Originally posted by: aaliah3108
It is not that easy as you think it is. This is a Virtual place we are interacting in. None of us has any control really on what happens on Twitter or FB or even here for that matter. Do u think we have not tried ? This is not a set of 40 people that we are dealing with and how ...they are so many and in so many different places...how can u imagine one can drive such a set of people ?? We have tried to contain the situation but it came out still ! I cannot do anything to change that ...who can ?
I do not support anyone who takes such drastic steps as Life is way too precious and it cannot be wasted just like that. There are many in this world who want to live and cannot .
We can only request someone to not do what they are doing ...the decision is still theirs...like it is here.
I have just requested and not hushed anyone !
I have very sincerely asked anyone who is making fun of the Girl to just stop doing so. Don't sympathize with her ...ok but then do not make fun of her either.
Please visit the first few posts of this thread...you shall know what I mean.
There is a difference in expressing anger and in making fun of anyone. I have not asked anyone to not be angry ... I am just asking everyone to be a bit considerate. She did what she did...can we not control what we are doing now ?
None of us have ever asked the youngsters / elders ..anyone to give up their work or studies or pocket money etc in doing anything for Sanaya.
Yes we encouraged our guys to vote but no one pushed anyone off their limits be rest assured. None can do that ...trust me. We have instead tried to cover up for people who could not vote with those who had free time to vote ...what is the harm in that ?
Also please see that everyone just looks at what wrong we did ...no one looks at the good side of things and this is the truth. Many of us appreciate Faisal too but who cares to look at that part of the fandom ...it is just the ones who badmouth are taken to be the FACE of it ...what about others who are not doing it in anyway !!!
I am hoping people will just leave the person alone. That is all.
Well, i have studies to do so can't devote much time to argue...let me make it brief.
Since you insisted i went and checked every page. First they were making fun of that tweet to PM modi, not the supposed suicidal attempt. After that tweet was posted, only one member had made a somewhat mocking comment. Every other person is just angry at the sheer stupidity of that act. So I guess you making fun comment doesn't apply to the majority opinion here.
I have seen with my own eyes several posts in this forum urging fans to "vote vote and vote more, sacrifice your time, sleep, meals, college, work just for the weekend, sanaya needs our votes" not once, several times.I have seen people asking who to contact indian fans to send money. Of course the negotiations must have been done secretly in PMs etc, because i have seen people asking to check PM instead of saying outright. So don't fool me. I don't have time to pull them as evidence now. And from my experience i can tell those comments might be edited already. Its a common behavior in this fandom.
If you can claim to make a solid reliable vote count, then you can easily spread a wide-reaching message to fans to not act rashly too. It doesn't work both ways. i know there are big Fb groups and many are untied here too. The girl who is supposedly in the hospital was not an isolated girl, she was giving spoilers constantly and was in contact with many right? I know 100% reach over the fans is impossible but don't act like your hands are tied now. The same people who organized so many fans should now take the same stand to calm the fandom too. Its your responsibility. May be you are already doing it, but it isnt enough.