Originally posted by: Geeka
Well if you can see, all are angry. Not making fun of her. This is what's primarily wrong about this fandom. That's why I am watching and appreciating sanaya from a distance instead of being a part of the fandom - because I'm ashamed to be a part of it! You guys (at least the main leaders of the fandom) are adults and mature people. YOu are the ones who are leading all the teenagers and school kids, organize them for voting. Why didn't you guys consider the possibility 'what should we do if we lose?' Why made it into a matter of life and death? Why did you guys constantly chant for the past few months "give up your work, studies, school, college and consider voting your utmost responsibility"? Would the star you represent approve giving up on your own lives to make her a winner? Now that one silly girl who have no coping skills went and did something really unforgivable, you guys are trying to hush the others up! š” Great going!
It is not that easy as you think it is. This is a Virtual place we are interacting in. None of us has any control really on what happens on Twitter or FB or even here for that matter. Do u think we have not tried ? This is not a set of 40 people that we are dealing with and how ...they are so many and in so many different places...how can u imagine one can drive such a set of people ?? We have tried to contain the situation but it came out still ! I cannot do anything to change that ...who can ?
I do not support anyone who takes such drastic steps as Life is way too precious and it cannot be wasted just like that. There are many in this world who want to live and cannot .
We can only request someone to not do what they are doing ...the decision is still theirs...like it is here.
I have just requested and not hushed anyone !
I have very sincerely asked anyone who is making fun of the Girl to just stop doing so. Don't sympathize with her ...ok but then do not make fun of her either.
Please visit the first few posts of this thread...you shall know what I mean.
There is a difference in expressing anger and in making fun of anyone. I have not asked anyone to not be angry ... I am just asking everyone to be a bit considerate. She did what she did...can we not control what we are doing now ?
None of us have ever asked the youngsters / elders ..anyone to give up their work or studies or pocket money etc in doing anything for Sanaya.
Yes we encouraged our guys to vote but no one pushed anyone off their limits be rest assured. None can do that ...trust me. We have instead tried to cover up for people who could not vote with those who had free time to vote ...what is the harm in that ?
Also please see that everyone just looks at what wrong we did ...no one looks at the good side of things and this is the truth. Many of us appreciate Faisal too but who cares to look at that part of the fandom ...it is just the ones who badmouth are taken to be the FACE of it ...what about others who are not doing it in anyway !!! we are the invisible ones as we get lost in the mob but that does not mean we do not exist ...still people just assume I am a fanatic fan too !!
I am hoping people will just leave the person alone. That is all.
Edited by aaliah3108 - 9 years ago
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