a sign of maturity. I feel we all agree Jalal has grown a lot since he manhandled Jodha in the Sujamal track.

Jalal would have stopped short even if Ruq hadn't choked. Reason being his awareness that he was responsible for much of what Ruq is today. He kept indulging her whims and fancies, overlooking her misdemeanors and tolerating her despicable behavior towards Jodha. She has therefore become desensitized to others' pain / suffering and lost the link to her conscience that would have told her right from wrong.

Charu, I fully agree with what you have written about Ruqaiyya. Physical punishment will not work for her. Then what would be befitting punishment for her when her reality comes out in the open? Jalal may choose ostracization. She may be excluded from social contact with anyone and forced to live in isolation so that she may learn the value of social relationships.

Pls do write your analysis of Ruqaiyya's psyche. I would love to read it and share my views. You can see Abhay's and my (old) views here on this subject: 😊



PS: Why did Ruq choke? She was so emotionally wrought that she started coughing / choking and was unable to speak. Happens when we are extremely angry or emotional about something and screaming our lungs out. 😊 No need for any drugs or forced Natak here 😛



Radhika and Charu,

Wasn't my assessment right about Jalal and Ruqayya.?. 😃
And he stopped even before she was about to faint. 😊


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: pari_akdha

hey abhay please tell me...is there any involvement of rukaiya the death of twins or if not then how they died?



Hi Pia,

Not natural, as far as i know. I will send you the link of my LONG DETAILED postS i made in this regard (they are not my normal IF posts, they are NEW postS). Check your inbox in some time. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
Hi akka...
Why sometime it seems that life's happening is unfair? All our life we never once done anything to anyone including animals that hurts or pain them. Not at least consciously. Then why is it looks like God giving punishment by permanently taking away someone who was very dear to our heart. The attachment with that person is very strong that the sudden departure compel us to question the almighty, why me? The sadness and helplessness due to the light of life being extinguished forever might turn into anger. Why? Because the very foundation of believe and trust on Him have badly shaken.

As long as we see from the grieving person POV there will be no end or answer. The subsequent explanation might sound like sermon, so bear with me. So let us see the whole process from the eyes of God. He created us. Here it does not refer to the body nor emotion nor mind but the soul which has His essences. He did not mass produce all soul at once. Therefore the age of every soul is different. Some are young and some are old. All with different level of maturity. The soul goal is to be back from where it came from. The path it walks is of experience. The happenings that one face are due to their past action. And due to Maya, the memories of past are hidden from us on over current life, to protect from burdening ourselves.

More than being just, God is compassionate. We are only made to face what we can withstand. And young souls(like ruks and Maham) are forgiven for now coz they just cannot withstand it. Jodha is very matured person and she to must made some bad karma which must be resolved now and it is destined that way. As much as god love to test his best devotee be also makes sure the devotee does not fail. Here Jodha and Jalal are blessed to have each other to across this depressing time.

One more thing, why Ruks is like this. How can kindness, selflessness, humanity, love and many other good qualities are absent in her. As I said earlier she is young, not matured will be more appropriate. Expecting Ruks having the above qualities is like asking a 7 year old to solve algebra maths problem. She will evolve based on her own speed and it take time, might be some life cycle. This way I could not hate her and I don't harbor any kind of feeling for her. The best is ignore her.
By the way, in yesterdays epi where ameris where getting insulted, see Bharmal's reaction towards ruks, its like seeing an alien or something.

About Jalal's silent, for me I forgive him this time around. He is exhausted and seems like lost all energy. To shout and silence ruks, he needed to be angry but I guess he is still very hurt and the pain might have supersedes anger. But precap suggest that Ruks finally touched the limit line. I'm not upset on Jalal for helping Ruks. Its an instinctive reaction when someone is sick. I still think there is more that meet the eye regarding ruks actions.

Jodha is angry with khana, true but she have not stop believing in god. in the scene after jalal gone to check on Hussein, she subconsciously prayed to ishwar to protect her child.
Akka...this track is very emotionally draining. Past memories that I thought I have buried actually still there as fresh as if it happen yesterday. This track just brought back them and I'm still dealing with it.

Akka...regarding islamic finance, I will pm u, now only he started with introduction.

Good night.


Edited by MPMANU - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: MPMANU

Hi akka...

Why sometime it seems that life's happening is unfair? All our life we never once done anything to anyone including animals that hurts or pain them. Not at least consciously. Then why is it looks like God giving punishment by permanently taking away someone who was very dear to our heart. The attachment with that person is very strong that the sudden departure compel us to question the almighty, why me? The sadness and helplessness due to the light of life being extinguished forever might turn into anger. Why? Because the very foundation of believe and trust on Him have badly shaken.

As long as we see from the grieving person POV there will be no end or answer. The subsequent explanation might sound like sermon, so bear with me. So let us see the whole process from the eyes of God. He created us. Here it does not refer to the body nor emotion nor mind but the soul which has His essences. He did not mass produce all soul at once. Therefore the age of every soul is different. Some are young and some are old. All with different level of maturity. The soul goal is to be back from where it came from. The path it walks is of experience. The happenings that one face are due to their past action. And due to Maya, the memories of past are hidden from us on over current life, to protect from burdening ourselves.

More than being just, God is compassionate. We are only made to face what we can withstand. And young souls(like ruks and Maham) are forgiven for now coz they just cannot withstand it. Jodha is very matured person and she to must made some bad karma which must be resolved now and it is destined that way. As much as god love to test his best devotee be also makes sure the devotee does not fail. Here Jodha and Jalal are blessed to have each other to across this depressing time.

One more thing, why Ruks is like this. How can kindness, selflessness, humanity, love and many other good qualities are absent in her. As I said earlier she is young, not matured will be more appropriate. Expecting Ruks having the above qualities is like asking a 7 year old to solve algebra maths problem. She will evolve based on her own speed and it take time, might be some life cycle. This way I could not hate her and I don't harbor any kind of feeling for her. The best is ignore her.
By the way, in yesterdays epi where ameris where getting insulted, see Bharmal's reaction towards ruks, its like seeing an alien or something.

About Jalal's silent, for me I forgive him this time around. He is exhausted and seems like lost all energy. To shout and silence ruks, he needed to be angry but I guess he is still very hurt and the pain might have supersedes anger. But precap suggest that Ruks finally touched the limit line. I'm not upset on Jalal for helping Ruks. Its an instinctive reaction when someone is sick. I still think there is more that meet the eye regarding ruks actions.

Jodha is angry with khana, true but she have not stop believing in god. in the scene after jalal gone to check on Hussein, she subconsciously prayed to ishwar to protect her child.
Akka...this track is very emotionally draining. Past memories that I thought I have buried actually still there as fresh as if it happen yesterday. This track just brought back them and I'm still dealing with it.

Akka...regarding islamic finance, I will pm u, now only he started with introduction.

Good night.



Hi Manu,

Sorry to come in. But I'm deeply moved by your post . The way you have putforth the purpose of life could make a nonbeliever into a believer . Loved your entire post and lines in bold are exceptional.I don't know if it is a coincidence or what but these last two days whenever i thought of penning down some thought especially here i see a reflection of it done before ,but even if i have tried i wouldn't have been able to put it as elegantly as you have done and i applaud you for that👏
i don't know if i believe in cycles of life but yes i do believe in phases of soul and like you put
life is a continuous battle within oneself to attain a state of nirvana where you realize you could never truly own anything but our deeds may leave a mark which makes us immortal in the hearts of others and for me i see it as jalal and jo are in these final phases before attaining the enlightenment.Thanks once again for this beautiful post.
Edited by prav2 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: history_geek

Oct 10

So, Jalal is already simmering. And, he gave it back to Ruqaiyya.
Faltu mein all were going after Jalal. He very much understands Jodha.
Actually, he is restraining himself. 😉

I am not able to get Ruqs logic. She can give the Kid to Khwaja Shera and Zeenat but not to Jodha.
Also, we were right in thinking that Ruqs has been drugged.
Now, Kid goes to Jodha, and Zeenat is here also...


Precap:
Hussain with Jodha, Jodha comes to know Jalal has been hurt badly in head. She is about to leave to go to Jalal, but stops. Zeenat is present in Jodha's Hojra as well.

Note:
Will Ruqs again blame Jodha.?. That is obvious. One thing which is clear is that, Salima Begum also saw Zeenat's burnt finger. That is for a specific reason. We know anyways, Jalal is present with her. And Zeenat would be caught. We all know that Hussain won't survive, so let us NOT spoil the weekend thinking what will happen to Jodha. Enjoy your coming festival. Best Wishes. 😊



Abhay
Thanks for the post.You have summed it all .Line in Blue i think the reason is ruq see child as a proprietary a mean to attain her goal and not as a precious little life. For her zeenat or kwaja shera are like her employees who would just work for the money given and never think of a claim to the properietary .But with jo the stakes are different ,she can at anytime raise a claim and this is what is bothering her.But little did she understand motherliness is consider the purest thing in the world as it based on true selflessness.A mother would never try to own a child but rather attain her happiness from child's happiness.By not taking the childs feeling into account how could she ever be able to own it. Will the child not one day truly hate her when it comes to know of her intentions like maham. But if ruq was able to understand this all she would never have been what she is now.
Thanks for the wishes .


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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ILTHBEB


abhay, thanx for agreeing with me. I won't ever blame anyone for pampering in 1st place where as nobody has gut to speak before ruq b/c ruq's exaggeration audacity has been made for one n only jalal. He never contradicted ruq's misbehavior now water flows over river hence jalal has no gut to control it. Despite getting thousand times insult frm ruq, jo never gives over turn ans to ruq for herself b/c jo extremely respects ruq as his husband's 1st wife hence ja should have stood against ruq so as to his in laws family wasn't gotten insult by ruq.


Nabiii

Till I saw today's episode, I felt same too. But today, Jalal made it very clear to Ruq that he didn't like her behavior with Raja Bharmal and dadisa. Of course, this may be too little, too late. They have already gone back - feeling hurt and insulted. It would have been more effective if he had told Ruq all this yesterday.

Like Priya said in her post, may be Jalal was feeling guilty about not being able to present any grandchild to Raja Bharmal and dadisa and was thus weighed down.

At least, as long as he stands by Jodha, I will be satisfied. But Jodha also has to let him support her publicly. She is too sacrificing and noble and doesn't understand that her goodness is wasted on Ruq. Yeah, one must always be good with everyone. But for Ruq I wish to make an exception and tell Jodha not to be nice to her.

@Abhay: You were right yesterday - Zeenat does give some "medicine" to Ruq to make her sick so that she can have free access to Hussein.👍🏼

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Posted: 10 years ago

Ayushi,

You have explained the situation very well. Since everyone is living together, why keep boundaries among children? Let the children be brought up jointly by everyone - this way, the child too gets everyone's love and all the adults too feel happy when they are equally involved in the child's upbringing.

But practically, we see many people deliberately creating walls within their families and restricting access to children / restricting children from going to some family members. This is true even now. It's human nature to want to have everything but not give anything in return. But these people forget that even an ocean cannot keep giving water to the skies if the sky does not return water back to it as rain.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Can spoiler come true jalal blaming jodha fir hussain death
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Originally posted by: preetgurti

Can spoiler come true jalal blaming jodha fir hussain death



Preet,

That spoiler should NOT come true, because then there would NOT be any Justification for this LOVE STORY. Agar itne saare MU's ke baad bhi kuch nahi sikha to kya sikha.?.

I can predict massive fall in TRP's.. Also, we know after twins demise they were together for war + Pilgrimage. Kisi bhi angle se i do not think this spoiler is true.

Separation at this phase of life would be a big blow to Jodha. How can he blame Jodha now.?. It is Jalal who has held the Fort, and i do NOT BELIEVE this spoiler. He is very much laying his trust on Jodha, and I do not think aisa kuch hoga. 😊


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