Reason for Neil -Ragini divorce.... - Page 3

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

Another child from NeiRa? Well, Nishi is 19, Ranbir is 18, Aarav and Agam are 17, Suhani is going to Brown fro medicine...what will be her age? She must be older than Nishi or at least her age to be going to Medical school. How is it possible to have so many kids in such a short married life? It just does not add up. Nor it is practical.

Suhani must be Rupali's daughter. Or she could be Nishi's twin sister. Or she could be NeiRa's daughter before marriage (Oh-oh). Although Suhani looks younger than Ranbir and Aarav but judging by her graduation and entry to Brown, she must be the oldest. Ekta and her CVs got it all confused. She has no clue what story she is coming up with.😆

No clue who's daughter Suhani actually is. Can't wait for this mystery to get cleared though.

As for ages, we've obviously had many discrepancies. The show has mentioned that they have been separated for 15 and sometimes they say 16 years. I'm going to go with 16 as I think Aarav and Agam just celebrated their 17 birthday. Ranvir was apparently 5 years old when they got divorced as Pam said she's been raising him since he was 5. Nishi is 18 years old as Neil mentioned she was 18 years 3 months and so many days old (or 18 years 1 month). That would make sense as Ragini said she was 18 when she got married too and had Ranvir a year later. That would make Ragini 40 years old if I've calculated properly. I can't see her being a nurse that early on but who knows with these shows. She was a nurse at 17-18 years old? Was she a nurse before or after she married Neil? Her mom even mentioned something about being educated doesn't mean a marriage will work out as she said that Neil was a doctor and she a nurse and their relationship didn't work out either (this is when Ragini was against Nishi getting married as her bf was not educated enough for her).
Also, didn't Suhani just celebrate her 16 birthday in NY??? I would imagine that would make her on the young side to start college (not impossible though).


So would these ages be about right?:

Ragini: 40

Ranvir: 21

Nishi: 18


Agam/Aarav: 17

Suhani: 16?

Originally posted by: sun29

things are not as simple as they look am pretty sure..there is a reason why a person like PAM is in their life and why she panics at the idea of ragini and neil..she has a major hand in whatever happened 15 years back...

ragini does not look like a doubting wife...she rather looks like a woman who trusted blindly and was terribly betrayed ...hence this intense hurt which has not gone even after so many years...neil still affects her deeply and she is heartbroken...if she had no value or respect for neil ...ther eis no way a woman like ragini would be pining even after so many years...she is not averted to men...she is bitter and in pain ...and still the sight of him with another gets her green to the core and fuels her hurt ..also she lashes out when he breaks her with his words...all her actions off late are the reactions to his words...everything including aman...this is not a woman let down but a lover heartbroken...her love for nachiket still breathes even if under the rubble of a broken relationship and heart...

am pretty sure Pam and rupali have done something to deepen the misunderstanding between them leading her to go away and making nachiket believe she was this and that...besides Pam has been filling their ears for past 15 years how ragini is to be blamed ...

hear neil's lashing ..they more or less sound like Pam's words or whatever she constantly blabbers...

and if ragini was this bad...neil would not be holding out a torch for her still and pine for her so deeply...inspite of everything their love still is alive ..that itself says they both were misled

Even if I agree to what you say, it is very hard to overcome all that disrespect and mistrust and go back to him. I have no idea how she will forget and forgive all those feelings and hurt all that and go back to him. At the same time I don't know why Neil should go back to her, He thinks she is stubborn, egoistic, not a good mother or wife but she thinks he is a womaniser, a criminal and god knows what not. That is a very serious accusation and I don't think it is easy for a man to go back to a relationship if those are the premise of a divorce. Just my opinion.

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

Even if I agree to what you say, it is very hard to overcome all that disrespect and mistrust and go back to him. I have no idea how she will forget and forgive all those feelings and hurt all that and go back to him. At the same time I don't know why Neil should go back to her, He thinks she is stubborn, egoistic, not a good mother or wife but she thinks he is a womaniser, a criminal and god knows what not. That is a very serious accusation and I don't think it is easy for a man to go back to a relationship if those are the premise of a divorce. Just my opinion.

Whatever the reason and whoever is or was to blame, one thing I'm sure of is that Pam must have played a very big part in the divorce. And both raging and nachiket must be b thinking it was the others fault and blaming the other partner...

Originally posted by: Parm.

No clue who's daughter Suhani actually is. Can't wait for this mystery to get cleared though.

As for ages, we've obviously had many discrepancies. The show has mentioned that they have been separated for 15 and sometimes they say 16 years. I'm going to go with 16 as I think Aarav and Agam just celebrated their 17 birthday. Ranvir was apparently 5 years old when they got divorced as Pam said she's been raising him since he was 5. Nishi is 18 years old as Neil mentioned she was 18 years 3 months and so many days old (or 18 years 1 month). That would make sense as Ragini said she was 18 when she got married too and had Ranvir a year later. That would make Ragini 40 years old if I've calculated properly. I can't see her being a nurse that early on but who knows with these shows. She was a nurse at 17-18 years old? Was she a nurse before or after she married Neil? Her mom even mentioned something about being educated doesn't mean a marriage will work out as she said that Neil was a doctor and she a nurse and their relationship didn't work out either (this is when Ragini was against Nishi getting married as her bf was not educated enough for her).
Also, didn't Suhani just celebrate her 16 birthday in NY??? I would imagine that would make her on the young side to start college (not impossible though).


So would these ages be about right?:

Ragini: 40

Ranvir: 21

Nishi: 18


Agam/Aarav: 17

Suhani: 16?

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

If Ranbir is 21, Neil is 45, he was born when Neil was 24. I guess he had just graduated from Medical School and had a child. He was married at 23 while being a student. Then he got divorced at 30. In 7 years they had 5 kids. Kind of impossible.

And 16 is indeed too early to go to college.

What was the need to show so many children? One on each side would be good enough for the story.

@bold: I completely agree. There was absolutely no need for all those kids to move this story forward. I think it's just to add spice with all the different issues with all the different kids. But one on each side would have been more than enough to show how they divided the kids up during the divorce.

The ages make no sense at all, especially given the professions of the two. Must have some fast-tracking colleges/universities they all attended😆 . I think the producer/cvs just want to show Ragini and Neil still young enough to make it into a love story. If they were in their 50 or 60s maybe it wouldn't go over so well???? No clue what they were thinking!

last night's episdoe didn't Neil sayto Ragini because of her someone's life was at risk and they had to divorce!!!

Originally posted by: sun29

things are not as simple as they look am pretty sure..there is a reason why a person like PAM is in their life and why she panics at the idea of ragini and neil..she has a major hand in whatever happened 15 years back...

ragini does not look like a doubting wife...she rather looks like a woman who trusted blindly and was terribly betrayed ...hence this intense hurt which has not gone even after so many years...neil still affects her deeply and she is heartbroken...if she had no value or respect for neil ...ther eis no way a woman like ragini would be pining even after so many years...she is not averted to men...she is bitter and in pain ...and still the sight of him with another gets her green to the core and fuels her hurt ..also she lashes out when he breaks her with his words...all her actions off late are the reactions to his words...everything including aman...this is not a woman let down but a lover heartbroken...her love for nachiket still breathes even if under the rubble of a broken relationship and heart...

am pretty sure Pam and rupali have done something to deepen the misunderstanding between them leading her to go away and making nachiket believe she was this and that...besides Pam has been filling their ears for past 15 years how ragini is to be blamed ...

hear neil's lashing ..they more or less sound like Pam's words or whatever she constantly blabbers...

and if ragini was this bad...neil would not be holding out a torch for her still and pine for her so deeply...inspite of everything their love still is alive ..that itself says they both were misled

Originally posted by: zorrro

Agree totally with this 😊

Originally posted by: JuhiRockz

If Ranbir is 21, Neil is 45, he was born when Neil was 24. I guess he had just graduated from Medical School and had a child. He was married at 23 while being a student. Then he got divorced at 30. In 7 years they had 5 kids. Kind of impossible.

And 16 is indeed too early to go to college.

What was the need to show so many children? One on each side would be good enough for the story.