Originally posted by: krangara
Buffie - I do not condone committed or married spouses having feelings for others...if he has feelings for MOna, even if its just a crush, come out and say it, like I mentioned before...don't be two-faced!
yeah, that's exactly what all of us have been saying from like time immemorial😆😆😆...but you see, life is not all that easy...apu is no brad pitt who can call of his marriage as and when he likes and start afresh with his new found love with no consequence..the aftermath of that plunge would prove detrimental for apu....the repercussions would he malevolent.....and actualy after watching sanda offscreen, i can surely say SANDA FOREVER😃....actually they make a cute pair(errmmmm...actually, my comments on sanda are in a way ambivalent...they are not that bad either......but one a-per-u at the jkk promo leaves me speechless😕😕...)
Mona is single, uncommitted, and hence its ok if she harbors feelings for someone....!
i dont acquisce......i have no argument to offer here but its just a personal belief as harboring feelings and homewrecking are (in my opinion) synonymous.....it leads people nowhere(i know that its not in our hands but one can curb these feelings from burgeoning
Any marriage thats bonded just by 'duty' is a sham.....by closeting his feelings for MOna, if any, he is cheating Shilpa, cheating Mona and cheating himself....and as long as he doesn't deny or accept those feelings, I will not blame Shilpa for being insecure....... 😊
actually, being insecure is not right....i mean, it just leads to eccentric behaviour, and ss comes in for flak for always clinging...its better to confront and get the true picture rather than living in the illusion that if she clings, she can safeguard her marriage..whatever, after seeing jkk etc, sanda are very much in love and their marriage will never be on the rocks
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Aww hon, of course, Apurva and Mona laugh easily and are uninhibited with each other...but so, for eg, are Shah Rukh and Kajol...have you ever seen SRK or Kajol laugh/touch without any inhibition with their respective spouses...personally, I have never seen Kajol have much fun with Ajay in public...ditto with SRK with Gauri....one glance at their KWK episode will reveal their extreme comfort level.....but, nonetheless, they are just good friends whose on-screen chemistry beats the one between Apu and Mona too!
you do have a point...i mean, at times i do feel that we are looking too much into nothing but at other times, i do believe that a certain graph of attration is palpable......so i'm mystified now😕😕...but at the end of the day, who cares.....its not our lives, and when i have so many more interesting and amazing stuff to do, why must i ponder over a speculation......it indeed makes no sense😆😆😆