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Posted: 12 years ago
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Since weeks - before the show started - there has been a big doo about DD - Her fans and DD in JDJ. Please read the full post.. 😃

History... Since Geet days which then continued into MB forum.
DD is loved by her fans... she's their princess. Just like all fans... all fans love their fav.
So what made them stand out more? The love of DDians for DD was as such that you could not crticise her for acting, expressions, clothes , make up, character onscreen. The minute you made the smallest crticism - your posts were reported and a bunch of ppl flew in to prove you wrong. Infact some also made personal attacks. And the lovely mods stood and watched.

It is not hidden that there has been huge amount of trouble in MB forum as a result - things got very nasty. Tit for tat games started. Where as VDians were cool enough to be able to have fun regarding VD and RK. DDians were equally protective.

Bec of the personal attacks - forum fights day to day things became crap. We all did many things to spite each other..
Some of us never made a secret of it that DD doesn't satisfy is as an actress and her expressions in scenes and body language is inappropriate most of the time for the character she is playing.
This was the truth which her fans considered bashing... just because you were adoring the male character 😳.
Although VD is my fav - I do not watch MB - Because of DD and her acting and her expressions. As a viewer who has watched a lot of cinema and TV - Both British and Indian - cannot see an ounce of talent in her 99% of the time. And when u watch a show - U are bound to go ino the forum and comment and break a few egg shells and the offensive crack will cause a thunder.. so best not to watch the show. If I can't stomach her acting - that's my issue.. I choose not to watch her, rather than watching her and daily making a post to criticise.

Things continued in the same pattern.. and along came a grp - that stated they wanted to straighten the Forum out and turn the fanclub into a forum. Some of them were genuine where as some of them came to chance pe dance.
No doubt to a certain limit they were funny... and entertaining. Esp when they called DD - Dexters sister.. BUT When a grp of lads esp are calling a woman Bra size double D... That's were it crosses the limits. For those shouting Vulgar vulgar today - did u not find these comments vulgar?
Maybe the originals of this grp in general meant good... but they did not conduct themselves in the correct way - as they went abt irking all different fan grps - but also concluded that DDians still needed that extra bit of attention still. Did they do this bec there was no other way of doing it? Or was it because certain ppl were using this grp and joining forces to take their on personal revenge... God only knows. (Bec I rem one member coming into criticise VD... as she always did with a passion).

Moral of the story there... Weeks down the line.. Have things improved? Can one still comment on DD honestly. Are people being honest with their opinions on her.

For me - I still don't appreciate her acting.. though I did like her briefly in Geet back in the days.
BUT as DD - I wanted to give her a fair chance - If someone works in two shows and works hard esp as a woman then I'm not the person to kick their efforts in the teeth. If she wins I'll be happy for her... BUT Bear in mind if she is working hard - doesn't mean that others are not and I appreciate everyone's efforts.

Maybe when ppl gave their true opinion on DD - in MB forum - if fans had not overreacted - things will not have got to this stage.

I hope that DDians will become less protective of DD, and that those who dislike her to the max - will also cut her some slack.

Coming to the DD and the articles and the show and channel.

This is my POV - I have not watched all the epi's.. MY POV could be wrong... And I don't mean to offend fans - nor encourage those that dislike her.

1. I disagree with KJO that she is almost if not perfect as a dancer. She makes a great effort - but still most of the time she has done a lot of lift work - and not all sorts of dancing yet. Even that is not 100 % clean.
Her lift work is good... and I'm awed by some of the lifts she does esp for someone who is not a prof dancer.

2. Her black dress. Many called it inappropriate. Yes it was short and I was amazed at her for wearing that - but as I watched the performance I could understand why it was tight fitted. At the point where Salman licked her leg - she was upside down - if she wore something loose - then it would have flipped backwards revealing alot more than one can bargain for.
Yes I know I kind of enjoyed that dance - I must be a behooda for that! 😳😛 BUT in all honesty - It was outrageous - and not something a family can sit and watch comfortable... just like some scenes in Indian soaps - you can't watch them in front of family.
BUT - It was her make up and the expressions that made it look vulgar. The make up artist puts too much make up on DD- and DD doesn't need it. They created a smokey eyes Chameli with the red mouth. They could have created the effect.. and made the make up less around the eyes to create a good balance.

3. When you have an Indian outfit as Indian - no matter how short it is ppl may not see it as vulgar - and the same for a western outfit. BUT the minute you make a mix and match - it takes away the essence of the dress and presents it something inappropriate. Yes her outfit did look Vulgar simple because of the mix match in style. Yet - I liked the fact that she wore cyclers underneath, in comparison to Sana's outfit.
There were parts of the seq - that was very nice like that statue twirl. I loved it.. BUT then there were some lifts that went a bit OTT... Esp the finishing one. I didn't like the scissors position in this dance as much as I didn't like the one in Laurens dance.

4. Her first dance - I loved it the one in the white/blue gown. She looked good and the dance was perfect for me.

5. Egyptian dance. DD looked nervous, There was no dancing. Egyptian act and concept was good. When the poll came down she became shakey too - it wasn't flawless,,. and the make up was too much,. The outfit - I thought was awrite - it was in theme.

These are her performances that I have seen.
BUT Still looking at these - I will say that Judges are over generous with her with the marks, I feel Remo is biased.. Madhuri - she's too busy mardaa - lying, and Karan Johar - surprises me - is he the same director ppl say looks for perfection till he fainted in Bole chudriyan making?
No other person is being promoted for their characters... Good for Karanvir - Warna bechaare ko Viraj ke naam ka torture mileyga 😆.

So it is obvious that colors are being biased - esp since DD is the only one dancing with the actors etc. Everyone is there to win.. but are they being fair to the other contestants? At first I thought maybe ppl are saying this for the sake of it - but it's true Channel is promoting the show MB - And DD bec of it. However.. they are falling flat on their face. You cannot expect to promote DD as MB - PPL will see her then in a negative light that their serial bahu is participating in dances which they find inappropriate. You can't then turn around and say - but wait that is DD not MB.
Either she has come as DD or MB... One or the other.. Simple. For me she is DD...

Just going back.. In my opinion why there is much hype on why DD's performances are tagged with the V word - are bec not just for her clothes or the act. BUT It's her expressions - as an actress in a show I feel that she doesn't give the right expressions - I feel that is her problem here too... the performance is not all abt dance - but being in the character.. and giving the right attitude. With DD her expressions are a bit more than needed and it takes the act on a different level. Just like Mukti - trying to be Sri devi - was just not doing it right and gave wierd expressions instead. Salmaan - has to work on doing something different... bec the way he is going if he was a proff in a college - I wouldn't want to send my daughter there - if I had one... INFACT - I woudn't even send my badtameez forum daughters there! 😛😳

Now everyone in the show is trying to be sensual... Is that all that's left of dancing? Coz that would be such a shame.

Anywayz - this is what I think. U can share ur views too.
Don't fight.. life is too short like someone said the other day.. let; not waste it over petty things.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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DD I like her from dmg days...
In real life she is full on masti, bubbly and so on
Best part about her never mixes her professional and personal life...
Coming to jdj..and her dresses ph decides wht to wear...
I m ok till she is comfortable..
Some fans thinks if she is playing Madhubala she will be like that only wearing suits and saris but she is drashti...
Calling her vulgar or her dance or her dress...I can't say anything..because who wants to bash will bash...
But calling her double d and taking about her personal life no one have right...
They don't need anyvreason for bashing..
Colors promoting her it's colors choice...
They are doing business at the end..


About the dance steps I have full faith on Salman that he will be back with Awsome ideas...
He is taking slowly with drashti being untrained dancer

if Remo is biased with drashti
According to me he is also biased with Lauren(sorry if I hurt anyone)
It's a fact...
Edited by drashtimeetu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Res be ready for my BBB 😈

Cari you are talking about a certain group shouting vulgar vulgar... it is very clear now that you don't like that group... and seriously I don't care as I am not from that group 🤣 But before pointing fingers at them I think you should look at yourself... you can't accuse them for doing this and that when we all know that you do the same... 😕 I mean don't you bash Vahbiz left right center... and of course you also did the same few times to DD... so you have no right to say that they are wrong when you are yourself wrong 😕
No one here is saint... but many try to act innocent for sure 😆

With this topic you at a time praised DD and BBBed her and I appreciate it 😊 We have old issues with the DDians... but it is certainly not for that I dislike DD... maybe you do but not me... DD for me was always a horrible actress with horrible OTT expressions... I thought and have seen her dancing pretty good... but unfortunately in JDJ we don't see her dancing... we only see her giving cheap expressions... so I am disappointed I thought at least for once I will like her... and this is my honest opinion... the day she will show some nice steps I will myself make a praising topic just the way I made in MB forum though I know I will get bashed left right center as always 😆

You find that Sana and Lauren were equally vulgar it's your opinion... same way few think only DD looked vulgar it's their POV... I personally think Lauren and Sana looked vulgar too but not as much as DD... and it's my POV... so no one in this forum has the right to get angry at each other and fight for that... If today articles are talking about DD and people making topics on her, it's obviously not our fault, the so called DD hater and the one who are jealous of her 🤪 If you found Sana and Lauren vvulgar go ahead make topics on them but you can't stop people making topic on DD's vulgarity or accuse some certain members of a group...
Edited by Coeur2PsychoFMS - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: drashtimeetu

DD I like her from dmg days...
In real life she is full of mastitis, bubbly and so on
Best part about her never mixes her professional and personal life...
Coming to jdj..and her dresses ph decides wht to wear...
I m ok till she is comfortable..
Some fans thinks if she is playing Madhubala she will be like that only wearing suits and saris but she is drashti...
Calling her vulgar or her dance or her dress...I can't say anything..because who wants to bash will bash...
But calling her double d and taking about her personal life no one have right...
They don't need anyvreason for bashing..
Colors promoting her it's colors choice...
They are doing business at the end..


About the dance steps I have full faith on Salman that he will be back with Awsome ideas...
He is taking slowly with drashti being untrained dancer

Remo is biased with drashti
According to me he is also biased with Lauren(sorry if I hurt anyone)
It's a fact...


👏 I admire your honesty. Remo is being baised with his guys...

Thanks for your comment
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Coeur2PsychoFMS

Res be ready for my BBB 😈

I'm always ready..
😉
i'll just get you back in my FF! 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Okay u pretty much said everything abwt over protectiveness! I dont dislike that... i hate that! But wat i hate more is members getting bashed for it! Like for me it cant get any worse than that and we shud know that very well cari 😆 Did we ever bash her on MB forum.. in fact u? The first time we only said she overdoes it in her acting.. we got bashed for it! Period! Well the grp u r talking abwt also got bashed for calling her dance OTT... 😆 The comment abwt finding Double D thing vulgar if u find her dance vulgar? Then it can go vice versa too u see! If u find that word vulgar then u have to find her dance vulgar! See some wont find it vulgar,... but for me personally i find her dress wayyy vulgar like thats not the ONLY thing... even her expressions.. that leg licking etc... u cant watch that with family as its a 'family show' 😆 AND AND AND u shud knw abwt this Cari since u probably heard it more than 1000x if u dont like DD its cos u r jealous of her! Its like u r inviting ppl to bash her! And then the same ppl say 'its not DD that says it then why bash her?'... well see the problem i have with that is those same set of ppl bash other celebs? Where is the moral policy there? 😲 Wat happens wen those celebs fan try to peace it out? Wud it make u like that celeb? 😕 NO RIGHT? its cos everyone has their personal opinion! If DD is being tagged as Double D then those ppl have been tagged as 'bashers' which is awful too! 🥱 So they dont like DD so they unfortunately became the bashers 🥱 I personally respect and love the grp u r talking abwt 👏 I havent seen anyone having guts and coming out to express their opinions like this! I respect aji! 👏 I m glad they made this into a non-worshiping ground 👏 Ppl cudnt handle criticism well now they have to handle bashing.. if they cud then it wudnt b this bad 🥱

LONG ESSAY I KNW BUT ONLY FOR U CARI 😆 Lord i wrote an essay i knw... might not have time to reply but do read cari 😳
Edited by -SexyAngel- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: -SexyAngel-

Okay honest opinion from my side... get ready for my BBB too 🤣

TUM LOGON KI CHUTKI MUJE KYAA KATEY GI? 😡😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Preaching is easy following what u preach is difficult .
Views can't be changed .
But few points make sense critizing is ok but without crossing ur limits .
But u seem like disliking dd acting there was no need to bring that topic here this is not mb forum .
No one is perfect actors in tv industry they all are new comers they are in learning process -- no one is perfect in this word .
Dd is decent actor for me atleast far better than others .
About dd expression I don't feel she over do it its my view .
---- we can't make everyone love dd we don't intend to force them to love dd .
Her bubbliness her honesty her down to earth nature made us love her felt like she is one among us .
About this forum we are used to bashing dd " bashing dd dikhla tha ja" now we try to ignore bashing thread or we try to make them understand but today its clear we can't change ppl thinking bad about dd so we are going to stop commenting on bashers thread .
I have seen u critizing dd bashing her in mb forum so u follow what u preach .
Don't defend vd fans including u ur no less than the bashers in this forum only here in this forum they attack directly with vulgar comments but u ppl back stabbers u ppl are sarcastic .
Atleast these bashers have guts to say straight but u ppl do it from back .
Ur post funny what all u say u need to follow before preaching .
Edited by chinkti10 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: chinkti10

Preaching is easy following what u preach is difficult .
Views can't be changed .
But few points make sense critizing is ok but without crossing ur limits .
But u seem like disliking dd acting there was no need to bring that topic here this is not mb forum .
No one is perfect actors in tv industry they all are new comers they are in learning process -- no one is perfect in this word .
Dd is decent actor for me atleast far better than others .
About dd expression I don't feel she over do it its my view .
---- we can't make everyone love dd we don't intend to force them to love dd .
Her bubbliness her honesty her down to earth nature made us love her felt like she is one among us .
About this forum we are used to bashing dd " bashing dd dikhla tha ja" now we try to ignore bashing thread or we try to make them understand but today its clear we can't change ppl thinking bad about dd so we are going to stop commenting on bashers thread .
I have seen u critizing dd bashing her in mb forum so u follow what u preach .


The reason I mention her acting is bec I'm going thru the history. And to avoid.. pps saying oh you dislike her and bashed her - like u just did. So I am telling u .. I dislike her acting. BUT in JDJ - I will be fair with her. Which I have been. So yes I am practicing what I preach. Have u seen me bashing her here? And my criticising MB on the forum was mnths ago... thats ancient history. So U can take back ur comment on preaching.. 😃
Edited by carisma2 - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: carisma2

TUM LOGON KI CHUTKI MUJE KYAA KATEY GI? 😡😆



I wrote it.. its long and i swear i wrote it for u so u better read! 😡😆

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