The real gift outshines the shiny one! - Page 11

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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: elasingh

Jaya I dont feel sad for Ruku ...she is the same woman who loved to jaleel Jodha and many other begums...now the tide has turned against her...

Ela, as a matter of fact, even I feel avered by her at times but truly feel bad for her as her this nature is all thanks to her Aunt, HB and Jalal's never ending pampering. It happens with single child upbringing comapred to the childredn grown with full family. The children grown as single child will grow more possesive quality than compromising quality.
But I felt really bad in yesterday's episode when Jalal openly, mearcilessly said Jodha's gift as the best and called her to sit next to him. atleast if he had not called her to preside the congregation with him, it would not have severed Ruqaiya that much.
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Posted: 11 years ago
aww skanda i always look forward to your analysis, they are so detailed and well thought out 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: bioinfo

aww skanda i always look forward to your analysis, they are so detailed and well thought out 👏

Thank you! 😛 (And please call me Mansi!)
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: PadBear

Ah what a grand post from you @skanda12. I'm a bit new to this show. About 5 episodes old I am. So the forum is helping me get up to speed.

Isn't Jalal already a magnificent character! As you said, between morning and evening he has grown as a man! Always open minded, always learning. Inspiring!

Hi, welcome to Jodha Akbar forum. I had read yur posts @ DABH.Hope you will start sharing your thoughts here as well.😊😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
Hi Jaya, nice to see a known face so to speak! Thanks for the welcome. Am enjoying everybody's posts and have a lot of reading to do. Great show, great discussion.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: deejagi

Ela, as a matter of fact, even I feel avered by her at times but truly feel bad for her as her this nature is all thanks to her Aunt, HB and Jalal's never ending pampering. It happens with single child upbringing comapred to the childredn grown with full family. The children grown as single child will grow more possesive quality than compromising quality.
But I felt really bad in yesterday's episode when Jalal openly, mearcilessly said Jodha's gift as the best and called her to sit next to him. atleast if he had not called her to preside the congregation with him, it would not have severed Ruqaiya that much.

Jaya, you could be right that some of Ruq's behaviour is conditioned by her upbringing. My own grandmom got married very young, like 13 years old or something! The thing is her mentality even at 80 years was stuck at that 13-year old phase even though she had three kids! Maybe this very early marriage does that to some people and Ruq may be one of them?
In the case of someone like Jalal, even though he too was married young, he had external exposure to people outside his family circle and so there is development of personality but if like Ruq you are confined within a small circle of family froma young age and there is no external exposure, you may get into a kind of time warp?
her biggest problem seems to be that her emotions and behaviour are all that of a child. Even her tantrums and anger has a childish quality, as does her possessiveness. Its not the anger style of an adult, its a very childish kind of trap she's in!
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: PadBear

Hi Jaya, nice to see a known face so to speak! Thanks for the welcome. Am enjoying everybody's posts and have a lot of reading to do. Great show, great discussion.

I don't want to sound boastful but I think we have a group of extremely intelligent people here! Right, guys?
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: skanda12

I don't want to sound boastful but I think we have a group of extremely intelligent people here! Right, guys?


well, it takes brains to follow this shahenshah's mind. I've improved my IQ in 5 mins already. So yeah.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: deejagi

Ela, as a matter of fact, even I feel avered by her at times but truly feel bad for her as her this nature is all thanks to her Aunt, HB and Jalal's never ending pampering. It happens with single child upbringing comapred to the childredn grown with full family. The children grown as single child will grow more possesive quality than compromising quality.
But I felt really bad in yesterday's episode when Jalal openly, mearcilessly said Jodha's gift as the best and called her to sit next to him. atleast if he had not called her to preside the congregation with him, it would not have severed Ruqaiya that much.

Yes Jaya ...I feel Jallu was quite insensitive with her...even when they talked he was subtly ruthless...but I am really really happy for Jo...
Edited by elasingh - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: PadBear

Hi Jaya, nice to see a known face so to speak! Thanks for the welcome. Am enjoying everybody's posts and have a lot of reading to do. Great show, great discussion.

You don't need a known face here to mingle with. All that needs is to be open minded and share the views without getting offended and offending others.😊😊
You will have a nice group to interact with.

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