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Posted: 2 years ago

I am sorry, I know he has done unforgivable!!! But I really can’t think khushi to be a victim anymore…. The whole family only wanted something or other from him … if he complied then fine otherwise he was left alone……. This went on for almost a year, their fights about baby began somewhere 2014!!!! First time he denied something!!!! I remember she was insistent that he was wrong in not attending the puja, I always hated it in the show also when they forced him for these things. It’s one’s belief and everyone had rights over this. I can’t believe she kept running away leaving him to deal with his loneliness!!!!! Months of no talking, going and living with amma babuji!!! is she real …. I know I am going to be told off but as a wife you to have duties, the stupid woman spent all her energy in running away. If you are insecure tell him, don’t distance yourself by telling him you find his interest boring!!! He was a considerate husband, he would have worked towards it!!! No one can guess what you are feeling if you don’t tell them. I am really sorry, though she didn’t deserve the ultimate betrayal…. I find it hard to be empathetic to this khushi . It’s difficult for a husband too that his wife is unhappy and he has to only guess , he tried going beyond his beliefs to see a genuine smile on her face. Why not assure him that children or not they have each other!!!

I believe after Leher’s birth, with Payal suffering postpartum depression Aakash too was not available!!! Lavanya came to his life at this point, he found it easy with her not expecting anything from him just friendship and that lead to the ultimate fall of grace for him!!! He collected himself back but it was already too late!!! He had done what is an ultimate betrayal to his wife.This doesn’t let him off the hook…. He should have ended his marriage or talked to khushi first!!!

I see no companionship in both of them, they never discussed anything between them. They both let the other guess how they are feeling, that’s not a true relationship!!!

Thank you for the update, don’t forget to start thinking about the redemption fanfic. That pen is awesome!!!

I was dreading this update but I feel light after days.

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Posted: 2 years ago

What an heart wrenching moments for Khushi!

So even Arnav's family knows he doesn't want kids but it's still not clear why he doesn't want kids; I guess we will find out in next few chapters...

I am guessing Lavanya / Manali sent Khushi pics; only La can benefit from Khushi seeing the pics.. Hopefully the details of the affair will follow soon in the next chapter!

Wonderful chapter as usual Arpita, taking care of his family and him costed Khushi when Arnav decided to detach himself from her... I am still surprised as to why he can't talk to her and clear things instead of running away! Then what his father told him was the truth ultimately...

He offered to have a baby to Khushi even after knowing complications in Payal's delivery so it's not Khushi he is worried about, something really about having to take care of baby bothers him... We need to know why?

So sad for Khushi, she gets to know about his affair indirectly on her wedding anniversary and her husband is no show! If he had any respect for their marriage, at least he shoud be the one to confess and divorce but this is the worst way for her to know! Poor Khushi, my heart goes out to her!

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: Arilip

I am sorry, I know he has done unforgivable!!! But I really can’t think khushi to be a victim anymore…. The whole family only wanted something or other from him … if he complied then fine otherwise he was left alone……. This went on for almost a year, their fights about baby began somewhere 2014!!!! First time he denied something!!!! I remember she was insistent that he was wrong in not attending the puja, I always hated it in the show also when they forced him for these things. It’s one’s belief and everyone had rights over this. I can’t believe she kept running away leaving him to deal with his loneliness!!!!! Months of no talking, going and living with amma babuji!!! is she real …. I know I am going to be told off but as a wife you to have duties, the stupid woman spent all her energy in running away. If you are insecure tell him, don’t distance yourself by telling him you find his interest boring!!! He was a considerate husband, he would have worked towards it!!! No one can guess what you are feeling if you don’t tell them. I am really sorry, though she didn’t deserve the ultimate betrayal…. I find it hard to be empathetic to this khushi . It’s difficult for a husband too that his wife is unhappy and he has to only guess , he tried going beyond his beliefs to see a genuine smile on her face. Why not assure him that children or not they have each other!!!

I believe after Leher’s birth, with Payal suffering postpartum depression Aakash too was not available!!! Lavanya came to his life at this point, he found it easy with her not expecting anything from him just friendship and that lead to the ultimate fall of grace for him!!! He collected himself back but it was already too late!!! He had done what is an ultimate betrayal to his wife.This doesn’t let him off the hook…. He should have ended his marriage or talked to khushi first!!!

I see no companionship in both of them, they never discussed anything between them. They both let the other guess how they are feeling, that’s not a true relationship!!!

Thank you for the update, don’t forget to start thinking about the redemption fanfic. That pen is awesome!!!

I was dreading this update but I feel light after days.


Thanks ari ♥️♥️


Redemption fanfic is far far away. We’re not even through this one 😅😅😅😅


I understand the rant. As I said, flawed story, flawed people.


However, it doesn’t state anywhere that Khushi was gone for months. She visited Lucknow frequently, but never for long. In 2014 flashback she was gone for two days. Her asking Arnav to come to puja was given the basis that the family missed him and people talked. She is well aware that her husband is an atheist as mentioned in her interlude.


The reason for a few of her longer stretch stays hasn’t been mentioned yet in the story. Especially the one where Khushi chooses to come back to bhagwanpur while Arnav goes away on his annual trips. Also, the baby disagreement has worsened now, a decade after the marriage which meant she clearly waited. While at one point, Arnav had decided that he can give this a shot for Khushi, the distance from Arnav did make her realize she wanted him and not the kid, the exact content of her letter. As any couple, they were bound to have disagreements, especially something as big as this. Just in their case, by the time both reached out, things have gone messy.


Again, all the communication efforts last year have been from Khushi. Arnav’s words.


It’s no secret that Arnav had felt lonely at this point in his marriage. He is the one who contemplated divorce first; realising that maybe the differences were too big. This is also the same Arnav who had realized he misread Khushi and she had not given up on the marriage like he thought. The things are definitely twisted and complex and absolutely not easy. And they’re just going to be tangled more 😅

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: SwatStar_Arshi

What an heart wrenching moments for Khushi!

So even Arnav's family knows he doesn't want kids but it's still not clear why he doesn't want kids; I guess we will find out in next few chapters...

I am guessing Lavanya / Manali sent Khushi pics; only La can benefit from Khushi seeing the pics.. Hopefully the details of the affair will follow soon in the next chapter!

Wonderful chapter as usual Arpita, taking care of his family and him costed Khushi when Arnav decided to detach himself from her... I am still surprised as to why he can't talk to her and clear things instead of running away! Then what his father told him was the truth ultimately...

He offered to have a baby to Khushi even after knowing complications in Payal's delivery so it's not Khushi he is worried about, something really about having to take care of baby bothers him... We need to know why?

So sad for Khushi, she gets to know about his affair indirectly on her wedding anniversary and her husband is no show! If he had any respect for their marriage, at least he shoud be the one to confess and divorce but this is the worst way for her to know! Poor Khushi, my heart goes out to her!

thanks a lot Swati ♥️♥️♥️


Yeah Khushi couldn’t have found out on a worst day, in the worst way. The baby topic is sensitive for both. And yet at one point both of them have budged from their belief for the other. Ideally, both of the, should have gone through the court mandated counselling because god knows they need it! 😅😅😅

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Posted: 2 years ago

Beautiful story dear,every single character has been written with so much depth.

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Posted: 2 years ago

I don’t even know what to say after reading this. I felt bad for everyone, Arnav, his parents and my heart just broke for Khushi.

Khushi leaving for bhagwanpur in October might have pushed Arnav but all these guesses can wait. We will come to know about everything in next chapter.

But right now I feel like nobody deserves that and that too on their anniversary. No wonder Khushi now has no expectations from Arnav as her husband. Who would?

Though I do believe photographs can be deceptive. The situation in some of them might be different. But whatever does it even matter. Arnav did cheat on her.

While reading about them made me sick in the stomach, how would a wife have felt, your husband making out with other woman. Hearing about it is bad and here she saw it.

Somebody played a nasty game by sending them but I personally feel it’s good she got them.

Khushi’s trust is broken so much, Arnav even if now pours his heart out now, does everything she wants will not be able to win it back. Does not happen in real life.

Khushi might have not understood him on many levels before but I don’t think she would make any efforts now. Arnav could not put up with a loving and caring wife before as he felt she did not understand him, does he even have it in himself to try and make the marriage work now, when he will be the one doing most of the work. Khushi actually in her heart left him forever.

There are 3 more heartbreaking parts coming.😭

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: VeiledWords


Thanks ari ♥️♥️


Redemption fanfic is far far away. We’re not even through this one 😅😅😅😅


I understand the rant. As I said, flawed story, flawed people.


However, it doesn’t state anywhere that Khushi was gone for months. She visited Lucknow frequently, but never for long. In 2014 flashback she was gone for two days. Her asking Arnav to come to puja was given the basis that the family missed him and people talked. She is well aware that her husband is an atheist as mentioned in her interlude.


The reason for a few of her longer stretch stays hasn’t been mentioned yet in the story. Especially the one where Khushi chooses to come back to bhagwanpur while Arnav goes away on his annual trips. Also, the baby disagreement has worsened now, a decade after the marriage which meant she clearly waited. While at one point, Arnav had decided that he can give this a shot for Khushi, the distance from Arnav did make her realize she wanted him and not the kid, the exact content of her letter. As any couple, they were bound to have disagreements, especially something as big as this. Just in their case, by the time both reached out, things have gone messy.


Again, all the communication efforts last year have been from Khushi. Arnav’s words.


It’s no secret that Arnav had felt lonely at this point in his marriage. He is the one who contemplated divorce first; realising that maybe the differences were too big. This is also the same Arnav who had realized he misread Khushi and she had not given up on the marriage like he thought. The things are definitely twisted and complex and absolutely not easy. And they’re just going to be tangled more 😅

I am really not sure what exactly went wrong. With your reply I feel he was a complete jerk, who thwarted every single effort she made. My reading of the previous chapters and this one doesn’t suggest that!!!
Ten years is a awefully long time to wait for babies!!! I understand that but that time should also teach that it’s a dead duck and start picking your priorities !!! I would understand the nieve girl from village didn’t understand, but didn’t she work in a ngo supporting wronged women!!! How did she turn blind eye to her relationship!!!! She herself was thinking it was three of them on one side and he on the other. I understand she didn’t think that Arnav will move on so fast!!! But wasn’t she aware of how he felt responsible for everything. He has taken responsibilities for very young age and that puts a lot of pressure on anyone……. He hadn’t wanted to talk I understand but she was happy to hide about the pills ,but still let him go though the thought of having to give in to his biggest scare crow. He always thought that one thing he finds so difficult is the only thing she wants. For the responsible person like him it came like a big blow, and he had cut loose on all his ties….


I feel I am the one who doesn’t understand the story, I feel like he was the one trying to keep it all together. Wasn’t he the one asking her to accompany him to the party , he was the one who celebrated their anniversaries . Why is khushi always on the periphery? I feel khushi couldn’t adjust to the changes in the lifestyle after they came to money, and woke up too late . To me her letter came months late if not year!!!


And Arnav did the unthinkable within few months of not even formal separation !! A decade of marriage failed in few months. Is it so easy to move on?


My heart goes for khushi for the way she found out, but it looks like a big conspiracy against her and everything spiralled beyond their control. Arnav had wanted to talk to khushi but because of his guilt and ego he couldn’t come up clean. And everything went out of hands.


It would be really interesting to see how they rebuild this relationship, if they even do.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Loved the update. But pls After Khushi knows Arnav cheating I want Her stand about the Marriage . Pls update it

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Posted: 2 years ago

Arpita, I am so sad for Khushi. With the dates you affixed to the chapters, his behavior and the pictures in the restaurant, an unknown place and the balcony it does seem like it was an on going affair and not a one time mistake; two shots in the restaurant where they were clearly physically close and two on the balcony becoming more intimate. How many other times were they together when he didn’t come home, came home late and was often out of town with her not even knowing where he was. Of course, we don’t have Arnav’s take but I can tell you, I don’t care what he feels. My heart hurts for Khushi. I don’t know how many times he slept with her but he was definitely cheating for awhile.

His dynamics with his parents and Khushi trying to hold it together for him was as I thought. I remember how close Khushi was to Ratna and that Arnav’s father was incapacitated when he got sick so it was difficult for his parents to come to Mumbai. Khushi knew the estrangement was tearing Arnav apart. She was trying to make it better for all.

I am assuming the falling out and the baby issues have to do Anjali and her baby. I also, never got the idea that she was away from Mumbai for huge long periods over the years. But, there might have been something dealing with Anjali that required her to be gone at some point for a longer period of time.

I am guessing Lavenya sent Khushi the pictures. Manali asked her why she did it. We don’t know what she did but it could have been that. I wonder what she was grieving? What was Arnav unavailable for? Continuing the affair?

I have always felt that Arnav set the perimeters in their marriage. Khushi tried to accommodate his moods and actions. Arnav pulled away first and really became brutally distant from Khushi. Khushi foolishly thought he would come around at some point and thus let it be. They seemed to only confront things in a superficial manner for reasons I have stated in some of my previous posts. . She was always available to him which I think he knew as certain things were written in previous chapters that indicated that. And, he knew she still loved him and would be devastated. As I’ve said many, many times in my posts, infidelity for me is irredeemable. The end! That’s it! I don’t care how lonely, etc, etc , etc that made him do it.

Universal themes have us women captivated by your story. We may not have been through the devastation that Khushi is now enduring but we can still cry over a sad movie and sad story.

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Posted: 2 years ago

Originally posted by: VeiledWords


Thanks ari ♥️♥️


Redemption fanfic is far far away. We’re not even through this one 😅😅😅😅


I understand the rant. As I said, flawed story, flawed people.


However, it doesn’t state anywhere that Khushi was gone for months. She visited Lucknow frequently, but never for long. In 2014 flashback she was gone for two days. Her asking Arnav to come to puja was given the basis that the family missed him and people talked. She is well aware that her husband is an atheist as mentioned in her interlude.


The reason for a few of her longer stretch stays hasn’t been mentioned yet in the story. Especially the one where Khushi chooses to come back to bhagwanpur while Arnav goes away on his annual trips. Also, the baby disagreement has worsened now, a decade after the marriage which meant she clearly waited. While at one point, Arnav had decided that he can give this a shot for Khushi, the distance from Arnav did make her realize she wanted him and not the kid, the exact content of her letter. As any couple, they were bound to have disagreements, especially something as big as this. Just in their case, by the time both reached out, things have gone messy.


Again, all the communication efforts last year have been from Khushi. Arnav’s words.


It’s no secret that Arnav had felt lonely at this point in his marriage. He is the one who contemplated divorce first; realising that maybe the differences were too big. This is also the same Arnav who had realized he misread Khushi and she had not given up on the marriage like he thought. The things are definitely twisted and complex and absolutely not easy. And they’re just going to be tangled more 😅

I am still confused about this Arnav's behavior!

If he is lonely, he makes zero efforts to reach out to his wife, he knows she is trying hard by insisting on him return to their bedroom, staying awake for him, initiating small talks but he ignored her royally, continued sleeping in the study room and slowly detached himself from her... Had he called / texted just once saying I miss you, need you next to me; let's make this work, this Khushi would have never gone! Khushi is feeling just like Anamika due to his less efforts and aloofness but still hangs in there!

He was going on business trips and she would visit their native and meet parents, she attended his important parties with him and expected him to attend his family's important events. Both were doing these chores before also and trusted each other immensely but he slowly cut off the communication as well, as Khushi mentioned they talked / texted when one of them was sick, why?

For an astute businessman, how is he zero in relationships?? His parents moving to Lucknow was a sign his father expected him to realize he was apologizing! Also note his mom is sick so Khushi might be visiting a bit more but why didn't he? And he didn't even realize what Khushi has achieved for him, bridging the distance between his parents and him, his parents were visiting Mumbai for their anniversary... He was already gone too far???

I really want to understand why he did not want kids and if he could tell his family, why didn't he say it at the time of the marriage? He wanted his parents in Mumbai, baby would have bridged that gap, his mother too was waiting for one for 10 long years and he could put that condition to his parents before having a baby, astute businessman didn't think about this?

Also if he was scared how to handle babies though I am willing to wait for his reasons, they could have visited gynac / counselor, baby sit Leher sometimes to gain experience, adopt a puppy to feel the responsibiltiy towards another life! He could have simply shared his thoughts for not having baby to either convince her or get assurance from her that she will take max responsibilties etc. So many simple ways, why he specifically chose to walk away from Khushi and what made him hate her??

I am not convinced baby was the only reason... Was he lured into Lavanya's web? Her aggression, no string attached offerings ie. basically sex became so important for the righteous man like Arnav that he behaved his wife doesn't exist, avoided her like plague walking out as soon as she entered the room??

Let's accept he has moved on with Lavanya or away from Khushi, why couldn't he confess to Khushi as soon as he got involved with Lavany physically or a bit emotionally the very first time? Didn't she deserve the honesty from him to know it from him; instead of affair / divorce decision behind her back? Then he couldn't even face her on the anniversary forget wishing her, also he had an opportunity to cancel the celebrations owing to his father's health than to run through the facade?

Biggest question, so called righteous man, why wasn't he honest to himself? Did he change so much with success and money that he started to hate / ill treat woman (or parents, sis or others for that matter) he claimed to love, promised her forever and yet he ignored years of wonderful relationship, their journey from rag to riches together, her unconditional love & support, sacrifices and managing his family too? I am in tears...

He wanted to use La as an excuse to convince Khushi for divorce, compensate her years with alimony when the money is equally her too and he wanted to explain her to get closure for himself if not for her (his own words).. I agree with Payal, god knows Khushi from this story deserves better!

How much ever I want cut this Arnav some slack, I cannot.. I am waiting for next few chapers and request you to please give un weekly updates girl! We love your story so much and so involved, I feel we deserve it...

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