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The Witch

@carisma2

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Posted: 12 years ago

#31

Originally posted by: -Chandramukhi-


Couldn't resist.

Who says people who bash aren't good. It's funny how people love throwing these tags of good or bad for some virtual fun. Virtual platform isn't supposed to be taken this seriously.

Also, just cuz you are trying to be "good" for the time being, others should follow you as well. Again why ??? 😆😆 Correct me if I am wrong

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So, repeating my funda, "LIVE AND LET LIVE". If one doesn't have problem with your drooling, one shouldn't have problem with anyone's bashing <---- This isn't targeted to anyone particular😉

for now... those who know me. ... know something will irk me again soon or later. Many times I'd love to join posts. .. which are considered fun. ... yet I manage to keep the little devil in me asleep. We know how to have fun. ... and when mods are biased you think best to just stay away from if... incase you say something which ppl won't like.

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Posted: 12 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: carisma2
lol. Till this day my warning levels haven't decreased...lol. but yet I still manage to forgive and forget...

Again, how is forgive and forget associated with stopping what you enjoy doing on the forum. I am sure people don't keep grudges for long no matter who they are, show ends, people move on and come back to support yet another Celeb.

So even if one forgives and forgets, it has got no relation what so ever with forum fun, which people either have by drooling or bashing or criticizing or any other means possible.

Thus, when people learn to "LIVE AND LET LIVE" forum shall achieve the peace you are looking for. And technically speaking even your thread doesn't follow this principle since you are asking people to do what you want them to do and not what they rather be doing.

Edited by -Chandramukhi- - 12 years ago

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WreckLass

@WreckLass

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Posted: 12 years ago

#33

I had to think twice before posting in this topic😆 Carisma, you know why😳

Anyways, my honest opinion:

I dont dislike DD. She is just another contestant like Lauren and the others.

But one thing I have noticed as soon as I entered this forum in the starting of June was, some DDians calling non DD fans as dogs, losers, jobless...i was appalled to see such words towards other members.

I didnt know DD ...havent heard of her name before JDJ6...coz I dont follow Indian TV at all. I just watch some reality shows online. So I dont know the whole history about her Madhubala show or the MB forum or about the other actors and their fans.

All I know is, I was bashed badly just for stating that I didnt know abt her in a post. I was called a hater, cheapster and so on just becoz i said that her dance was not upto the mark. I havent bashed her by calling bra size and the other names...but still am called a basher or a hater

Till date am called names...other members have been abused horribly...more than me.

So for me, it is very tough to come and post that I actually liked DDs dance becoz of such crazy, annoying fans that she has Hence, i dont post anything positive about her. Thats just me. The fans are very irritating to say the least.

Now coming to the dancing, DD is not a good dancer IMO. She is lucky to have Salman as her choreographer who is smartly using her in the acts. I dont think that they deserve the 30s that they get week after week. Infact no one does.

And about her excessive promotion as Madhubala, that is just pissing me off. Why the favoritism? The bias? So what if she is from the Colors channel? Why even promote that show on JdJ?

Let her be Drashti Dhami...but NO. Colors is a crappy channel.

Edited by T1ddlyW1nks - 12 years ago

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The Witch

@carisma2

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Posted: 12 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: -Chandramukhi-


Again, how is forgive and forget associated with stopping what you enjoy doing on the forum. I am sure people don't keep grudges for long no matter who they are, show ends, people move on and come back to support yet another Celeb.

So even if one forgives and forgets, it has got no relation what so ever with forum fun, which people either have by drooling or bashing or criticizing or any other means possible.

Thus, when people learn to "LIVE AND LET LIVE" forum shall achieve the peace you are looking for. And technically speaking even your thread doesn't follow this principle since you are asking people to do what you want them to do and not what they rather be doing.

I'm not asking them to do anything... Other than be civil and let ppl give their honest opinions. Neither i want ppl fighting in my thread. I don't want a number 8 on my post.
Forgive and forget comment... Not going to get into that... Long story. Some of those who wronged me... Apologised.i forgave to put it briefly

And no in mb every fun post we made...was reported and closed down... So yes sometimes you can come here and not have fun. The reason i mentioned the three grps here...was purely for ref...so no one feels singled out... To try and put everyones views together...

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The Witch

@carisma2

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Posted: 12 years ago

#35

Originally posted by: T1ddlyW1nks
I had to think twice before posting in this topic😆Carisman, you know why😳
Anyways, my honest opinion:
I dont dislike DD. She is just another contestant like Lauren and the others.
But one thing I have noticed as soon as I entered this forum in the starting of June was, some DDians calling non DD fans as dogs, losers, jobless...i was appalled to see such words towards other members.
I didnt know DD ...havent heard of her name before JDJ6...coz I dont follow Indian TV at all. I just watch some reality shows online. So I dont know the whole history about her Madhubala show or the MB forum or about the other actors and their fans.
All I know is, I was bashed badly just for stating that I didnt know abt her in a post. I was called a hater, cheapster and so on just becoz i said that her dance was not upto the mark. I havent called
Till date am called names...other members have been abused horribly...more than me.
So for me, it is very tough to come and post that I actually liked DDs dance becoz of such crazy, annoying fans that she hasHence, i dont post anything positive about her. Thats just me. The fans are very irritating to say the least.
Now coming to the dancing, DD is not a good dancer IMO. She is lucky to have Salman as her choreographer who is smartly using her in the acts. I dont think that they deserve the 30s that they get week after week. Infact no one does.
And about her excessive promotion as Madhubala, that is just pissing me off. Why the favoritism? The bias? So what if she is from the Colors channel? Why even promote that show on JdJ?
Let her be Drashti Dhami...but NO. Colors is a crappy channel.

lol bless ya... I guess i was in a mood that day
Thanks for sharing ur view. We have all had.similar experiences... And when i fight bak with those ppl... Guess what only i.myself got warned. Can u imagine. But sometimes i see dd... And like to judge her on her rather than how her fans made me feel abt her. But i know we all get to that level where our patience breaks and i feel the same like I've list my patience with if too... No hard feelings from the other day.

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WreckLass

@WreckLass

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Posted: 12 years ago

#36

Originally posted by: carisma2
lol bless ya... I guess i was in a mood that day
Thanks for sharing ur view. We have all had.similar experiences... And when i fight bak with those ppl... Guess what only i.myself got warned. Can u imagine. But sometimes i see dd... And like to judge her on her rather than how her fans made me feel abt her. But i know we all get to that level where our patience breaks and i feel the same like I've list my patience with if too... No hard feelings from the other day.

What beats me is that some of the DD fans who are preaching about DD getting bashed and calling us haters, have done the exact same thing to other celebs. I have seen them in the BiggBoss forum making such horrible remarks on female celebs. But when it comes to DD, they all turn saintly and play victims 😆

Anyways, gotta go sleep now...see ya!😃

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Posted: 12 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: carisma2
lol bless ya... I guess i was in a mood that day
Thanks for sharing ur view. We have all had.similar experiences... And when i fight bak with those ppl... Guess what only i.myself got warned. Can u imagine. But sometimes i see dd... And like to judge her on her rather than how her fans made me feel abt her. But i know we all get to that level where our patience breaks and i feel the same like I've list my patience with if too... No hard feelings from the other day.

And I have seen many here giving out their opinions from not liking her dance to loving her dance to finding her vulgar to having issues with her costumes to weak choreography to biased scoring etc etc. But as soon as the negatives are pointed out, which are btw honest opinions of the members, they gets pounced on for criticizing their princess. End of the day honest opinions don't even get appreciated when all they get in reply is "basher, hater, narrow minded, questioning their mentality". It's one vicious circle.

Also people complain why more topics/criticism for DD, isn't it obvious, cuz most find the bias on JDJ irritating from judges to channels to her over-hyped status of being a dancer and her fans obviously don't make it any easier. When people find something isn't right to their standards, they will voice out. Most other contestants are getting sidelined and aren't shown such partiality, thus one won't find many threads of criticism for them. So when color itself is biased and focuses on DD, there will be more of a backlash for her than others.

So I say, let people say what they want to say, how they want to say without being judged for who they are on a virtual platform. Period (LIVE AND LET LIVE and one will find people acting out reasonably)

Edited by -Chandramukhi- - 12 years ago

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Posted: 12 years ago

#38

@TM: Comments From a Member, Not a Friend As Such; Feel Free to Ignore if it Hurts 😊

"Quoted From OP: Moral of the story there...

A: Weeks down the line.. Have things improved? Can one still comment on DD honestly?

B: Are people being honest with their opinions on her?"

First time I read it, I found some extra text, which has been edited/refined. So in my second read, I found the easy 😆 much more reasonable.😊

Although you have tried to balance the DD fans a lot... But you have proven again and again that Q "A" above hasn't changed least bit, answer is a NO, it hasn't changed at all. While your refined text doesn't say anything to establish that the answer to Q "B" above is negative, so it's YES, means justified.

I do agree to the biased judgements, Channel's bias to DD and increasing vulgarity amongst the other contestants in the show.😕

I think there have been enough discussions on Vulgarity of DD, so I won't go in details of it here. You have mentioned your opinion and I do agree, none of the dresses are outright vulgar. But when you combine 1) Dress 2) Expression 3) Choreography 4) Execution of the steps ... Then you get the total act. If that act looks vulgar in totality, one has to conclude that the majority factors have been on the vulgar side. That's what has happened with DD in almost 4 of the acts so far... iMO

Regarding other contestants also being vulgar:

I just don't want to even discuss this point at length. Do they have any option but to be more aggressive? Vulgar acts of DD have earned her perfect 10s and appreciations from the judges, so that forces all the other competitors to do the same. That's natural in any competition.

But still I'm happy that, they had the taste to not to over do and none of the contestants have so far gone even near to the extreme vulgarity of physically licking the leg at length.. & Dance-less vulgar display of body etc already shown by DD and appreciated by judges.

If the show now goes all out vulgar, ill blame the channel and judges for inspiring vulgarity by praising and rewarding DD-Salman's vulgar acts.

Whatever theme you give to them, Salman seems to be working on only one theme, "Vulgarity"

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WreckLass

@WreckLass

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Posted: 12 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: -Chandramukhi-

And I have seen many here giving out their opinions from not liking her dance to loving her dance to finding her vulgar to having issues with her costumes to weak choreography to biased scoring etc etc. But as soon as the negatives are pointed out, which are btw honest opinions of the members, they gets pounced on for criticizing their princess. End of the day honest opinions don't even get appreciated when all they get in reply is "basher, hater, narrow minded, questioning their mentality". It's one vicious circle.

Also people complain why more topics/criticism for DD, isn't it obvious, cuz most find the bias on JDJ irritating from judges to channels to her over-hyped status of being a dancer and her fans obviously don't make it any easier. When people find something isn't right to their standards, they will voice out. Most other contestants are getting sidelined and aren't shown such partiality, thus one won't find many threads of criticism for them. So when color itself is biased and focuses on DD, there will be more of a backlash for her than others.

So I say, let people say what they want to say, how they want to say without being judged for who they are on a virtual platform. Period (LIVE AND LET LIVE and one will find people acting out reasonably)

I was almost going to bed...but i have to post this😆

I agree with Chandu here.

Yes, we've made positive posts too about her too. That was in the beginning. About the leg licking part, all i said was that part was unnecessary which could have been avoided...but the rest of the act was fine and well done.

But the moment we made a criticizing post, we had the fans jumping on us and calling us haters and to stop watching TV.

And about the "vulgar" issue, many people who found it vulgar have mentioned many many times that its not just her dress that is vulgar but the lifts, her actions, her expressions that made a part of the act look vulgar. But the fans catch hold of "they called her vulgar" (wonder where they got tthat from)...and start preaching about the culture in western countries, sana's dress, laurens dress...and call the members as "Aunties"

Seriously, selective reading much?

They say we target only DD, it is actually the other way around. They, the fans, target only the so called "haters"😆...they fail to see or read our whole post before jumping into conclusions of their own.

We arent allowed to have an opinion abt DD...nothing negative...if we do, we will be attacked.

DD fans need to stop playing the victim card every single time...its getting really boring🥱