MELONCHOLIC ADIEU....MY FINAL UPDATE - Page 15

Originally posted by: blyton

But di, Mona and gaurav ARE truly best freinds in a platonic sense. There is not even the shadow of romantic feeling between them. I guess it differs from case to case.

Yesssssssss, you know why they are good friends, because Mona does not look at him with the same eyes, she looks at AA. May be Gaurav also has some PARI in his life. Once you have feeling for one man, you are totally justifying your other relationships i.e friends, brother in laws, co-workers and many more.

Originally posted by: Buffie

sorry neelam di....... 😆 ..but it was odd...archana seemed to very sure that THEY TELEVISION STARS DO GET HIT UPON and vice versa....

Its ok Buffie, I was just joking. Doesn't matter Auntie, Didi, Behnji or maaji😆😆😆

Originally posted by: hansini_78

buffie,again found some points to disagree with u... 😛 guess i have lot of free time today 😆
ok firstly,if shilpa fitted his bills of a perfect wife b4 marriage,things havent changed after that,so why wud he want to leave her now(i never said that he wants to divorce her or leave her😆😆...others are saying that..hansu, i didnt say that😆😆...lolz, too confusing na_).....ss looks havent changed and neither she has become ambitious after marriage....and husbands dont love their wives coz their wives are better than other girls........they love them coz they care for them and love them........and definitely ss does that......there maybe thousands of girls better than ss but so what.......the secret of a happy marriage is to love and care ur spouse and dont compare her with anyone else but accapt her the way she is.... (again, i never said that apu doesnt love ss...only that he flirts with mona which is intriguing....)

and considering husband's disliking their wife bragging about them..........think for a moment that u are having a bf or a husband who goes a bit overbard in praising u........how wud u feel?......u may feel a bit embarrased but at the same time wont u feel a little flattered(no..there was a mumbai mirror article ..a research about how not to lose your GF/BF..and one of the points was dont brag or show off your gf/bf....well, i have never been in a relationship earlier so i cannot say anythign about it...but i feel that, being an introvert and a girl who has always preferred to keep a low profile, i would hate it if my would be/husband/BF flaunts me around and braggs....) .........if u are very discomfortable with it u may tell him to stop that and i am sure he would listen........anyway u wont dislike him for this behaviour.........wud u?wont u consider urself lucky that a very handsome man has eyes only for u and thinks u r best foe him (i cannot draw the analogy here......i would perhaps hate a man who uses me only to boast around saying that he has acquired me as though i'm a commodity or a trophy which only he possess and no one else has and thus boast and brag about his kismet of having acquired me...i mean, that's selfish😡) .......i mean, these are just my views...
other people may not like ur husbands behaviour but uts the husbands wife relationship i am talking about,not how it wud look in other people'eye and as a wife u may not have many complaints with this behaviour of him

and do u think it is possible that it is possible for any person to make friends with everyone....certainly not.......so ss has many freds but not everyone can be her friend....

and i certainly didnt say that mona is not dignified or is wrong in hugging apu......i said that she shud not have snubbed ss.......she might not like ss but when she is so friendly with apu she shud have shown some respect for his wife( i dont agree....manyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy here say the same thing....that because we love apu, we must accept ss..i dont acquiesce....and shilpa is better known for snubbing people..mona comes across as a warm girl whereas ss is full of herself..and who really knows the authenticity of that article).......even if its fake just like ss did at award function.......snubbing is simply looks childish and immature
and dont talk about kf....that show does not make any sense and ektaa makes her actors speak rubbish in front of camera......which is supposed to be funny
ok enough,me tired now of all this talk.....i am not a ss fan and i dont watch any of her serials but thought to defend her when thought she was wrongly bashed
no offence to anyone
and pls dont hate me for saying all this (lol, i pm'ed you earlier beseeching you not to have any cold vibes...i mean, at the end of the day, these stars dont care about anything..they laugh their way t the back......i guess these are just opinions and its wonderful to know how different people think about the same situation.....i mean, we all are learning and its wonderful to see how people think about various situations....that's what is great about india forums..)

Originally posted by: NKSUDHIR

Yesssssssss, you know why they are good friends, because Mona does not look at him with the same eyes, she looks at AA. May be Gaurav also has some PARI in his life. Once you have feeling for one man, you are totally justifying your other relationships i.e friends, brother in laws, co-workers and many more.

yesssssssssssssssssss...fully agree.......gaurav and moan are true friends without even an modicum of amorousness i their bond.......its just amazing platonic friendship, somethign that's so rare.....we dont see mona flirting when she's with gaurav, neither does gaurav blush or flirt😃....

But Buffie n NKSudhir, I still stick to the point I made earlier 😳 😃

Its Ok Hansini, this is an open forum. You can defend SS with you views. We are not against SS. Its just that she feels the most luckiest woman on this earth who has acquired AA like no one elese in this world has a nice hubbies. Its ok to feel proud and thankful to God for what ever you get but why sho off in front of the MEDIA. It clearly shows that she is trying to show it to SOMEONE in PARTICULAR that she is the real wife of Arman Suri. How come Billo, Puru, RK, Nandu, Mona or other cast's family didn't come to introduce themselves on a FAREWELL EPISODE? If she was introducing herself as JJKN character, it was OKKKKKKKK, but specially mentioning," SHILPA AGNIHOTRI/WIFEOF AAP SAB KE ARMAN.' i MEAN, COME ON SS, grow up and act professionally.

Originally posted by: NKSUDHIR

Its Ok Hansini, this is an open forum. You can defend SS with you views. We are not against SS. Its just that she feels the most luckiest woman on this earth who has acquired AA like no one elese in this world has a nice hubbies. Its ok to feel proud and thankful to God for what ever you get but why sho off in front of the MEDIA. It clearly shows that she is trying to show it to SOMEONE in PARTICULAR that she is the real wife of Arman Suri. How come Billo, Puru, RK, Nandu, Mona or other cast's family didn't come to introduce themselves on a FAREWELL EPISODE? If she was introducing herself as JJKN character, it was OKKKKKKKK, but specially mentioning," SHILPA AGNIHOTRI/WIFEOF AAP SAB KE ARMAN.' i MEAN, COME ON SS, grow up and act professionally.

you stole the words right out of my mouth di..i was struggling to put this across as i'm so sleepy but cant sleep......yess, that's presisely what's irksome.....its really onerous, the way ss brags....its something like " hey look, i have got the best husband in the world and no one else has a nice husband...i'm the most lucky as my hubby's the most good looking and the most charming and no one else has all this".....

Originally posted by: NKSUDHIR

Ots Ok Hansini, this is an open forum. You can defend SS with you views. We are not against SS. Its just that she feels the most luckiest woman on this earth who has acquired AA like no one elese in this world has a nice hubbies. Its ok to feel proud and thankful to God for what ever you get but why sho off in front of the MEDIA. It clearly shows that she is trying to show it to SOMEONE in PARTICULAR that she is the real wife of Arman Suri. How come Billo, Puru, RK, Nandu, Mona or other cast's family didn't come to introduce themselves on a FAREWELL EPISODE? If she was introducing herself as JJKN character, it was OKKKKKKKK, but specially mentioning," SHILPA AGNIHOTRI/WIFEOF AAP SAB KE ARMAN.' i MEAN, COME ON SS, grow up and act professionally.

neelam diiii---*applause*!!!you said it!!!!!👏

Originally posted by: Buffie

you stole the words right out of my mouth di..i was struggling to put this across as i'm so sleepy but cant sleep......yess, that's presisely what's irksome.....its really onerous, the way ss brags....its something like " hey look, i have got the best husband in the world and no one else has a nice husband...i'm the most lucky as my hubby's the most good looking and the most charming and no one else has all this".....

Good night, Buffie, sometimes I wonder if you still live in India or you have moved to North America. Even if you have not moved physically, your sleep in already adjusted to Western time.

😆 Neeeluuu..TOUCHEEEE!!! (Not about Buffie..lol..but about growing up & acting professionaly..) HALLELUJAH FOR SANE WOMEN LIKE YOU!!! 👏

P.S.--> I am leaving for medical school now..commentary is up..will respond to your PM AS SOOOON as I'm settled in there..but thank you for your words..LOVE YOU TOO! 😳 🤗

L❤️WE,

Sid

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