Can one be honest... ? - Page 2

Originally posted by: -SexyAngel-

Okay u pretty much said everything abwt over protectiveness! I dont dislike that... i hate that! But wat i hate more is members getting bashed for it! Like for me it cant get any worse than that and we shud know that very well cari 😆 Did we ever bash her on MB forum.. in fact u? The first time we only said she overdoes it in her acting.. we got bashed for it! Period! Well the grp u r talking abwt also got bashed for calling her dance OTT... 😆 The comment abwt finding Double D thing vulgar if u find her dance vulgar? Then it can go vice versa too u see! If u find that word vulgar then u have to find her dance vulgar! See some wont find it vulgar,... but for me personally i find her dress wayyy vulgar like thats not the ONLY thing... even her expressions.. that leg licking etc... u cant watch that with family as its a 'family show' 😆 AND AND AND u shud knw abwt this Cari since u probably heard it more than 1000x if u dont like DD its cos u r jealous of her! Its like u r inviting ppl to bash her! And then the same ppl say 'its not DD that says it then why bash her?'... well see the problem i have with that is those same set of ppl bash other celebs? Where is the moral policy there? 😲 Wat happens wen those celebs fan try to peace it out? Wud it make u like that celeb? 😕 NO RIGHT? its cos everyone has their personal opinion! If DD is being tagged as Double D then those ppl have been tagged as 'bashers' which is awful too! 🥱 So they dont like DD so they unfortunately became the bashers 🥱 I personally respect and love the grp u r talking abwt 👏 I havent seen anyone having guts and coming out to express their opinions like this! I respect aji! 👏 I m glad they made this into a non-worshiping ground 👏 Ppl cudnt handle criticism well now they have to handle bashing.. if they cud then it wudnt b this bad 🥱

LONG ESSAY I KNW BUT ONLY FOR U CARI 😆 Lord i wrote an essay i knw... might not have time to reply but do read cari 😳

Originally posted by: -SexyAngel-

I wrote it.. its long and i swear i wrote it for u so u better read! 😡😆

Originally posted by: carisma2

Hey Sexy! All this for me.. lol

Ur right.. I have seen it all - and that's when I thought - things cannot change and packed the show in.. and the forum.

Some ppl come in and say - oh u bashed her! Duh - everyone knows I criticised her! but they led me to bashing her themselves.

BUT even I still like to give DD a chance - putting aside her fandom. For me she is a better dancer than actor.. and I'll give a fair opinion.

Originally posted by: -SexyAngel-

Yeh i remember u getting bashed 🤣 My point exactly! I rest my case! 😆 U find her dancing better than her acting but i think she is in the same league with her acting since i dont like her expressions in the dancing either 😆 Sometimes expressions can ruin the whole dance too 😕

Originally posted by: Wicked-Anoshka

Hi dear!

Wanted to add my opinion too😳

I was in the MB forum because of DD. when I came to know about vivian was going to be the other lead, I started googling,you tubing him..he didnt impress me much and then I remember I finished his previous show in two weeks! Still didn't think he could reallyyy act..

From the first day of the MB forum, I have been there. Although I am not an active member of that forum these days, I know exactly what went wrong. You are right, we simply adore our girl. To tell you the truth, I adore the real Drasthi Dhami so much that I've started to use her pics as my signature along with the few other women I look up to, she is very powerful with so many fans 'really' loving her for. Who she is...I hope and pray she will do things for the environment and rural women and children when she's got a bit of time in her hand. She can do wonders- just like Oprah Winfrey. She is mature, smart, no-nonsense , courageous and kind (I don't know her personally, but that's what I think watching her interviews). For us DDians she can act and dance.

Now going to the fan wars in MB land-

I came across few really cool and masti Khor people and their in that forum. Sometimes their posts irked me, sometimes made me laugh like anything.from day one I think most of the DDian knew that DD never impressed them much- not as an actress, dancer, expression- nothing!

That was okay by me and the DDians I knew, it took time for us to like VD as an actor too. Now the best part- few VDians and few DDians started the fan wars and few of the V

VDians emerged from certain other forum to divide and rule.😆

I waited for the day when other parties would just appreciate DD as an actress too, but that ay never came. I started getting irritated with the same repetitive posts day in day out too. We don't like DD,don't like her OTT expression, arey babba, we heard you guys already, get over it and wait until the show is over(like we are)😳but still the same thing going on and on and. (I'm just using this as an example, not pointing you) I respect you for at least stop watching the show when you say you don't like the lead..I know how suffocating it must be for you to watch your favourite actors show..so you did the right thing.😊

I have been watching shows from different countries too, I'm saying it by my heart that, DD is an extremely talented actress for me but that doesn't mean you along the others start liking her like I do. It's childish to expect that. But at least I expect people not to repeat the same thing over and over again...by now all of us know who like her and who don't.

I'm finding Jhalak really entertaining..maybe because this is my first indian reality show. I'm enjoying every bit of it. I am here to support Drasthi Dhami all the way-bad or good. But I will also praise the other contestants who do good. But the fact remains that I am here to cheer and support Drasthi. There are people like me. For us, she is everything a pn actress should have. I can't dance well, in fact I have two left feet, I don't know the technical part of the dance..when I open my musical jewellery box and see the couple in it going round-a-round, I go awww...so I go awww whenever Drasthi Dhami dances.

So the fact remains, you don't like her-there are people like you too.

I like her- there are people like me too.

You are right, even though people like you and people like me are in a forum together, we should behave like civilised people because we know how to be civil...(nahi toh sab pagal khana mei hote)😆

I hope my reply is making sense to you Cari! At least I tried!! 🤗

Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

Res be ready for my BBB 😈

Cari you are talking about a certain group shouting vulgar vulgar... it is very clear now that you don't like that group... and seriously I don't care as I am not from that group 🤣 But before pointing fingers at them I think you should look at yourself... you can't accuse them for doing this and that when we all know that you do the same... 😕 I mean don't you bash Vahbiz left right center... and of course you also did the same few times to DD... so you have no right to say that they are wrong when you are yourself wrong 😕

No one here is saint... but many try to act innocent for sure 😆

The diff between me and then is that I don't go into random forums and start on fandoms! Yes some of them were entertaining - and when I commented in their posts that were within limits - I had ppl telling me not to comment or support.

Just like u hate WM - He gets on ur last nerve Vahb as Panchi gets on mine.. but I was watching her show and same with DD..DD - Fans personally bashed - after that only I have bashed DD.. NOT before that - and naturally just the way you disliked Rano - as she was getting on your nerves Vahb was getting on mine. And above I never stated that they were wrong - I said that maybe they didn't conduct it appropriately... and the rest.

Not all - but a few members I do dislike.. any one that gets personal with me - I will not do their aarti - just like you wouldn't do that to someone who got personal with you. Personally u know I have always been one to like peace on forums - so one can enjoy forum.. and I thought they were a great grp to have... but sometimes.. it gets too much. And when I was friends with one of them.. i rem ppl not liking that..

With this topic you at a time praised DD and BBBed her and I appreciate it 😊 We have old issues with the DDians... but it is certainly not for that I dislike DD... maybe you do but not me... DD for me was always a horrible actress with horrible OTT expressions... I thought and have seen her dancing pretty good... but unfortunately in JDJ we don't see her dancing... we only see her giving cheap expressions... so I am disappointed I thought at least for once I will like her... and this is my honest opinion... the day she will show some nice steps I will myself make a praising topic just the way I made in MB forum though I know I will get bashed left right center as always 😆

For me it's the same as you.. i dislike her as an actress and I am not a DVD pair fan - nothing more and nothing less. This is why I said that her lifts are good - but yet she is still far from being perfect. When u make a praising topic on her - send me the link - Coz I'll wanna also make some Pankhi jokes too 😆😆

You find that Sana and Lauren were equally vulgar it's your opinion... same way few think only DD looked vulgar it's their POV... I personally think Lauren and Sana looked vulgar too but not as much as DD... and it's my POV... so no one in this forum has the right to get angry at each other and fight for that... If today articles are talking about DD and people making topics on her, it's obviously not our fault, the so called DD hater and the one who are jealous of her 🤪 If you found Sana and Lauren vvulgar go ahead make topics on them but you can't stop people making topic on DD's vulgarity or accuse some certain members of a group...

Sana - I disliked the outfit she wore in Helen's number.. where one girl wore cyclers the other wore a chaddi - so who was revealing more? Laurens outfit in her sensuous number I liked.. I just hated that scissors position were puneet opened her legs..

I agree - that disliking something of DD's doesn't make one jealous of her - infact it is for her betterment.

Whether it's DD or any other contestant - when I have wrote on them - I have given positive and negative comments on.. It doesn't make me their fan. Coz u know - I am only watching this crap for one man only - the rest be it DD or anyone doesn't matter to me. What I would like to see... is if one comments on one gals outfit being inappropriate then have the same standards for the others too. If one makes a comment that one of the lads was wearing a tight shirt whereas the others were too - then be fair with all. that applies to all - not any one particular grp.

Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

So what if they go and start on fandoms ? Who are we to talk about them ? Anyways I understand they hurt you by bashing VD and AA so that's why you dislike them and it's ok.. In fact I don't care... but we talked long time yesterday and I found your reason for supporting DD a little weird... that's why I am making fun of you dil par maat lena 😆 I wouldn't mind if you were supporting DD for some other reason than what you said to me yesterday 😕

I am a basher and I can say it openly... and I never stop anyone from bashing too... it's so much fun that way... but if today I am talking about Vahbiz bashing it's only because you pointed fingers on some members... I am a basher you are a basher so I can't accuse ou for doing that and this, right ? 😊 That's my point... remember I also fought few times with Suku fans for the same reason...

Cari you should read the comments from that other day topic... no one attacked you personally...

Cyclers synonym to chaddi now ? 😆 Do you really want me to post her so called invisible cyclers pics 🤣 Anyways this is not the topic... the thing is if you find Lauren and Sana vulgar then go ahead make topics... no one is gonna stop you 😆 So if few think only DD looked vulgar you can't force them to make believe that Sana and Lauren were equally vulgar 😕 This is my point 😕