Originally posted by: RadhikaS0
Thanks, Abhay Ji! (Seeing the Ji, I should ask like Jodha "Kahin aap humein taana toh nahin maar rahen?" 😆)
I would see it in the show but that may take ages considering even Salim isn't born yet! 😭 So would be much, much obliged if u could shed some light on this issue instead of answering my Q with a Q, just like Jodha 😕The general consensus on ur thread is that Jalal was kind of upset with Ruq's behaviour and turned towards Jodha completely. So even tho u may not have said anything about Jalal-Ruq's relationship status, I kind of assumed that it wasn't so chummy that he would hand over a child to her for upbringing, even in her old age.
Another related point u missed is why did he keep distributing the upbringing of his kids/grandkids among the women in his family? Why didn't he let MUZ be solely responsible for them? Did he want to keep her free for himself or for other important work? How did MUZ take it - after all, she seems a very sentimental kind of person, who loves children a lot. How did she bear separation from her kids and grandkids?
Hi,
I was not "taana-maroing" there.😆 Just wanted to start a serious😳 answer on a lighter note.😊
Regarding the reason which you have asked me, "please" wait and watch it.😊 You need not wait till Salim's birth specially for it.
It was a like a well-established practice to give children to ladies due to various reasons. Like if someone is childless or for some other affectionate reasons also, like Akbar gave his daughter to his mother. It was a NORM those days.
The question is not about MUZ being solely responsible.😊 They were responsible to their progeny. But having wet-nurses was also LIKE a custom.😊 And all communities had this. Even the Rajvanshis had this customs in form of dai-maas to help in upbringing of their progeny.
You may be surprised to know that Akbar was brought up by a dozen wet-nurses, whose leader was Maham Anga.🤓 Similarly, Salim also had a wet-nurse, named Zi-l-qa'da, who "assisted" MUZ in his upbringing.😊
As you are talking specially about MUZ, then Akbar DID NOT give any of their child's responsibily fully to any anyone else. As far as i know, about the grandchildren, only Khurram was given to Ruqayya Begum for full upbringing initially. BTW, Even if a child is given to someone it does NOT means that others cannot meet him or he is separated as the child stays in the harem only.😊 Only exception was the case of Khurram..!..
So, overall you see there is no reason for being emotional, as these were the norms.😊
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