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Originally posted by: Pujakrishna

Ahh Swati, your rant on arnav gives so much peace to my burning heart. Thank you.❤❤

I am not reading comments anymore, i don't feel like, almost all of us are saying the same thing with different words, which basically is, how miserable is khushi and how terrible is ASR . All these analysis are making me miserable now and i am unable to shake off the gloominess that i am carrying around since yesterday. So i am not reading any of the deep analysis anymore, but your rant on arnav definately gave me some peace. If we see it that way, you are right on your observation of arnav, also may be because we all are hating him at this point. You have indeed taken a deep dive in arnav's complex character.

Now,

I don't think arpita is bias towards arnav, but even if it comes out like this it can be because-

• She knows the whole story that we don't, there is lot of revelations to happen.

• She in her mind is lot more clear about the whole story & all the characters than we are, for the simple reason that she's the creator of all of them.

• And the most important, i think because she is the creator and the characters are her brainchild, i think unless she doesn't feel a little empathetic towards arnav she will not be able to write anything at all on his pov. I have heard so many writers and actors say this. Let's take the example of probably world's most complex literature "Mahabharat", even while writing/acting for characters like Shakuni and Duryodhan one has to feel empathetic towards them and believe that they had their reasons in doing what the did. Because i guess for every individual when we do some action we in our mind are fully convinced that we are doing the right thing, because we are thinking from our pov...so the writer/actor at that point should also convince themselves that. But does that make Draupadi's cheer-haran legitimate? No right. So similarly NOTHING makes arnav's betrayal to khushi right, but as a writer probably arpita in her mind needs to feel a little emphatetic while writing him and his struggles, which is a tough job i guess. Arpita said once in a comment that it takes her a lot to not let her own disdain towards 'cheating' seep in the story. But we as readers can absolutely disdain anyone we want to.

I don't know if i am right in my understanding, never been a writer but yeah that's how i feel.

And I HATE ARNAV at this point, only if I could get my hands on him, i would kick and damage his * then no lavanya will come near him. Only if khushi could do his. But that woman will not. This would be the ultimate revenge Swati.😉

Thanks puja🥰♥️ …even I didn’t think this deeply.but it does make sense now that I think about it.

I think I’ve been very careful about what and who do I defend in the comments; reminding myself where we are in the story (including Khushi’s actions - I couldn’t tell right away that she was behaving this broken because she knew of the cheating)

For eg I’ve always defended old Arnav. In the new Arnav I only defended things which he didn’t do. Like he wasn’t somebody who randomly rushed to Umanagar. I’ve defended Khushi too. When her actions seem really passive, I reminded people that she is likely depressed, pretty much broken. People don’t make sane decisions in those scenarios.

rest of course the revelations have already begun. You guys have been quite on point with things regarding Khushi. Like involvement of photographs, things happening on the day of anniversary in the study. You guys will have your chance to say how close your investigation got to Arnav’s case 😉

Originally posted by: SwatStar_Arshi

Aha Arpita gave me fab explanation; it makes so much more sense! Its just such a sorry state of affair.. The guy had everything going extra ordinary.. We can find flaws as well as pluses in both but they worked as a couple very well for years and whatever involvement each had on different situation, one of them stepping up and taking lead which is what normal couples do...

Akash was shocked to hear about La from Arnav, Payal hopping mad but never suspects adultry is an indication Arnav's affair and everything he did after is out of his charachter as Nimbus pointed out.. Now trying to fix marriage & counselling is too late as Khushi is done with him! Did he really lack communication skills or was he already in conversation with the other woman instead of talking to his wife??? We will see.

I have been telling myself 100 times I want to know his thought process during affair with Lavanya! How did he allow other woman to step in without sorting differences with his wife or even closing chapter with his wife is still mind boggling for me? Since it is already established he was no womanizer, does this mean Manali and La together were more astute and always few steps ahead of him? He knew La's history with married men, vile nature to kill other actress's career, knows how cunning, lethal Manali is and still he found companionship in La, really?????? Hard to digest but eagerly waiting..

Though Arnav has taken Khushi granted for her docile behavior but his tremendous guilt, hurt ego and sleepless nights indicate even he did not peg himself to be cheating on Khushi..

In the end, this is going to leave life long scar for Khushi even if they reconcile, she will keep asking herself this what I get for all these years of true love and loyalty and he has to live with the fact that he has gone from hero to zero in his wife's and friends' eyes too... We will see how he will survive explaining himself for life every time he sees doubt in Khushi's eyes, worst punishment for so called righteous guy! Whether Khushi stays back or leaves him, now that he realized the damage he has caused, it's life long scar for him too! And he must let her free if he still does not want kids and sometimes in situation of too much damage, it's better to start with a clean slate!

Arpita, now that you know how crazily we are involved in this story, you should keep a fun competetion asking us for a story end and whichever is closer to what you thought, you can add their suggestions.. It will be super... Or maybe write the alternate end from one of our thoughts!

I have said this repeatedly, a lot of comments you guys make had me stumped and made me think deeply about characters that are my own imagination. It’s been a very different and enriching experience so far.

And that is such an awesome Idea 😂😂😂

So let’s play the game. here’s your chance to take a pick and stick to it guys.

How do you think the FF is going to end. I’m going to list all possible endings that I can think of.

1. Khushi & Arnav end up together
2. Khushi/Arnav end up with someone else
3. Khushi finds her freedom but not in another man or Arnav
4. Khushi and Arnav part amicably
5. Khushi and Arnav part on a bad note (he is in lifelong regret)
6. Something else (you guys can choose this option and tell me your own version)

Their marriage had ended long before the anniversary is what I feel. Previously I felt Khushi hadn't communicated because she was reserved considering her upbringing but now I feel that she didn't communicate because she felt he wanted to be left alone. I felt sorry for Arnav that he had strained relationship with his family but somehow I couldn't bring myself to justify his betrayal of Khushi. I can't even understand his behavior, yes, I can understand he was feeling uneasy and they had drifted apart due to work and baby but I still can't understand why he chose to sleep with Lavanya. Was it a careless, weak moment that he first slept with her? But why did he choose to continue it? Why couldn't he break it? Was his physical needs so important than Khushi? During the start of their marriage, he was able to control his needs... then what changed now? Did money and power change him?

Khushi finding out of the affair was so heartbreaking. Manali was behind it? Did Lavanya know? Or was it Lavanya's master plan?

As usual awesome update. Excited to read more... You have a wonderful way of keeping us hooked and wondering what will happen next. Awesome writing.

Arpita after reading all the comments one thing of which I am really sure is that the next chapter is going to be really emotionally draining. Its not going to be easy reading about Arnav and his struggles from his POV.

I have said this before, I can understand he chose divorce if that’s what he felt he wanted for himself.

I will sympathise with him for sure for other things but despite coming out with various scenarios in my mind about his cheating part, I don’t think I can forgive him. ( though there is one case in which I might feel it’s redeemable but I don’t think that’s even possible).

Rest with Arnav or not khushi has to become independent and get her freedom. For me everything else is secondary.

I would have commented later but because of AD I might be the last one to comment on next chapter so doing it now. I am going to have l serious FOMO of missing out on all the discussions 🙈.

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

Thank you Swati ♥️♥️♥️♥️

I have said this repeatedly, a lot of comments you guys make had me stumped and made me think deeply about characters that are my own imagination. It’s been a very different and enriching experience so far.

And that is such an awesome Idea 😂😂😂

So let’s play the game. here’s your chance to take a pick and stick to it guys.

How do you think the FF is going to end. I’m going to list all possible endings that I can think of.

1. Khushi & Arnav end up together
2. Khushi/Arnav end up with someone else
3. Khushi finds her freedom but not in another man or Arnav
4. Khushi and Arnav part amicably
5. Khushi and Arnav part on a bad note (he is in lifelong regret)
6. Something else (you guys can choose this option and tell me your own version)

I am confused between these 2

1. Khushi & Arnav end up together
2. Khushi finds her freedom but not in another man or Arnav.
   

i am really confused..i feel they might get divorce, arnav helps khushi with her education/finding self journey though from afar, may be using akash and Payal as fronts and then they meet again after some years and get together

i still think they will end up together though it wont be HEA.

Khushi deserves happiness after Arnav cheating . I think she will seperate from him and find a man and she deserves children

Originally posted by: VeiledWords

Thank you Swati ♥️♥️♥️♥️

I have said this repeatedly, a lot of comments you guys make had me stumped and made me think deeply about characters that are my own imagination. It’s been a very different and enriching experience so far.

And that is such an awesome Idea 😂😂😂

So let’s play the game. here’s your chance to take a pick and stick to it guys.

How do you think the FF is going to end. I’m going to list all possible endings that I can think of.

1. Khushi & Arnav end up together
2. Khushi/Arnav end up with someone else
3. Khushi finds her freedom but not in another man or Arnav
4. Khushi and Arnav part amicably
5. Khushi and Arnav part on a bad note (he is in lifelong regret)
6. Something else (you guys can choose this option and tell me your own version)

I am almost sure that you have not listed down the actual ending that you have in that head of yours.😂

Honestly I will be happy and sad both with whatever that is going to happen. The marriage ended the moment he crossed that boundary.

When you are committed to someone you don't allow yourself to find perfection/comfort in someone else. You cannot draw boundaries for others, but for yourself.

Ps- Arpita did you write any other story on arshi, i was checking you profile and people there are asking you for update for "Love is in the air" and requesting no to leave it from some 7yrs ago. If it is still there give the link please.

The story is set with divorce, infidelity and other woman actively part of the man's life. One knows it is not a story of reconcilation or love. It is a story of a man's journey.

A glimpse of the past is that it was of a young,happy couple, who together faced the struggles of life. Then it seems that the two started drifting apart as they want different things in life. Leading to infidelity and divorce.

No surprises as more of the past is revealed. It is one thing though to predict and another to read, that you were right about it.

You write well,evoking the right emotions. The last two chapters of Khushi's baptization by fire was really hard to read. Realizing I really don't have it in me to read about Arnav /La saga. Or even to discover who ends up with whom in the end or is justice served.

Thank you for sharing your work😘

Originally posted by: TianaWrites

Their marriage had ended long before the anniversary is what I feel. Previously I felt Khushi hadn't communicated because she was reserved considering her upbringing but now I feel that she didn't communicate because she felt he wanted to be left alone. I felt sorry for Arnav that he had strained relationship with his family but somehow I couldn't bring myself to justify his betrayal of Khushi. I can't even understand his behavior, yes, I can understand he was feeling uneasy and they had drifted apart due to work and baby but I still can't understand why he chose to sleep with Lavanya. Was it a careless, weak moment that he first slept with her? But why did he choose to continue it? Why couldn't he break it? Was his physical needs so important than Khushi? During the start of their marriage, he was able to control his needs... then what changed now? Did money and power change him?

Khushi finding out of the affair was so heartbreaking. Manali was behind it? Did Lavanya know? Or was it Lavanya's master plan?

As usual awesome update. Excited to read more... You have a wonderful way of keeping us hooked and wondering what will happen next. Awesome writing.

Originally posted by: tashi26

Arpita after reading all the comments one thing of which I am really sure is that the next chapter is going to be really emotionally draining. Its not going to be easy reading about Arnav and his struggles from his POV.

I have said this before, I can understand he chose divorce if that’s what he felt he wanted for himself.

I will sympathise with him for sure for other things but despite coming out with various scenarios in my mind about his cheating part, I don’t think I can forgive him. ( though there is one case in which I might feel it’s redeemable but I don’t think that’s even possible).

Rest with Arnav or not khushi has to become independent and get her freedom. For me everything else is secondary.

I would have commented later but because of AD I might be the last one to comment on next chapter so doing it now. I am going to have l serious FOMO of missing out on all the discussions 🙈.

Tashi! ❤️ ❤️
Take care of AD. I know a lot of you guys go through the comments first to test the waters before diving into the chapter. :D :D

May i suggest not to do that for the next one? Read through the whole thing first. You guys have tortured yourself for this very moment. Dont shy away now :p